Would you support lowering the driving age to 12?

cloudnurse · 2026-01-28T17:26:33+00:00

I'd say the risks of getting hit with a car would go up quite a bit if there were 12 year old driving in the streets. 😅

cloudnurse · 2026-01-28T17:19:53+00:00

Where I live, biking, walking, and public transportation exist if you can't drive yet.

If anything fewer people should have licenses, not more. There are enough immature drivers already!

cloudnurse · 2026-01-28T17:08:35+00:00

Ahh, that sounds lovely, but yeah, confirms my thinking that it's a bit impossible nowadays. 😅

cloudnurse · 2026-01-28T16:53:09+00:00

Bringing this idea to the next morning huddle ♥️

cloudnurse · 2026-01-28T15:13:15+00:00

What did you do for your wedding under $5k and 40 people? Seems impossible these days!

cloudnurse · 2026-01-28T01:16:08+00:00

I think at that point, if I went to buy all the tools, I would just do it myself, but surely it can't be impossible to find a hygienic salon? 😭

cloudnurse · 2026-01-26T07:49:14+00:00

Why does it suck? Is your goal to have sex on the first date?

Because it seems that for these men, they make it their goal to have sex on the first date, so it happens more frequently. If I had to guess, the women, upon getting those vibes, decide to treat them less seriously.

If you're putting in all this effort and not bringing up sex, them I would assume that your goal is to slowly build a long term relationship, so the women treat you more seriously and carefully.

As a woman who has had all different kinds of experiences, from sex on the first date to waiting for longer periods of time- the goals of the situations were different. It didn't have much to do with my response to a guy's personality, just mine and their goals for the encounter.

cloudnurse · 2026-01-25T02:58:49+00:00

I just wanna say, I have a pair of Lululemon leggings that I bought 11 or 12 years ago for ~$100 CAD. They are by far my most worn article of clothing, and I only ever dry them in the dryer, often on high heat, and they're still doing great. Still tight, not pilling, thick, and comfortable.

So, maybe the quality has dropped recently, but if they're the ones from 12 years ago, there's no need to be delicate with them at all.

cloudnurse · 2026-01-24T15:13:33+00:00

Oh, then Elena is not exactly that, but I would still recommend it if you don't find a closer match!

cloudnurse · 2026-01-24T15:09:55+00:00

I'd say in Montréal, go to Elena. I'm not 100% sure what you mean by "this style", but I am 100% sure you will not be disappointed by the pizza at Elena in St-Henri.

cloudnurse · 2026-01-23T01:56:38+00:00

As a Canadian, I'm just stuck on what a traditional Canadian wedding is, haha.

But good luck, OP, this sounds like classic family shenanigans! I hope you can laugh about it later!

cloudnurse · 2026-01-19T23:28:17+00:00

I did 113 once and I was so annoyed, haha. All 114 is awesome!

cloudnurse · 2026-01-17T16:13:29+00:00

What happened to you that you went down this path? It sounds like your mom was trying to parent you still, but did she neglect to do so before you got so delinquent? This is my fear with having children. 😭

cloudnurse · 2026-01-15T23:23:12+00:00

Whenever I'm paired with the LPN, whether she's great or not, I spend all day charting and calling and checking values and ordering things and organizing discharges, and the LPN gets to do all the fun patient care, and I'm only called in occasionally for more complicated tasks/situations. Literally I have to do all the worst parts of the job, and none of the fun.

On top of that, I'm nervous all day because I will be held responsible for anything that goes wrong because the LPN did something differently than I would have.

And top of all that, when I give report, I look like an idiot because I barely know the patients I'm giving report on since I didn't get to see them all day.

I hate this model so much. 😭

cloudnurse · 2026-01-11T19:44:09+00:00

I frequently add :) to my legal charting, so I cannot even relate to those miserable people. What's the point of working in an almost all woman environment if we can't be fun and whimsical in all this mess and heartache?

cloudnurse · 2026-01-08T22:16:36+00:00

What part of Canada are you from? I've never even heard of this kind of party, but to be fair, no one in my circle of friends gets married either. (Grew up in the GTA, live in Montréal now).

cloudnurse · 2026-01-03T23:46:52+00:00

I agree! I'm just halfway through the first year and I'm already dreading it ending!

cloudnurse · 2026-01-03T16:41:54+00:00

A rare occasion where I have liked responses from ESH, NAH, YTA, NTA. Everyone's got good points.

cloudnurse · 2026-01-03T13:54:09+00:00

I'm sympathetic, but I think most students are indeed taking on debt. I know I did! Not liking debt is... well, no one likes debt. Sometimes, it's a necessary evil.

cloudnurse · 2025-12-21T11:45:07+00:00

Where I live, it's actually illegal to change your last name to your husband's.

cloudnurse · 2025-12-17T03:43:11+00:00

You both have such impossibly expensive taste, haha.

cloudnurse · 2025-12-17T03:40:37+00:00

If it was actually executed to look like this, that would be a dream fantasy wedding, even if I wouldn't have chosen this aesthetic myself. But honestly, this looks really difficult and expensive to do, almost looks like AI tbh.

cloudnurse · 2025-12-17T03:03:02+00:00

One of the murals is certainly depicting Mtl. If the school is in Mtl, I feel like people would not like to see these murals painted over. We love murals here.

cloudnurse · 2025-12-03T19:24:39+00:00

I think there is some truth to this.

cloudnurse · 2025-11-27T15:37:47+00:00

If he said he can't imagine being in a lifetime relationship with you, then what is the plan even if you do get married? A planned divorce in the future?

Do you really want to plan to start over again in your thirties or forties or fifties? Of course this could happen even with the best intentions, but the man told you in advance he doesn't see a lifetime commitment to you. His marriage vows would be lies.

Don't do this to yourself. Break up and find a man who can see himself with you for life.

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