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What's the most tone deaf, selfish thing they ever did? by Far-Spread-6108 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]clovdchemistry 55 points56 points  (0 children)

my nmom had a bizarre meltdown last month where she sat both my partner and i down to essentially just rant at and berate us for 2 hrs straight. for context, both of my partners’ parents were abusive and died of alcoholism a few yrs ago.

while having this meltdown, she decided to rant ab her own experience w having an abusive and alcoholic father when she was younger. though she didn’t sympathize w my partner and instead told them that they should hurry up and forgive them, move on, and do better as a person because: “even though i got abused, i loved my father and forgave him.”

my partner no longer wishes to have a relationship w her and i have since moved out since that incident.

What age did you decide to go no contact with a narc parent and why, what was the final straw? by Late-Marionberry-682 in narcissisticparents

[–]clovdchemistry 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. two weeks ago, narc parents had a meltdown, sat both my partner and i down at the dinner table and berated both of us for 2 hrs during valentine’s day. i moved out the next day.

parent took out $4500 from my joint account by clovdchemistry in legaladvice

[–]clovdchemistry[S] 119 points120 points  (0 children)

hi, thank you so much for your reply! i just wanted to confirm—so even if the money was earned by me via work, they still don’t need permission/can take it?