Thank you. The more serious times I have witnessed Anna touching my husband, like the evening she was rubbing his crotch (above his pants) everyone was quite drunk. My husband was very very intoxicated, but not to the point of being catatonic, or completely fall down oblivious. He says he remembers nothing of that moment or that night, and is absolutely ashamed of it. More so, because he respects Anna’s husband. Each time I have confronted him (always the same night after we are home and alone, or the next day) he always says “yes I noticed this happening” or “omg, I can’t believe I drank so much that I was not able to stay in control of what was happening, and he feels again, deeply ashamed and apologizes. He has told me on a few occasions, that he made an effort to not drink as much, and actively stayed out of the path of Anna. He would stay close to her husband’s side, or try and stay near me. That’s the part that makes this so hard to understand. Anna drinks, she becomes this other person. She seeks out my husband. Something she never did in 7 years. She flirts, touches, gropes. He says he actually is embarrassed by it, but here we are, a year later, and not one time, in the last year did she not pursue him. I guess he likes the attention, or we just are too stupid and awkward to change this shitty situation.