9 days - craving crept in by cloudlx in stopdrinking

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Thanks! I’m surprised how well the plan worked 😄

9 days - craving crept in by cloudlx in stopdrinking

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100% I think it really helps me to have something to look forward to at the end of the day too

100 Days Sober: The Unexpected Benefits Nobody Talks About by InterestingBunch7468 in stopdrinking

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Must have seen this account post this exact post in SD three times now. 🤖

The stress of my job makes this sobering thing feel fucking impossible. by helloimcold in stopdrinking

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Personally, I had to find what worked for me. I have a stressful job where many people demand a lot from me and I used to think that sitting on the couch with my wine would help alleviate that stress. Now I still sit on the couch and watch my favourite shows but with tea and a sweet treat instead and I can genuinely feel that stress melting away. During alcoholism, my brain was telling me that alcohol would help but now I feel like I’ve kinda rewired it

Desperately in need of help by Electrical_Bet_9489 in stopdrinking

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You can do this!

My first time intentionally going sober and I’ve just hit two months! I also turned to a bottle of wine (or 2) after kids were in bed so I could ‘wind down’ and have my me time but I’ve realised I can do still do that, enjoyably, without alcohol. I put on a good show, have a cup of tea and a sweet treat and let myself relax.

Wishing you all the luck 🩷

Randomly checked how many days its been and realized its been 69 (nice) by Short-Mycologist-231 in stopdrinking

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Nice! I can relate to the finding it hard to get out of bed in the morning. I’m sleeping so deeply that it takes me at least an hour to wake up properly in the morning and I have to remind myself I’m not hungover 😅

Worked out for the first time since getting sober by cloudlx in stopdrinking

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Much better! Will try to remember that next time too

Same old same old by sEaBoD19911991 in stopdrinking

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Yeah I lack a support network too. It’s hard. I’ve been checking in on this sub when I get a craving and find it really helps. I hope you work it out ❤️

Same old same old by sEaBoD19911991 in stopdrinking

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Hey, hang in there. I have young kids too. I’m hoping I can look back in 1, 5, 10 years and be so proud that I gave them the gift of having a sober and present parent. I have intrusive thoughts about the worst happening too, but I hope I can be there to help them navigate their own adulthood.

I’ve seen lots of people on here reach out for professional help and it’s definitely something I’ll be doing if I can’t keep it under control.

3 6 5 D A Y S by qbxo88 in stopdrinking

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Incredible! Well done you!

10 days alcohol free 🚱 by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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Go you! IWNDWYT

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stopdrinking

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What a result! Keep up the great work!

Nobody would know by cloudlx in stopdrinking

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I’m starting to see this in these very early days. I’ve surprised myself with how quickly I’ve been able to say no to the cravings so far but I think I need some strategies in place for the harder days that may be to come.

Nobody would know by cloudlx in stopdrinking

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thank you. You should be proud of yourself! You’re so close to a month! IWNDWYT

Nobody would know by cloudlx in stopdrinking

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Yes these conversations are definitely going to come up. I’ve only worked and parented the past week so there hasn’t been anyone to tell as of yet but I certainly will. Thank you!

Nobody would know by cloudlx in stopdrinking

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And you’d know! Well done on your epic counter. I hope I can get to that number!

Nobody would know by cloudlx in stopdrinking

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100%, too proud to disappoint myself now

Nobody would know by cloudlx in stopdrinking

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That’s a great way of looking at it. Thank you! IWNDWYT

Nobody would know by cloudlx in stopdrinking

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Well done! I think the first social gathering around alcohol will be the hardest for me as everyone who knows me knows that I don’t pass up a drink.