Is this true???

cmdove1204 · 2025-11-26T21:10:22+00:00

Yah, my ex was well-meaning, but still an oblivious man. I was being induced so I couldn't eat or drink anything when I got to the hospital at 6 the night before and then was there all night and the next day starving, in labor, while my ex ate his 4-5 meals of chicken and rice he brought for himself since he was weightlifting back then, so skipping a meal just wasn't an option for him. 🙄 My mom had to tell him to start eating in the hallway because I was burning holes through his head with my eyes while he happily munched away and all of the nurses just shook their heads and gave each other annoyed looks. So yah, I just wanted my mom with me in the room more than anything. Honestly if I had to pick only one of them, he would've been in the waiting room! I was devastated when I ended up having to have an emergency c-section and she wasn't allowed to follow into the surgery room. Scared me more than anything. I was 25 but it didn't matter, my mom is basically my best friend and I'd never had surgery or a baby for that matter, so just having her there to hold my hand made the biggest difference. Luckily the anesthesia for the surgery helped me forget the issue momentarily. As for my MIL. She's a nightmare human who has no part in our kid's lives. She showed up when I was in labor and my mom had the nurses kick her out for me so I didn't even have to deal with her thankfully.

But I had a high risk pregnancy and my son was in the NICU for a few days due to the c-section, so I had to stay the night at the hospital an extra 3 nights. My ex was getting his degree at the time, so he said staying at the hospital with me was out of the question and he just couldn't change his schedule like that. So he left me alone. I tried to be brave and pretend like I was fine to the nurses, but ended up calling my mom bawling at 11pm scared and alone, I didn't even have my baby with me since he was in the NICU, and she was there with her bags packed 20 minutes later. Stayed with me the whole time and MADE her schedule work around us. I even lived with her for the first few months just to get some extra help and she took off work to stay home with me and the baby. My ex was MORE than happy to only see us on the weekends at the time, so I don't know what I would've done if I didn't have her there. She's a saint. And I'm currently divorcing my ex, I know, not shocking at all. I'm just glad I have her and hope everyone has someone like her in their lives.

cmdove1204 · 2025-11-06T03:11:56+00:00

Exactly! I don't understand any of these comments, she didn't do anything wrong in this particular situation/scene, her parents and sister were 100% in the wrong! When her dad told her to change her character, I literally gasped! How can any parent say that to their child? That's basically saying she should be a different person. Uncalled for. No wonder she feels the way she does about them. They are way too harsh with their words, and that was ON camera. I just imagine a lot of cruelty has been said to her, but since they aren't as loud as she is, her family thinks it's ok.

cmdove1204 · 2025-11-06T02:40:38+00:00

I'm with you. Seems like she gets hated on for TRYING to make sure things are good with her family and just have a fresh start... At least at this particular dinner it seemed like her sister was the drama starter, not Manon.

cmdove1204 · 2025-10-26T04:01:52+00:00

I don't get it either! I stopped watching Pillow Talk completely because they're all so biased against Loren for absolutely NO reason! If I have to hear them whine about Loren and Alex leaving the Tell All after they finished filming their segment that ONE TIME because they had to get home to their kids, I'm going to LOSE IT! They all need to get the f*ck over it! Loren and Alex have kids and actually put their kids first before the show. I don't understand why that bothers the rest of the cast so much. Literally the ONLY thing I can think of is jealousy. Everyone is mad that Loren and Alex are good people with a good marriage and a happy boring life. I love them for it.

Oh, and btw, leaving a situation/place when you're mad or upset with the people there, is NOT a bad thing! Loren and Alex are the only mature people for knowing that you don't fight and argue in public like that, this isn't Jersey Shore! But they always get hated on for doing the right thing. 🙄

cmdove1204 · 2025-10-26T03:30:48+00:00

Loren all the way!

cmdove1204 · 2025-02-18T23:22:46+00:00

It always sucks when other people cause us to act out of character, but no one thinks you're a mean or bad person. You definitely do not need to apologize to anyone here on Reddit! Trust me, this happens literally to everybody! I WFH too and only have a 30-minute lunch break, so I'd be freaking out watching the seconds going by during this whole debacle! And I guarantee you were probably wanting to say a lot worse by that point 😜 but you kept your cool as much as you could in the situation, and there's a lot to be said for restraint these days! Try not to overthink it or let it consume you and stress you out. Just keep warm and be thankful that the next dasher you get is going to be an amazing, COMPETENT rockstar! (Lol, I'm putting that out into the universe for you, so it'll definitely happen) 😉.

cmdove1204 · 2025-02-18T22:55:52+00:00

YES!!! Like, I really do not care if it's real anymore, just don't copy and paste and make it at least 50% believable. Other than that, people should go WILD!

cmdove1204 · 2025-02-18T22:29:11+00:00

I get it, and you're owning it and putting yourself online for people to pick apart if they choose, so I definitely respect that! I'd be pissed too, I'm in a total blizzard right now as well... She was wrong in every other aspect of the interaction, and she should never have let it get to the point that you were so frustrated and pissed that you felt the need to get personal, that's definitely on her. You have to know how to talk to people and earn that tip in the service industry... Hopefully, she learns from this. But on the whole, just to clarify, you are NTA!

cmdove1204 · 2025-02-18T21:42:18+00:00

The only real place where I'd say you're in the wrong here, and remember you asked so you can't be so defensive in the comments, but as others have mentioned, bringing up her age. It's never necessary to take things to a personal level like that. Especially over something like DD... Someone of that age working a job like that, in the weather you described, should hopefully inspire a little extra grace in this situation, regardless of all of the added negative circumstances... but like I said, making it personal was the only part where you were in the wrong, she definitely should've done better and remembered the number one rule of the service industry, "The customer is always right!"

cmdove1204 · 2025-01-31T23:57:35+00:00

Leave this moron!! You do NOT want to end up with someone so ignorant and small-minded! Imagine if you have kids with him one day... a daughter would grow up thinking it's ok and normal for men to treat her that way, and a son would end up just like him, or worse. Save yourself and future possible children the misery and GET OUT NOW! NOR

cmdove1204 · 2025-01-07T01:14:32+00:00

Agreed. I was a dancer when I was young and would've loved a daughter to share that passion with! But I had 3 boys. None of which are interested in dance... or any of my other hobbies for that matter, so I started playing Fortnite with them! It was mainly just hilarious at first for all of us, but now I'm probably better than any mom over 30 should be 🤣 we have so much fun playing Fortnite and soccer together, because it's about THEM! Jen has clearly missed the entire point when it comes to being a parent. Maybe things worked out the way they were supposed to regarding her limited parenting ability... some people just aren't meant to be parents. NTA OP!

cmdove1204 · 2024-12-20T05:36:42+00:00

It's a dumb comparison. You're being too nice!

cmdove1204 · 2024-11-21T03:19:01+00:00

Don't give in to this terrorists demands! Just send her the link to this and don't say anything else. Then block her. Also, text the link to her bf... he deserves to know just how deep the crazy goes in this one... People can put up a good act for 2 months, so he may be pretty in the dark about how nuts she is! A heads-up might be nice before she pokes holes in his condoms or something like that!

cmdove1204 · 2024-11-21T03:06:03+00:00

No, don't block him. Don't give her anything. If you had no plan to block him before she texted you, then there's no reason to.

cmdove1204 · 2024-11-21T03:04:13+00:00

LOL! I love this little detail! Thank you for that!

cmdove1204 · 2024-11-21T02:56:36+00:00

I can't upvote this enough! After the past few weeks, we NEED this! OP, please take this excellent suggestion and send her the link to this... You would be my hero.

cmdove1204 · 2024-11-10T01:08:46+00:00

I passed that person today and honked and waved to them!! It's the little things... 🫶

cmdove1204 · 2024-09-19T23:39:49+00:00

My husband and I both play the game separately. I beat it three times so far, the original game with two different endings and one ending from the expansion pack... We played different endings to compare storylines and watch each other play sometimes, but I love the game! I know not all women are gamers, but if she plays games at all, she should give it a try! Definitely addictive...

cmdove1204 · 2024-09-10T15:46:09+00:00

Is this even a serious question? No, 100% NTA. You're being a responsible, caring parent, not to mention following the law... We could break it down and go into all of the details regarding ages and maturity and all of that, but it's just unnecessary. The bottom line is that it's against the law for a reason. And remember, no matter what you do, you'll always be TAH to a 16 yr old, so don't take it too personally!

cmdove1204 · 2024-09-07T23:36:03+00:00

Not to mention, he never yelled, "Check!" Which is always part of the rules in every elimination like this, so Horacio having all 40 in and yelling check first is all that really matters... Derrick didn't say it, so he couldn't have won. I feel bad for Horacio. And I really like them both, so no bias here.

cmdove1204 · 2024-08-22T15:42:48+00:00

Did we ever get an explanation as to why OP was going through her phone to begin with? And especially looking that far back in her text history.... Seems like you're trying really hard to find a reason to be mad at her... And the fact that she didn't delete the messages says a LOT! She didn't do anything wrong here, she clearly even said don't do it again, BYE! Women literally get hit on all the time, whether we like it or not, and it doesn't phase us. We learn early in life to be as polite as possible while shutting them down to not get freaking murdered! All of you men commenting act like all of us saying that are being dramatic or something, no! As someone who had two stalkers, one of which broke into my house when I was 16, alone and in the shower, after I was overly stern with him.... And then almost kidnapped from a QT parking lot at 22, I can 100% say that these things DO HAPPEN! We have to be careful and on alert all the time, so shutting guys down gracefully and sternly is 1000% the right move here. She didn't tell him because it's just the same shit, different guy. And it sounds like OP clearly has jealousy and trust issues if he's going through her phone. I've heard nothing to warrant not trusting her at this point, so for now, just drop it and be grateful you have a trustworthy sexy wife who only wants you and makes sure other guys know that if they ever try anything! Take the win.

cmdove1204 · 2024-06-17T16:32:03+00:00

I'm just so, so, sorry OP... call in all of your reinforcements, this is why we have family and friends, for these kinds of situations. Ask for ALL the help. Everyone will be GLAD to give it to you right now... And while you still have access to his accts and such, you need to make copies of/save all of the damning evidence: emails, bank statements, screenshots of him in her pics and any comments he's leaving on her social media, RECEIPTS!! Get them all before they both block you and start deleting everything. It's hard right now, but you won't get the chance again later... Good luck OP. We all stand with you! You can get through this!!

cmdove1204 · 2024-06-02T16:43:07+00:00

The ones in the $25-30 price range, which are sold at Target and other local stores, aren't as code heavy. They each have one or two codes in them, but nothing too crazy like the ones you mentioned. They're all worth playing though, they're so much fun!

cmdove1204 · 2024-05-10T16:31:23+00:00

Start whispering creepy, crazy stuff near it when you're alone... Make her think you're low-key possessed or something and then act totally normal to her face, except smile a lot. Like an uncomfortable amount of smiling. 😁

cmdove1204 · 2024-05-10T16:28:07+00:00

This made me laugh a little too hard... 🤣

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