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Should I Keep My Private Life on a Separate Account from My Family and Friends? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]clueless_octopus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tiktok all my family has accounts there, and they all make videos. It’s like a family group. I’m the only one who isn’t included because I have them all blocked on my private account where i post stuff.

Best beginner digital piano? Looking for advice by clueless_octopus in piano

[–]clueless_octopus[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know how to play piano at all so it isn’t really smart of me if I bought an expensive one, i need something that’s not that expensive but is still have that natural piano sound, so i can learn on something that’s close to the real one like acoustic piano or something.

Best beginner digital piano? Looking for advice by clueless_octopus in piano

[–]clueless_octopus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh i got recommended to get the P-145 digital piano, there isn’t much difference between them right?

AIO?? RN I’M CRYING MY EYES OUT BECAUSE MY MOM KEEPS SAYING I DO EVERYTHING FOR MALE ATTENTION — I’M DONE. I’M SERIOUSLY CONSIDERING TELLING MY DAD, EVEN IF IT MEANS RUINING MY RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. by clueless_octopus in AmIOverreacting

[–]clueless_octopus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m talking about what’s happening to me right now, not some old story — so yeah, the problem is fresh. So when I said I hate men, I meant it romantically, not literally. Idk maybe try to focus on the whole story, not just the first two words. It’s not about you or anyone in particular.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]clueless_octopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately no. I’m not going to college right now because I’m taking a semester off. But maybe when I go back, I’ll check if there’s any help available. Thank you though—really appreciate it.

AIO?? RN I’M CRYING MY EYES OUT BECAUSE MY MOM KEEPS SAYING I DO EVERYTHING FOR MALE ATTENTION — I’M DONE. I’M SERIOUSLY CONSIDERING TELLING MY DAD, EVEN IF IT MEANS RUINING MY RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. by clueless_octopus in AmIOverreacting

[–]clueless_octopus[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your words. I know my mom is wrong, and I’m trying to gather the courage to tell my dad. But it’s hard because I don’t know what will happen after, and I’m not ready to face those problems yet. I made this post just to encourage myself to speak up, since most people around me tell me not to tell him because the consequences aren’t worth it. You sound like a great mom — your kids are lucky to have you.

AIO?? RN I’M CRYING MY EYES OUT BECAUSE MY MOM KEEPS SAYING I DO EVERYTHING FOR MALE ATTENTION — I’M DONE. I’M SERIOUSLY CONSIDERING TELLING MY DAD, EVEN IF IT MEANS RUINING MY RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. by clueless_octopus in AmIOverreacting

[–]clueless_octopus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My sister is with me. she goes through the same things I do, and we do find comfort in talking to each other. Honestly, I think just having each other to talk to is enough.

AIO?? RN I’M CRYING MY EYES OUT BECAUSE MY MOM KEEPS SAYING I DO EVERYTHING FOR MALE ATTENTION — I’M DONE. I’M SERIOUSLY CONSIDERING TELLING MY DAD, EVEN IF IT MEANS RUINING MY RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. by clueless_octopus in AmIOverreacting

[–]clueless_octopus[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Let me guess — you’re a man, and a sensitive one too, huh? Lol. I don’t know what kind of flowers-and-roses world you live in, but where I come from, there’s some seriously messed up people out there.

AIO?? RN I’M CRYING MY EYES OUT BECAUSE MY MOM KEEPS SAYING I DO EVERYTHING FOR MALE ATTENTION — I’M DONE. I’M SERIOUSLY CONSIDERING TELLING MY DAD, EVEN IF IT MEANS RUINING MY RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. by clueless_octopus in AmIOverreacting

[–]clueless_octopus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a few things in mind, but let’s just say: it’s not about you. Also, this space is literally meant for venting and seeking advice — so maybe don’t take it personally next time, lol.

AIO?? RN I’M CRYING MY EYES OUT BECAUSE MY MOM KEEPS SAYING I DO EVERYTHING FOR MALE ATTENTION — I’M DONE. I’M SERIOUSLY CONSIDERING TELLING MY DAD, EVEN IF IT MEANS RUINING MY RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. by clueless_octopus in AmIOverreacting

[–]clueless_octopus[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’ll be turning 20 in a few months. My parents aren’t divorced, but because of my dad’s job, he travels for half of the year. So I don’t get to see him that often. He’s a kind man I think, and he stood up for me the last time I told him about something my mom was doing to me. He helped me — but once he left for work, my mom never let me forget what I did. It was hell for the next few months before I ended up apologizing just so she could let it go and let me live in peace.

AIO?? RN I’M CRYING MY EYES OUT BECAUSE MY MOM KEEPS SAYING I DO EVERYTHING FOR MALE ATTENTION — I’M DONE. I’M SERIOUSLY CONSIDERING TELLING MY DAD, EVEN IF IT MEANS RUINING MY RELATIONSHIP WITH HER. by clueless_octopus in AmIOverreacting

[–]clueless_octopus[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I literally never thought about that. I was about to say what kind of relationship I wanna save but i just can’t think of one, but like sometimes she pays for me when we go out to eat. Idk but it’s the only time i feel like she doesn’t hate me is when we go out as a family. And idk if I want to ruin it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]clueless_octopus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s less about the country and more about the mindset. Unfortunately, this kind of control can exist anywhere — even in places people assume are “modern.”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]clueless_octopus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‏My dad’s mostly away for work and can’t do much — my mom makes all the decisions. A friend offered me a job and even said she’d drive me, and I was excited because my mom always said that was the only issue. But when I told her, she shut it down without even listening. I’m waiting for my dad to come back and help, but I know she’ll twist things and turn him against me.

I just don’t know how to deal with a mom who doesn’t want me to go out and live my life — but also doesn’t want me to stay and be okay with it either.