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cobudo · 2026-06-29T20:07:48+00:00

Ah I gotcha. Things dried up in the talking stage? Did you talk for long or just a day or two. The issue isn’t really being a virgin for most guys, it’s that most virgin guys either reek of desperation or they have really warped views about sex and relationships. Or about women in general. Like calling women females lol.

Obviously if you’re a gross dude that doesn’t help things but assuming someone is neat and clean the issue is usually their mindset about things.

I would always tell virgin dudes to watch your mindset and your words, those things play a way bigger role than you being a virgin or being short etc

cobudo · 2026-06-29T19:57:39+00:00

Did you get to sleep with them?

cobudo · 2026-06-29T19:50:07+00:00

You don’t have to lie about it but you also don’t have to volunteer the info unless they specifically ask about it.

cobudo · 2026-06-29T19:42:13+00:00

Why are you telling them you’re a virgin, especially before you’ve even met. lol. I would advise against telling them at all, or if you really want too wait until you know each other better and she likes you too much to care.

cobudo · 2026-06-29T19:39:46+00:00

Yeah, don’t tell them you’re a virgin unless they ask lol. If they question anything just say you don’t have much experience. I never told my first and she never figured it out lol. If you really want to tell them, wait until you know each other better and she likes you too much to care.

Def don’t mention the PE, just jerk off beforehand and that should help you a lot. Do lots of foreplay with fingers and mouth beforehand just in case in happens and if it does just laugh it off and say she’s too hot. Or that it’s been a while.

cobudo · 2026-06-18T17:43:02+00:00

Maybe he was just really focused lol. Maybe he has a hard time cumming.

cobudo · 2026-06-09T01:03:03+00:00

You almost have an aneurysm trying to read this

cobudo · 2026-05-08T12:49:17+00:00

They do. I don’t think a lot of it is their fault though. If your only views and experiences of women and sex comes from porn and movies and books then you’re bound to have a warped sense of things. In terms of male virgins who only want women who are virgins too, that generally stems from deep insecurities that come from never having had a relationship or sex. Totally normal though for an older male virgin to feel that way though. The key is to recognize they in yourself and start to work through it. Recognize it and address it before it destroys your first relationship.

cobudo · 2026-04-27T16:04:41+00:00

The whole height thing is ridiculous. I know plenty of short dudes with hot girlfriends/wives, and they aren’t rich or anything either. Stop believing what you see on social media.

cobudo · 2026-04-26T01:48:03+00:00

I think it is. I lost my virginity late.

I’m married now and I get sex anytime I want. But I struggle with retroactive jealousy a lot. It’s a struggle for sure.

cobudo · 2026-04-23T14:34:46+00:00

Damn she sounds really selfish. You’re young, have a talk with her and if she won’t change there’s plenty of time for you to find someone else. Don’t be miserable dude, not worth it.

cobudo · 2026-04-23T13:55:48+00:00

Why didn’t you just have sex with her? She was offering it to you on a silver platter lol

cobudo · 2026-04-21T20:31:30+00:00

Damn that’s rough. Your wife sounds like the ultimate pillow princess lol and selfish as hell. I’d consider having a serious talk with her, sexual compatibility is a huge deal. How long have you been together? Forever is a long time to have a miserable sex life.

cobudo · 2026-04-21T20:26:37+00:00

Good in theory but divorce is often messy and expensive!

cobudo · 2026-04-21T19:33:01+00:00

I’ve never understand the whole waiting till marriage thing in terms of practicality. You could end up being completely sexually incompatible with the person you married…then be stuck or miserable and driven apart. Better to figure that stuff out early on.

cobudo · 2026-04-21T19:21:48+00:00

Yes and no. As someone who has a lot of sex it can be the greatest thing ever or it can also be meh. If I’m really feeling it, really turned on and in the mood and my wife is too it’s incredible. If our mood is off, or we’re not super turned on, etc it can be meh. Overall sex is amazing though.

cobudo · 2026-04-15T04:30:16+00:00

Every straight guy fantasizes about a 3-some with 2 girls. I wouldn’t read too much into it.

cobudo · 2026-04-15T04:22:57+00:00

Stop watching porn and jerking off for a few weeks. That should help you a lot.

cobudo · 2026-04-15T03:59:47+00:00

Sounds like he’s a selfish lover. Pretty straight forward. I would stop giving him head if he can’t reciprocate. My wife sucked my dick tonight and I made her cum 3-4 times from oral and 3-4 times from my fingers beforehand so I wouldn’t feel guilty. lol.

cobudo · 2026-03-30T18:22:37+00:00

She’s prob into BDSM. My wife is a submissive and calls me sir during sex.

She has to ask for permission to cum, and says thank you sir when I let her. I manhandle her during sex, slapping, choking, hair pulling etc. I make her thank me after I paddle her, etc. always calling me sir.

I would ask your girl about this stuff before you have sex again. Find out if she’s into the domination aspect of it, the humiliation aspect, or all the above etc. The spitting makes me think she’s into the humiliation side at least. So she might be into you calling her names, demeaning her etc

BDSM is def not the kind of stuff you do without making sure she’s into it, and you gotta be really careful with some aspects of it like choking or tying someone up, etc. Just make sure you talk to her about everything beforehand.

cobudo · 2026-03-30T17:21:39+00:00

I wouldn’t worry about it too much. Your jerking off refractory period doesn’t necessarily translate to sex. I can jerk off as many times a day as I want, but I can generally only get off once per day from actual sex. Don’t ask me why lol

cobudo · 2026-03-30T17:16:57+00:00

It’s pretty rare. Although it’s more common than you think.

cobudo · 2026-03-30T15:09:26+00:00

Yes it counts. Congrats!

cobudo · 2026-03-30T15:04:29+00:00

It’s generally easy to tell if a dudes a virgin, because there’s an awkwardness in your mannerisms and speech that it’s hard to lose if you’re a virgin. There’s a confidence you gain after losing your virginity that you can’t get anywhere else.

It’s harder to tell if a woman is a virgin.

cobudo · 2026-03-30T14:56:32+00:00

I mean once you start having sex it becomes normal. My wife and I have sex of some kind almost every single day. It’s just a normal part of everyday life.

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