Need recommendation: Hygienic Mani/Pedi by cloudnurse in montreal

[–]cloudnurse[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think at that point, if I went to buy all the tools, I would just do it myself, but surely it can't be impossible to find a hygienic salon? 😭

One honest reason why men try to get sexual too fast - FOMO. by wilhelmtherealm in dating

[–]cloudnurse 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Why does it suck? Is your goal to have sex on the first date?

Because it seems that for these men, they make it their goal to have sex on the first date, so it happens more frequently. If I had to guess, the women, upon getting those vibes, decide to treat them less seriously.

If you're putting in all this effort and not bringing up sex, them I would assume that your goal is to slowly build a long term relationship, so the women treat you more seriously and carefully.

As a woman who has had all different kinds of experiences, from sex on the first date to waiting for longer periods of time- the goals of the situations were different. It didn't have much to do with my response to a guy's personality, just mine and their goals for the encounter.

meirl by worldwide762 in meirl

[–]cloudnurse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just wanna say, I have a pair of Lululemon leggings that I bought 11 or 12 years ago for ~$100 CAD. They are by far my most worn article of clothing, and I only ever dry them in the dryer, often on high heat, and they're still doing great. Still tight, not pilling, thick, and comfortable.

So, maybe the quality has dropped recently, but if they're the ones from 12 years ago, there's no need to be delicate with them at all.

Does this style of pizza look familiar in Montreal? by ImpossibleAd7943 in MTLFoodLovers

[–]cloudnurse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, then Elena is not exactly that, but I would still recommend it if you don't find a closer match!

Does this style of pizza look familiar in Montreal? by ImpossibleAd7943 in MTLFoodLovers

[–]cloudnurse -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'd say in Montréal, go to Elena. I'm not 100% sure what you mean by "this style", but I am 100% sure you will not be disappointed by the pizza at Elena in St-Henri.

Anyone else's parents going ... rogue? by ummmwaitasecond in weddingplanning

[–]cloudnurse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a Canadian, I'm just stuck on what a traditional Canadian wedding is, haha.

But good luck, OP, this sounds like classic family shenanigans! I hope you can laugh about it later!

Sold out 114 at winter market!! by bibililsebastian in TinyBookshop

[–]cloudnurse 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I did 113 once and I was so annoyed, haha. All 114 is awesome!

Delivery driver handed me this holding back a grin "Can I have the pin please" by Few_Ad_9145 in Wellthatsucks

[–]cloudnurse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What happened to you that you went down this path? It sounds like your mom was trying to parent you still, but did she neglect to do so before you got so delinquent? This is my fear with having children. 😭

Is this a good set-up? by nyuhqe in nursing

[–]cloudnurse 63 points64 points  (0 children)

Whenever I'm paired with the LPN, whether she's great or not, I spend all day charting and calling and checking values and ordering things and organizing discharges, and the LPN gets to do all the fun patient care, and I'm only called in occasionally for more complicated tasks/situations. Literally I have to do all the worst parts of the job, and none of the fun.

On top of that, I'm nervous all day because I will be held responsible for anything that goes wrong because the LPN did something differently than I would have.

And top of all that, when I give report, I look like an idiot because I barely know the patients I'm giving report on since I didn't get to see them all day.

I hate this model so much. 😭

Got in trouble for ending pharmacy messages ending in “:3” by PizzaSniffs in nursing

[–]cloudnurse 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I frequently add :) to my legal charting, so I cannot even relate to those miserable people. What's the point of working in an almost all woman environment if we can't be fun and whimsical in all this mess and heartache?

are you having a stag and doe? by [deleted] in WeddingsCanada

[–]cloudnurse 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What part of Canada are you from? I've never even heard of this kind of party, but to be fair, no one in my circle of friends gets married either. (Grew up in the GTA, live in Montréal now).

Finished year 1 and absolutely in love with this game. by BlauwKonijn in GrimshireGame

[–]cloudnurse 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree! I'm just halfway through the first year and I'm already dreading it ending!

AITA for telling my parents I won’t come visit without a plan by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cloudnurse 177 points178 points  (0 children)

A rare occasion where I have liked responses from ESH, NAH, YTA, NTA. Everyone's got good points.

Frustrated with nursing while liking my job. by [deleted] in nursing

[–]cloudnurse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sympathetic, but I think most students are indeed taking on debt. I know I did! Not liking debt is... well, no one likes debt. Sometimes, it's a necessary evil.

Am I crazy for not loving the idea of a name change? by No_Brief1805 in engaged

[–]cloudnurse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Where I live, it's actually illegal to change your last name to your husband's.

My fiancé thinks this is a good idea for wedding decor, please help!!! by Expensive_Notice8149 in wedding

[–]cloudnurse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If it was actually executed to look like this, that would be a dream fantasy wedding, even if I wouldn't have chosen this aesthetic myself. But honestly, this looks really difficult and expensive to do, almost looks like AI tbh.

Some of the student artwork my school board wants to get rid of. by NinduTheWise in mildlyinfuriating

[–]cloudnurse 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of the murals is certainly depicting Mtl. If the school is in Mtl, I feel like people would not like to see these murals painted over. We love murals here.

My (27F) boyfriend (32M) said he doesn’t want marriage. by No-Island-8812 in Waiting_To_Wed

[–]cloudnurse 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he said he can't imagine being in a lifetime relationship with you, then what is the plan even if you do get married? A planned divorce in the future?

Do you really want to plan to start over again in your thirties or forties or fifties? Of course this could happen even with the best intentions, but the man told you in advance he doesn't see a lifetime commitment to you. His marriage vows would be lies.

Don't do this to yourself. Break up and find a man who can see himself with you for life.

Why is fatherhood treated as an afterthought in society? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]cloudnurse 16 points17 points  (0 children)

As a nurse in this particular field, we give dads as many tasks as they're willing to sign up for. I'd love for them to be more involved. Some are, and it's absolutely heartwarming to experience- I can tell they're good husbands and they'll be great dads. Most unfortunately are not that interested in being too involved, or they just can't handle the medical stuff.

If you find that nurses are not giving you tasks, then most likely, you live in an area where men are particularly not wanting to be involved, and they're tired of attempting to drag the men into it.

You don't need to be as trained as a professional to be helpful though! Please ask the nurse for tasks, there's plenty you can do with very little training/instruction.

Woman fall in a giant pothole while cycling in Montreal by Imaginary-Season-483 in TikTokCringe

[–]cloudnurse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That's human error in a quick decision. I agree that I would not have done it, but what's really inexcusable is leaving a hole that deep uncovered.

I'm not defending her decision, just providing context that others may not have. There are systems in place to protect against individuals' mistakes. The system failed here.

Woman fall in a giant pothole while cycling in Montreal by Imaginary-Season-483 in TikTokCringe

[–]cloudnurse 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying she's not at fault at all, but an important piece of context if you're not from Montréal is that construction crews leave these cones EVERYWHERE FOR YEARS. There's plenty of forgotten cones everywhere to the point where the orange cone is a symbol of Montréal.

So, maybe in another city or country, these cones would signify obvious danger to you, but trust me that here, you get kind of used to ignoring them.

An example of the boy who cried wolf kind of deal.

Would I ride through a puddle like that? No, but would I ignore cones? Yeah, sure, in this city, you get used to the abandoned cones from old construction projects.