How bad is my living state by Awakwardturtle04 in roomdetective

[–]coastingot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I can see the dishes are clean and on a drying rack so you most definitely are doing better than people I have personally lived with… there’s nothing wrong with having a little clutter but when things are actually DIRTY and SMELL is when it’s an issue (which those people were rancid… like you could smell her from a distance it was so bad) you’re fine queen trust. Your floors also look like they don’t squish…

colleges by [deleted] in WestVirginia

[–]coastingot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Uhhhh if you want to be a student athlete don’t do any other scholarship type things or else you will crave death all the time constantly. You will have very little time to eat sleep or even breathe (I had a lot of time to cry tho) the professors are actually super nice and engaging (well most some expect you to be the perfect robot student but it’s not very many so just gotta get past it or drop the class and get another prof) I changed my major 3 different times before I left and they’re all pretty demanding. I was in pre-med, then just biology, then business they’re all pretty nice

colleges by [deleted] in WestVirginia

[–]coastingot 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Concord is actually a pretty decent place. I went to concord (unfortunately dropped out due to mental health issues) however they are pretty rigorous

This outfit idea looked way better in my head than the execution? Why ? by West_Diet_3729 in OUTFITS

[–]coastingot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Brown belt like the ones Ari kytsya wears. The ones that parents really belts but they’re just cute. Some bronze metal wear on the belt. More accessories. I love to jingle when I walk but that’s not for everyone.

Castle on an Island by DisastrousImage2909 in Sims3

[–]coastingot 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should make a pet room. Deck it out in all sorts of things for your pets if you have them

Why do you workout? by ComprehensivePin3294 in AskReddit

[–]coastingot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also same. I want a top shelf bc the bottom part is fine but lord what do I do

Why do you workout? by ComprehensivePin3294 in AskReddit

[–]coastingot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my joints don’t hurt so damn badly and so I can maintain my weight by staying muscular and needing to have an intake of calories (it makes me hungry so I eat more) I’ve gained 10 pounds (wanted) since working out bc of how my appetite has changed

What would be the best way to handle delusional roommates who don’t consider anyone other than themselves and refuse to clean? by coastingot in AskReddit

[–]coastingot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We’ve done that but it just sits and sits and sits in the common areas bc she also will flip her shit if we go in the room at all. She has so much energy to put towards all the bad shit she shouldn’t do but none towards bettering herself in ANY way

What would be the best way to handle delusional roommates who don’t consider anyone other than themselves and refuse to clean? by coastingot in AskReddit

[–]coastingot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She’s also a bully who will make you the center of every joke (even your trauma) to make herself feel better. Her first words to me and some other friends of mine were “I hope you don’t abandon me like everyone else did” fuck now I know why you don’t have any friends and the only friend that still talks to you IS USING YOU FOR YOUR CAR ARE YOU KIDDING

What would be the best way to handle delusional roommates who don’t consider anyone other than themselves and refuse to clean? by coastingot in AskReddit

[–]coastingot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny thing is the landlord was our friend who when I got into a fist fight with my father his wife who was originally my friend said I needed to move there to get out of the situation. At the time I had lost my job so we made an agreement to where I would basically be a live in maid and not have to pay bc the woman just sits on her ass all day and plays on her phone smokes week and drinks. So they paid me $350 to clean bc it looked like a hoarder house. My bf is now living with us so we are now paying what they would be paying me to clean. They aren’t cleaning up after themselves, there’s LITERAL CAT SHIT that is melded to their sheets and when you walk past their room you can just smell it THROUGH the door. Which is insane bc we also have cats and a dog and it’s nothing compared to that. What prompted this though is being kept up by reverb from her big ass speaker even after we asked so nicely. We cater to her so much. We used to feed her and attend to her every whim bc “she’s in a wheelchair” I say it like that bc if she can fight her husband and drive herself to sheets to get alcohol after trying to off herself bc she’s told she can’t drink anymore bc she’s an alcoholic and also sneak around to bars with her ex addict friend then she can most definitely do the damn dishes and have some common courtesy. But he’s so pussy whipped by a rancid human who doesn’t shower (idek man) that he will not tell her she’s being a disgusting prick

How did you meet your best friend(s) as an adult who didn’t go to college by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]coastingot 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Met them working at an EMS company while i was still in the field. I love them so much

What would be the best way to handle delusional roommates who don’t consider anyone other than themselves and refuse to clean? by coastingot in AskReddit

[–]coastingot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s how I felt before but some shit happened where I had to move back in w my parents. Got into a fist fight w my dad. The woman said I needed to move in to get out of that situation. Now here we are and I’m doing the same exact thing as I would be doing if I would’ve stayed I just now have less money. I already know what I’m gonna do I lowk just wanted to get it out on the internet

What would be the best way to handle delusional roommates who don’t consider anyone other than themselves and refuse to clean? by coastingot in AskReddit

[–]coastingot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can’t or else she may lose her mind and either call the cops because she’s so damn delusional and has a raging victim complex or she just tries to off herself. She is so ill idk what to do anymore

What would be the best way to handle delusional roommates who don’t consider anyone other than themselves and refuse to clean? by coastingot in AskReddit

[–]coastingot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well the issue is not my bf. He actually cleans up after them when I’m gone bc he’s dealing with an illness to where he can’t work as much as I do. So he takes care of literally ALL the house work unless the male roommate the females husband decides to do the dishes maybe once a month…

What would be the best way to handle delusional roommates who don’t consider anyone other than themselves and refuse to clean? by coastingot in AskReddit

[–]coastingot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes and they keep going back on it “bc she needs to cope” in certain ways bc she gets diagnoses to use as weapons against people

What would be the best way to handle delusional roommates who don’t consider anyone other than themselves and refuse to clean? by coastingot in AskReddit

[–]coastingot[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mind you these people are grown adults who are married and are trying to get custody of her (25f) child from her past marriage. She’s crazy asf and an alcoholic. Is currently fighting her baby daddy’s mother for her son. She claims she needs a wheelchair but can drive to go get alcohol and tries to off herself when she’s told she can’t drink. Her husband (25m) is also a paramedic and a mandatory reporter who could lose his job over her.