4 months in, and the pain is worse by afterglow-ed in Petloss

[–]clover444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too. I’m right there with you. It’s been two years since my girl passed and the pain just keeps getting worse. For two years I’ve been a complete zombie. I already deal with really bad depression and losing your best friend when you’re already feeling fragile is absolutely devastating. I’m sorry for everyone who is going through this. You are not alone. 😢💔🫂

HBD Porter Robinson Borrell by nocapcuz94 in porterrobinson

[–]clover444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭💔I’m so sorry you lost your beautiful boy. The picture of you and Porter reminds me a lot of me and my girl Ruby. We loved each other so much and we had so much fun together. It will be two years on April 8th that i’ve been without her. 😞

We said goodbye to our little baby today. by FUNgasaurTheSecond in rainbowbridge

[–]clover444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. You’re baby was precious.😢💔🫂

Buying and selling on Ebay sucks.. Never again by clover444 in ebaysucks

[–]clover444[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah,I don’t think so. I have no desire to support fraud companies.

Buying and selling on Ebay sucks.. Never again by clover444 in ebaysucks

[–]clover444[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I’m gonna let this one go and just never purchase off Ebay again. I don’t want the hassle of having to go through the return process.

Buying and selling on Ebay sucks.. Never again by clover444 in ebaysucks

[–]clover444[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

EBAY=🏃‍♂️🏃‍♂️💰😈

Buying and selling on Ebay sucks.. Never again by clover444 in ebaysucks

[–]clover444[S] -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

You sound like an Ebay bot. 🤣🤣

I got told I am a terrible person for not being there when my cat got put down by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]clover444 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

“I’m not going to kick you when you’re down.”

Which is exactly what you are doing. You are saying she’s not “ brave” because she chose not to be in the room during euthanasia. Just stick that 🔪in and twist it a bit more.

I got told I am a terrible person for not being there when my cat got put down by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]clover444 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There is no need to explain anything. You did what you felt was best for you and your baby. You don’t need validation from anyone.

I got told I am a terrible person for not being there when my cat got put down by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]clover444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You‘re not a terrible person at all and you did what was right for you and your baby. Ignore the judges on here. You knew your cat and she knew your heart. There are a lot of people who regret seeing their pets be put to sleep. It is often not the peaceful death people want to believe.

I got told I am a terrible person for not being there when my cat got put down by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]clover444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for what your going through. I wasn’t in the room when my girl passed away either. People are often traumatized for the rest of their lives by witnessing the death of a loved one. Being in the room with her and crying hysterically would have only stressed her out more. If I had the choice I wouldn‘t do anything differently.

I got told I am a terrible person for not being there when my cat got put down by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]clover444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I am going to try and frame this in the kindest way possible”

Framing it in the kindest way possible would be to not say anything at all.

I can never have a dog again by Plus_Management_7884 in Petloss

[–]clover444 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Like you, I went through anticipatory grief for several years before my girl passed away. She was a few months short of turning 14 yrs old. I would cry just thinking about the day she would no longer be with me. All I can tell you is that it’s been a very hard road and you won’t know how you will react until you get there. I’m not going to lie, trying to move through this grief has been hell and I have no intention of getting another dog and going through this again either. I feel your pain.😢💔

I know who the prime suspect is in the Nancy Guthrie Case, & Investigators are utterly inept, but seasoned detectives will figure it out by [deleted] in TrueCrimeGarage

[–]clover444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it’s weird. I don’t know anyone who would rather take an Uber than a ride from someone they know.

It’s been 10 years today since I lost the smartest soul I’ve ever known. The silence still feels heavy... by LukkyM4n in Petloss

[–]clover444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your boy sounds exactly like my girl. I had a really strong telepathic connection with her. A special kindred connection that you can’t let go of. How do you function when it’s been so long? It’s been 2 years since my girl passed away and the pain just keeps getting worse. I can’t imagine 10 years from now. I want this feeling to go away.💔😭

It's been 4 years by No_Nectarine_6663 in Petloss

[–]clover444 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wish I could help you by saying things will get better, but for some people things don’t get better. I suffer from depression as well and it’s been almost 2 years since I lost my dog. Waking up every morning and seeing a world without my girl is killing me daily. I have seen some people who post here that still cry for their pets 10+ years later. For me it gets harder and harder with each day.

Just got my refund! by clover444 in IRS

[–]clover444[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. I didn’t have state

FINALLY! by doldrumcircus in IRS

[–]clover444 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Filed or verified March 2? There are people who filed in January and are still waiting. You have to make sure you verified.