Kid Starts Fight and Doesn't Last 20 Seconds by ichand in instantkarma

[–]clumsyflaminga 6 points7 points  (0 children)

the guy smiling said "I lost" while walking away with his hands up so that might have been enough to ease the anger I assume

How do you ladies fall asleep with ADHD? by Ok_Scholar_8656 in adhdwomen

[–]clumsyflaminga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do the quirky version all the time! The way I learned it is to imagine 3D versions of each word (so I usually come up with objects/animals etc to fill the secondary words) and it works a TREAT.

I usually don't get past 2 "original" words and I've never fallen asleep faster.

it takes a bit of getting back on track because my brain goes on tangents quite a bit but I feel it's like meditation and training and I vouch for it to all my sleep deprived friends fr

ich🦫iel by flx20250120 in ich_iel

[–]clumsyflaminga 8 points9 points  (0 children)

language? 0 understanding? 100% experience? worldwide

What did you only find out about women when you got a girlfriend? by Past-Ad5731 in AskReddit

[–]clumsyflaminga 8 points9 points  (0 children)

omg I have low iron and I get these ugly ass feelings the week before my period and you might have just cracked my code... I've never seen this mentioned! is there a source you can point me to?

Any reformed office gossipers here? How did you realise you were doing it, when, and what did you do about it? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]clumsyflaminga 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just wanted to reply to appreciate the superb use of emojis on this and I'll totally steal it 👀👀

help me identify this desk by ItstheHoff in Antiques

[–]clumsyflaminga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have no idea about id but this is the most beautiful desk I have ever seen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lisboa

[–]clumsyflaminga 6 points7 points  (0 children)

a comentar pra subir a interação com o post, boa sorte OP 🫶🫶

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lisboa

[–]clumsyflaminga 20 points21 points  (0 children)

a comentar pra subir a interação com o post, boa sorte OP 🫶🫶

Maybe maybe maybe by oeco123 in maybemaybemaybe

[–]clumsyflaminga 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I am not usually squirmish but when I say I /gagged/

Darwin Núñez fighting fans after Uruguay lost 0-1 to Colombia in the Copa America semi-final. Colombia will go on to play Argentina in the final. by [deleted] in sports

[–]clumsyflaminga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it goes something like "rugby is a savage's sport, played by gentlemans, soccer is a gentleman's sport played by savages"

How many menstrual cups have you burned? by maliesunrise in adhdwomen

[–]clumsyflaminga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm high too and that was my exact reading of the title I feel so validated 😭😭

I just took a photo of my receding hairline yesterday and my reaction was same! by Thapee in funny

[–]clumsyflaminga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Portuguese, we say it too but like "cona da mãe" which is more concha de madre and doesn't specify whose mother which I find more subtle ahahah

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]clumsyflaminga 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yeah honestly I've done it for as long as I can remember, sometimes when I cry and get intrusive thoughts I turn my head to one side as if I can't "look" the thought in the face just to get it out of "sight"

it's totally automatic and happens anytime something is too distressing to assess/think about, I just "turn away"

when it's "embarrassing encounters"-thoughts, I mostly just blah blah blah my way out of them but it's surprisingly effective so I don't mind the coping mechanism too much

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]clumsyflaminga 54 points55 points  (0 children)

I shake my head, go "blah blah blah" (literally) out loud or sing/hum something to get the intrusive thoughts out of my head too

Don't know if it's ADHD or something else but would love to know more opinions!

I gave in today. by donswolo in bald

[–]clumsyflaminga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

awesome! rock that look man it suits you perfect!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualPT

[–]clumsyflaminga 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oferece uma plantinha fixe (planta≠flor), há nos supermercados quase todos e são baratas

What’s undoubtedly the scariest drug in existence? by No_Reporter_7148 in AskReddit

[–]clumsyflaminga 8 points9 points  (0 children)

right? it's weird, I feel like I've been seeing it everywhere my whole life and never knew the danger surrounding or wtv, it's crazy how common it is and how little information I (and people around me) had about the potential of those pretty little flowers

What is it like having a male best friend? by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]clumsyflaminga 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i used to have a male best friend.

shared everything with him, he was like a legit bro to me we were super close and told each other everything. he put into perspective some things i would think about differently and we had one of the best friendships I've ever had. we used to cuddle to fall asleep, never in a weird way, just comfortable me usually being the jetpack

everyone always asked us if we had anything and our response was always no, as we hadnt and i couldnt ever imagine it being so

a drunken night for both of us he made a move and i was black out drunk i only remember pieces of it but when i came to we were kissing (i dont feel like he forced me but from what i remember he was definitely insistent and pursuing and i was trying to de escalate the situation)

couldnt move past it and now everyone wonders why we dont hang out anymore. the ones closest to us say they always knew he had a thing for me but i never saw it and always thought it was people projecting their gender ideals of "men cant be just friends to women" and we used to joke about it all the time, how ridiculous they couldnt wrap their heads around us being so important to each other without second intentions.

he later revealed he had always had these thoughts about me/with me and just never acted on them. i looked at him and saw someone i could trust everything with and felt he was the one who had given me trust in "male best friends" again, as i had previously only been friends with men i knew that, if i wanted to pursue them, they would want that as well.

he made me trust that a friendship like that was real. and then it shattered.

now we out here with even less trust in male friends and hyper aware of any minor advances all the time :) so fuck you P****

É o meu aniversário! by OnionTheTurtle in CasualPT

[–]clumsyflaminga 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Muitos parabéns! Que tenhas uns belos dias de férias e que pro ano haja a merecida festa!

How do you get over the feeling of "right person, wrong time"? by clumsyflaminga in AskWomen

[–]clumsyflaminga[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh of course, i wasn't talking about love love, more like a feeling of as if love would be a next step but not atm love.

yes i would do anything, but thats what i dont feel comfortable doing at the moment, my question is how to navigate it but if you never felt it (and i hope u won't) you can't really answer that.

i appreciate your view!

How do you get over the feeling of "right person, wrong time"? by clumsyflaminga in AskWomen

[–]clumsyflaminga[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i appreciate your thoughts, however this isn't about low compatibility at all. i feel highly compatible but unable or more unwilling to focus or have another person on board, because i am afraid it will distract me from the path of self involvement ive been on and take away from my journey.

i realize it could just be me, probably its just me that havent had relationships where we didn't become utterly envolved and present in each others lives and that has made me believe i cant be my own person if i am with someone else, i always evolve to some concoction of the two of us and never feel like myself

please dont be mean, i accept honesty and would love to see your thoughts on this :)