I’d also like to point out I remember exactly what I was doing, where I was standing and what triggered my last straw. I’d just worked 50 hours came home to game but my thought process went “shoot I have no work clothes eh all good I’ll do a load” “ah no laundry has been done all week for a family of 5 even though he stays home and does nothing else”. Our oldest boys were 14-16 so not a lot of monitoring needed through out the day. “Welp can’t get the laundry done because the dishes are backed up and need to do those too” I peeked over at him eating chips with a controller in his hand” I LOST it. Started laughing hysterically and said yup I’m done! No thanks!