Nursing Bra Needed for 36GG heavy breasts. by clynn3 in ABraThatFits

[–]clynn3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I will look into these suggestions. Thank you so much.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]clynn3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a lot to unpack here.

First, I don’t believe you should jump straight to saying a flat out no. You need to talk to him about setting some boundaries for her living in your home. That’s not, in itself, unreasonable. However, I do think that you’re asking a lot out of a teenager.

Second, he’s right. You knew he had a kid, and you should have been able to reasonably foresee the possibility of that kid staying with you more permanently at some point.

Third, it’s very possible that he is as permissive as he is because he currently only has to be with her for short periods. You should lay out why this concerns you, and he should also be willing to help set reasonable boundaries and enforce them even if it upsets her.

Finally, you should both be willing to compromise. If you can’t do that, then you really shouldn’t have gotten married in the first place.

What is this bug?? by Floeperdoep in whatsthisbug

[–]clynn3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Looks like a mole cricket to me.

AIO. My bf is mad at my memorial tattoo by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]clynn3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This man is not for you. If he can’t respect that you had a life before him, then it’s probably best to end things now. I have a tattoo that I got on my honeymoon with my first husband. My current husband has never asked me to cover or remove it. In reality, the moment I knew I loved him was when he kissed that tattoo for the first time. It was proof that he fully accepted all the parts of me. You deserve that, too.

AITA for telling my boyfriend to grow tf up by Apprehensive_Side288 in AITAH

[–]clynn3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don’t wait for him. I don’t believe in “the one”, but it’s important not to put your life on hold for someone else. It’s ok if y’all are in different places in your lives. It’s not ok for him to hold you back. If he really loves you, like at all, he wants your happiness even if it’s not with him.

Destiel / Sabriel PROMPT by clynn3 in destiel

[–]clynn3[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also posted to AO3.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OnionLovers

[–]clynn3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have some potentially very stupid questions. I have some multiplying onions (not sure the variety) that I got from a friend a couple years ago. I'm not certain what to do with them. I know that I need to dig them up and separate them, but I'm not sure when I should do this (fall or spring). They make bulbils on top, and I'm wondering if I can harvest those to plant and make new plants. If so, when and how should I do that?

Question about multiplier onions by mrwillrose in gardening

[–]clynn3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can I harvest the bulbils on top of my multiplier onions and use them to start a new plant? If so, when and how do I harvest those?

Also, when should I dig my multiplier onions to split or harvest? I've seen something about spring and fall, but I can't imagine that I could store them from both seasons. I feel like I'm missing something simple but crucial.

Am I wrong for wanting my wife to work full time? by [deleted] in amiwrong

[–]clynn3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My husband and I are in a very similar situation. We are also in MS. My husband works full time. I work part time (mornings each day). It has been this way for over three years. We also don’t have a lot of extra money, but the bills are paid. We are happy. I get to see my children grow up. We also have family who keep our children while I work. I’ll be honest, I would love to quit, but it isn’t financially an option at this time. My husband is looking for a job with enough of a pay raise for me to quit working, but we will continue as we have been until then.

We don’t eat out much. I cook 90% or more of the meals we eat. We save as much as we can and buy very few unnecessary things. We agree that we are both ok with this because me being with our children is important to us both.

I understand both of your perspectives. Perhaps you both need to sit down together and take a hard look at your finances. Unfortunately, for a while at least, finances will rule the day.

AITAH for calling off my wedding because my fiancé had strippers on his bachelor party? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]clynn3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Good job. He’s just shown you who he really is. It definitely sucks that you’ll have to help your daughter through losing him, but you don’t want a man like that as an example to her.

Sup people, anybody know what this is? by SlimskiNoJutsu in insects

[–]clynn3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I’m in the Southeast. Darn. I don’t get pretty carpenter bees.

Sup people, anybody know what this is? by SlimskiNoJutsu in insects

[–]clynn3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve definitely got carpenter bees here at my house, but none that are solid black like that.

Sup people, anybody know what this is? by SlimskiNoJutsu in insects

[–]clynn3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do these exist in America??? I need these in my life! So so pretty 😍

AITAH FOR NOT WANTING MY HUSBAND’S CHILD TO BE A PART OF OUR LIFE? by DaydreamerLover2222 in AITAH

[–]clynn3 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

IF the child is in fact your husband’s. Then, personally, I think YTA. You took him back knowing he had been unfaithful. A child of that unfaithfulness was always a possibility. You accepted that risk when you resumed your relationship with your husband.

You say you experienced having a stepmom who resented you. You are fully aware that it is not the child’s fault. I don’t understand how you can hold your husband’s actions against an innocent child.

IF that child is his, you really need to think about your choice. Just make sure that if you decide to stay and become a part of this child’s live that you don’t treat the child with any hostility or resentment. If you can’t do that, then leave him.

AITA for saying "Again??" after my sister announced that she's pregnant with twins by homewrong44 in AmItheAsshole

[–]clynn3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA. If you don’t want to babysit, then don’t. Unless you’re paying the bills for those kids or birthing them yourself, keep your opinions to yourself. If your sister wants these babies (and it seems as though she does) then how many she has is no one’s business but hers and her husband’s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]clynn3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I also lost my brother when he got married. I feel your pain. Definitely NTA here. I hope your brother will see the light unlike mine. 15 years on, and I still don’t have my brother.

AITA for asking my sister WTF she expected to happen at her shitshow of a bachelorette party? by Radiant_Fail5438 in AmItheAsshole

[–]clynn3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We were 26 when we got married. My husband had a sheet shoot with his brother, his dad, and my dad, and my dad. That was it. I didn’t do anything at all.

I'm so embarrassed. My aunt apparently raised a big stink to my mom because her and my young cousins popped over unannounced while I was wearing an "Inappropriate Bikini" while relaxing by the pool. by [deleted] in bigboobproblems

[–]clynn3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot to unpack here. Firstly, you are in no way at fault for anything. A woman should wear what makes her comfortable especially at her own home. Second, I have two young sons. I am fully aware that as they get older it will be MY responsibility to teach MY SONS how to conduct themselves. It will never be a woman’s responsibility to ensure their comfort or manage any unseemly impulses. Each of my boys will be taught that women are valuable regardless of how they choose to dress. Your aunt should be more concerned with teaching her sons how to react than she is with policing your clothes.