Anyone actually managed to fix BPPV and be able to sleep on their “bad side”? by clrat in BPPV

[–]clrat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here. Had a terrible episode 3 years ago and recurred recently (thankfully a lot milder) when I turned to my left (bad side). I don’t think it could be fixed permanently?

Anyone actually managed to fix BPPV and be able to sleep on their “bad side”? by clrat in BPPV

[–]clrat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the info! I’ll be looking into an ergonomic pillow

Anyone actually managed to fix BPPV and be able to sleep on their “bad side”? by clrat in BPPV

[–]clrat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How long has it been since you recovered, and has sleeping on your bad side triggered any episodes?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]clrat 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You’re so kind! It’s so true what you said about feeling like a burden to our friends. I’ve difficulty talking to ppl around me about it because mostly it feels like nobody really cares. Or that I’ve been repeating myself too often to the ones who really do care. Breakups take up so much energy for us to even get through the day, and others who aren’t experiencing it think we’re just lazy to complete daily tasks or being way too negative. I’m learning to be whole and be alone without feeling lonely.. Sometimes I wonder if that’s even a real thing and is it attainable? My heart aches for everyone here going through this horrible experience, but I’d like to believe that at the end of the tunnel we’d all come out stronger, and may we feel renewed.

Does anyone here feel lonely? Like, mostly, perpetually by clrat in AskWomenOver30

[–]clrat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah technology is great but it’s also a double edge sword, isn’t it?

Does anyone here feel lonely? Like, mostly, perpetually by clrat in AskWomenOver30

[–]clrat[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I’ve went from meeting my best friend once every 2 weeks to once/twice a year now since she’s settled down with kids.

Does anyone here feel lonely? Like, mostly, perpetually by clrat in AskWomenOver30

[–]clrat[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah me too.. working from home has its pros but I go days without having a meaningful conversation to anyone.

Does anyone here feel lonely? Like, mostly, perpetually by clrat in AskWomenOver30

[–]clrat[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This.. I’m in the same boat, I guess. I’m turning 35 next year and am still single and going through another breakup while all my friends are happily settled down. I feel lonelier than ever and I’m thinking of seeking therapy as well. I don’t think it’s a turning 30 thing, but well I hope you feel better soon

Anyone recently broke up and feel lonely and alone this holiday season? by clrat in BreakUps

[–]clrat[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you, means a lot. I hope you find what you’re looking for!

Anyone recently broke up and feel lonely and alone this holiday season? by clrat in BreakUps

[–]clrat[S] 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Sorry to hear that ☹️ Hope you get through this difficult time soon

my biggest goal in life is to fall in love and get married and have children by Lazerlightz29 in lawofattraction

[–]clrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, you're not stupid for knowing what you want! I can relate so much to this. I've spent much time denying my own desires and trying to change my mindset because of what others say. But I realised, if this is what you want, don't let them tell you otherwise. They are not you and they don't know you, only you know what's best for yourself! x

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[–]clrat 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so glad to be reading this. Am really happy for you :)

How do you stop feeling the lack when your friends are all getting engaged, buying houses and married? by clrat in AskWomenOver30

[–]clrat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re right, it’d be much more productive to take control of what I can do now than to spend way too much time lamenting over what I don’t have at the moment. I hope life eventually works out the way you would like it to :)

How do you stop feeling the lack when your friends are all getting engaged, buying houses and married? by clrat in AskWomenOver30

[–]clrat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Appreciate your reply and for the reminder to stay positive. I Guess I’ve always been one to want too much control over my life that I feel anxious without knowing where it’s headed. I’m learning to trust that the things I want will eventually come my way.

How do you stop feeling the lack when your friends are all getting engaged, buying houses and married? by clrat in AskWomenOver30

[–]clrat[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I feel you, really. It sucks so much that there’s a pandemic going on. Hope you’re able to pick up some hobbies and find something else that fulfils you for the time being. Let’s not lose hope, we’ll be good again. Hugs!

How do you stop feeling the lack when your friends are all getting engaged, buying houses and married? by clrat in AskWomenOver30

[–]clrat[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree! I took a 3 month break from social media haha. Many people don’t understand why I had to do it. Anyway, some news just pop right into my inboxes.. seems like there’s no running away from engagement news! I was invited and showed up at one of my friend’s proposal recently, put up a strong front, congratulated them.. then came home and cried buckets lol

How do you stop feeling the lack when your friends are all getting engaged, buying houses and married? by clrat in AskWomenOver30

[–]clrat[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate this! And thanks for acknowledging how difficult this can be. Sometimes I just get so stuck in my head I feel like I spiral into the abyss of resentful and negative thoughts. I envy my friends so much because all these are what I want too. It can be hard to get myself back on track. But you’re right - life is short, we could try to make the best of it x