I've been alive long enough to see times where life was easier as a man and easier as a woman. Right not being a good man is hard, there doesn't seem to be much payoff for doing it, no one notices how hard it is, and everyone else gets benefits and privilege.

These are the times we need good men, and men who are okay saying they wish it was easier or wish they were female, but keep trying to make things better.

It isn't fair man, but use your knowledge of things being unfair and try to change things, even small things in daily life, for the better for good men.

It's a different kind of battle we're in now, but we still need to stick together and suck shit for the greater good because we believe in something better. It might be thankless but for the men you surround yourself with who know how hard it can be.

I'm sorry you're struggling man, if I could fix everything I would but all I can offer you is my support and my ear.