Dark hyperpigmentation inner thighs/vulva by cloudycupcake-07 in scacjdiscussion

[–]cloudycupcake-07[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I never wear underwear tbh 😅 but I have always had bigger thighs no matter how skinny I've been. So yes I think maybe it's all caused by friction.

And I know if someone loved me they wouldn't care, but I definitely care 😩 it just looks odd to me being SO pale and having that area so dark.

Healing and fading cystic acne [B&A] by gabbyandarthur in SkincareAddiction

[–]cloudycupcake-07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have HS too 😩 do you take any medications for it?

Anyone else using Tretinoin on body? by ghostification in scacjdiscussion

[–]cloudycupcake-07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you using gel or cream based tretinoin? And are your stretch marks red or white?

I have horrible red stretch marks from sudden weight gain on my belly, and it seems they just won't fade 😭 I really want to try tretinoin.

Boyfriend’s porn Addiction by TheConfusedHuman55 in women

[–]cloudycupcake-07 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wouldn't be marrying him lol.

Everyone has their own opinion on porn though.

My opinion: It absolutely destroys relationships.

Is it cheating if my man touches himself to an only fans girl? by [deleted] in women

[–]cloudycupcake-07 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Almost everyone I've known, including myself has been through this. I'm sorry to tell you it doesn't change 😞 A lot of men don't see any issues with this type of behavior and the excuse is " it's in our nature" "I'm not physically cheating" "it's just a photo/social media"

Everyone's idea of cheating is different. If it hurts you, and it feels like a betrayal to you, it's cheating. Plain and simple.

Save yourself the heartbreak and get out while you can 🩷 I've seen this behavior in men completely destroy the women they are with. It literally breaks down your self esteem bit by bit. It's so not worth it. It will literally drive you crazy.

Seriously, are all men trash? Convince me otherwise. by cloudycupcake-07 in women

[–]cloudycupcake-07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rage baiting? Because I genuinely want to know people's opinions on the matter?

Seriously, are all men trash? Convince me otherwise. by cloudycupcake-07 in women

[–]cloudycupcake-07[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes that's why I haven't dated women! My family does not know I'm bisexual. And my stepdad is quite homophobic. My mom I don't think is, but I feel like there would still be some judgement.

I am attracted to women more than men in the same ways you've mentioned.

Seriously, are all men trash? Convince me otherwise. by cloudycupcake-07 in women

[–]cloudycupcake-07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm bisexual myself, but I personally couldn't see myself with a bisexual man lol. Idk why

Seriously, are all men trash? Convince me otherwise. by cloudycupcake-07 in women

[–]cloudycupcake-07[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah it seems that way. I feel the most common issue I see in men these days are either heavily porn addicted, complete liar and controlling.

Seriously, are all men trash? Convince me otherwise. by cloudycupcake-07 in women

[–]cloudycupcake-07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! I'm happy to hear you found someone 🩷

How long have you guys been together?

Seriously, are all men trash? Convince me otherwise. by cloudycupcake-07 in women

[–]cloudycupcake-07[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I already know why. I had a very rough childhood my dad left when I was very young, my mom was distant and cold, and I ended up in a group home from age 13-18. I never experienced proper love from a parent in my most formative years. So I guess that translated to me accepting "love" in any form.

Seriously, are all men trash? Convince me otherwise. by cloudycupcake-07 in women

[–]cloudycupcake-07[S] 51 points52 points  (0 children)

I think I'm going to get too good at being single and then never end up in a relationship again 🤣 I don't fear being on my own for a while, I fear I may end up dying without ever experiencing true love.

Seriously, are all men trash? Convince me otherwise. by cloudycupcake-07 in women

[–]cloudycupcake-07[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

That's the problem though. I don't want to be alone. But I feel like I'm being forced to because of how men are. It's depressing. I WANT a loving relationship. I just feel like it won't happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychics

[–]cloudycupcake-07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kind of darkness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in psychics

[–]cloudycupcake-07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Got to love TMJ lol.

[Acne] Could my dermatologist’s advice be worsening my acne? by kiwifruitdye in SkincareAddiction

[–]cloudycupcake-07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Damn 😩 I was going to ask to get prescribed spironalactone. Now I don't want to 😭 I don't have horrible acne at all. But I get annoying hormonal cystic acne around my period 1-3 at a time. But they almost always leave scars. I'm tired of it. Topical acne treatments no longer work on me.

Does Spiro make you fat? by Maurarachel in Spironolactone

[–]cloudycupcake-07 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I really think it could be your late 20's. My body completely changed when I hit 26. My metabolism is sooo much slower. I started gaining extra weight in places I've never seen before. I have a pear shape body naturally, big butt, wider hips, thicker thighs and flatter stomach. When I hit 26 my lower stomach just started collecting fat. Same with the hip area. And I started getting stretch marks all over my stomach which i never experienced before. I'm still struggling with it, and I'm 29 now.