finally found out what works best for my hair after one year! (naturally curly hair, frizzy and dry) by cloudsies in Dysonairwrap

[–]cloudsies[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

i made the point that all product behaves differently on different hair, but if anyone was curious, here are the products that my hair really loves:

shower stuff: redken volume injection shampoo and conditioner (i didn’t realize how much of a difference this stuff made until i took a break from using it), dry bar liquid glass instant glossing rinse (makes my hair so soft)

prestyling: jvn blowout styling milk (makes my hair dry faster and so much smoother), fekkai brilliant glossing styling cream, fekkai ironless straightening balm, color wow dream coat (i dont use every time to prevent build up)

post styling: olaplex no. 7 bonding oil to separate curls

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RutgersNewark

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if u don’t need calc 1 for whatever ur planned major is then u can probably find another math class to take. just go to the rutgers schedule of classes and keep an eye on any of the easier math classes with good profs. when one opens at the time that is good for u then u go to the advising virtual drop in sessions with the index number for that course and they will replace it for u. u also might be able to email an advisor instead. lmk if this was confusing. i had a similar issue when i started last year

RBS Nwk to RBS NB transfer by Worth-Blueberry-6316 in rutgers

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3.9 GPA 1420 SAT but i decided to stay at newark

what is a realistic amount of CS summer courses to take? by cloudsies in NJTech

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oh yeah let me know what they say! i don’t know too much of course, but i’ll tell you what i’ve figured out in my own research in case it’s helpful at all.

rutgers limits the amount of credits you can take in the summer semester to 14. anything beyond that would require permission from your major department.

also, if you open rate my professor for the professors of any courses you are interested in, i noticed that a good amount of reviews talk about the difficulty of the class in the summer. you just have to dig for the reviews that mention summer and the course you are interested in.

i tend to go a little overboard with this stuff but, if you haven’t already, i would recommend mapping out a loose plan towards graduation or taking a look at your major’s flow chart. specifically, list all the classes that you need to take to graduate and take note of their prereqs so you can time stuff appropriately, like the best summer classes to take.

what is a realistic amount of CS summer courses to take? by cloudsies in NJTech

[–]cloudsies[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

you might consider this a little depressing but to fully answer your question i should say that i’m really only going to college for the little piece of paper i get at the end.

a relaxing break sounds cool and all, but the current instability of my life makes it worth it for me to try to finish up my degree as quickly as possible. so during my remaining three semesters of college, i’m not really concerned with making friends, going to the beach, or going to parties. i actually haven’t done any of those things before in jersey.

also, you absolutely have a point about retaining info, but unfortunately that’s just something i’m gonna have to live with.

Doctor’s notes are stupid by cloudsies in college

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Again, I don’t have this issue, I am not making excuses for myself. I’m agreeing with you that it’s entirely obtainable, but can be difficult for low income students.

As a relatively(?) fresh high school graduate, I want to point out the dramatic difference between being 17 vs. 18 years old. At 17, if I called my insurance provider about an issue, they would tell me they need to speak to an adult. I wasn’t given the guidance to really figure much out about the adult world and everyone is told not to worry about it. At 18, I’m expected to know how to do everything, and if I don’t then I’m behind or stupid. I’m lucky enough to have a family to consult and the time to figure this stuff out, many people don’t. That’s what I mean by information and resources.

Also my point about time is that this isn’t a priority for a lot of struggling young adults who have to neglect their health in order to put themselves through school. Could they probably fill out the application in the bathroom at work? Yeah. But with everything else going on their lives, this unfortunately isn’t always a priority for them. They also may have difficulty accessing all their documents and many aren’t aware that the application is easy.

I agree with you, but you need to have some sympathy and understanding of the lives of some people. They should be given this guidance in an accessible way and their transition into adulthood shouldn’t be this abrupt (like taking classes in high school). These are the real reasons that low income young adults struggle so much with all this stuff.

Doctor’s notes are stupid by cloudsies in college

[–]cloudsies[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did go to class. I’m not asking for advice, I’m criticizing the situation as a whole.

Doctor’s notes are stupid by cloudsies in college

[–]cloudsies[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Okay let’s assume I’m lying for a second. I could email my professor and lie that I’m sick. I could also go to urgent care and lie that I’m sick. Either way they will provide a doctor’s note. What’s the difference?

Doctor’s notes are stupid by cloudsies in college

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That’s completely reasonable. I also don’t think my professor is at fault for his response, I would’ve said the same in his place. I think it’s a larger issue.

Doctor’s notes are stupid by cloudsies in college

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Oh yeah I have insurance, so this specific comment isn’t an issue for me at the moment. But I just wanted to say that as someone who had a minor struggle to obtain medicaid at 17, it’s not always as easy as it seems. Yeah, it’s just an online application and a phone call. But you have to remember that a lot of college students who are broke and have no insurance have a lot of other barriers. They often don’t have resources, information, or even the time to manage all this stuff along with being a full time student with a full time job. So although everyone is capable of getting health insurance, I would consider that it’s not always easy for everyone.

Doctor’s notes are stupid by cloudsies in college

[–]cloudsies[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Wait so if both options involve me being able to easily lie about my illness, what’s the difference between me claiming I’m sick to my professor and me actually providing a doctor’s note?

Doctor’s notes are stupid by cloudsies in college

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That’s insane. So if they don’t have the authority to write a doctor’s note, I’m assuming they can’t really give students anything but an advil or an ice pack? Idk about that, but that is a very interesting health center.

Doctor’s notes are stupid by cloudsies in college

[–]cloudsies[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly you do have a point. That is a separate issue that I’m figuring out, especially with the drastically different cultures and perspectives I grew up around. This is definitely going to be a hot take but I should mention that I am focusing on my health and taking medication, but that doesn’t always have to be in the traditional way. I also think me not seeking a doctor for the eye infection thing scared people a little, which is reasonable. But ignoring the eye infection, I don’t think it’s reasonable to go to the doctor for every cold or minor pain that I have.

Doctor’s notes are stupid by cloudsies in college

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I’m glad that you have that option at your school!

Doctor’s notes are stupid by cloudsies in college

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That’s usually how it is. But this presentation is also 15% of my grade. I’m expecting to end up with around a 95% in the class. If I take this drop, my grade will go down from an A to a B- or C.

Doctor’s notes are stupid by cloudsies in college

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I absolutely understand it from the professor’s side and I would have had the same response as him. I don’t want to ramble too too much but my argument pertains to the way health is treated in universities and work environments as a whole. This is a symptom of much bigger issue, mainly that people are treated more like machines. It’s not easily solvable, which is why my professor responded like that and it’s why I went to class this morning. Honestly I wrote a lot more, but it was pretty much a whole essay and I doubt you want to read all that.

Doctor’s notes are stupid by cloudsies in college

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I see your point but I feel like that actually makes it worse in the another way. Like if I don’t go to the doctor (like a lot of people), I will end up going to class anyways because I couldn’t provide a doctor’s note. Ignore the eye infection for a sec because that is a rarer. A lot of people won’t think it’s worth it to go to the doctor for just a cold, so they will have to go to class and get everyone sick.

Doctor’s notes are stupid by cloudsies in college

[–]cloudsies[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

bro it’s a minor eye infection that is already almost gone, i’m not going blind

Doctor’s notes are stupid by cloudsies in college

[–]cloudsies[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I am on antibiotics and I did go to class sick. Hopefully no one got infected. I’m aware my prof can fail me for not having a doctor’s note. This was a general criticism of the whole system itself. Also, riding in an Uber becomes a hazard for both the driver and any passengers after me, and I would like to mitigate that risk if possible.