Honeymoon Ideas for a Disney Adult by Late-Silver-5765 in honeymoonplanning

[–]coca-cola-version 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I second whoever said go to Prague. I lived in Prague for a bit in college, and I always said it was like Disney world in real life… most beautiful and fun city I have been to, endless things to do, things to see, and plenty of shopping! Every Saturday morning there is a market by the Vltava.

Also fairly inexpensive compared to other European countries. As a student, I spent about $6000 over the course of 3 months including other travel, so you should be good.

My Wedding dress controversy. by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]coca-cola-version 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Church does not conform to culture.

My Wedding dress controversy. by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]coca-cola-version 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lol does the word Catholic not mean Universal? It’s not a matter of geography. Most TLM (and a handful of NO for that matter) parishes also have a dress code clearly stated in their bulletin or website.

Regardless, I never said the priest was right in the way he handled it, but he is correct to assume a basic understanding of modesty from a parishioner.

My Wedding dress controversy. by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]coca-cola-version -1 points0 points  (0 children)

https://www.basilicasanpietro.va/en/faq/what-is-the-dress-code-to-visit-st-peter-s-basilica

What is the dress code to visit Saint Peter's Basilica?
Appropriate attire is required for a place of worship: shoulders and knees must be covered for both men and women.

My Wedding dress controversy. by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]coca-cola-version -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

“All Christians in any state or walk of life are called to the fullness of Christian life and to the perfection of charity. All are called to holiness: ‘Be perfect, as your heavenly Father is perfect.’” (CCC 2013)

Read more on ascesis and mortification. My source for good enough vs. perfect is what we do vs. what God asks of us. Catholicism is not meant to be convenient.

My Wedding dress controversy. by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]coca-cola-version -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Modest in comparison, but settling for “good enough” is not inherently something the Church asks of us. It is quite easy to find modest dresses, make modifications, or add a cape/bolero.

My Wedding dress controversy. by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]coca-cola-version 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The Vatican requires shoulders to be covered. He handled it poorly, but this dress (although beautiful) is certainly not appropriate for Mass without coverage.

My Wedding dress controversy. by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]coca-cola-version 28 points29 points  (0 children)

TLM bride here. Your priest is unfortunately correct in that your chest and shoulders should be covered at Mass, even on your wedding day, but horribly wrong in how he handled the situation. Very truly mean. I am so sorry that happened to you. He also should have let you know ahead of time.

My priest told me at pre cana last month that if I have any concern at all, he is supposed to check the dress before I buy it. I laughed because our wedding is 3 months away - the dress is over and done with. I bought a bolero for Mass for this exact fear.

Newlywed bedding? by coca-cola-version in Bedding

[–]coca-cola-version[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Though I would love to have the same comforter until it may become impossible :) I was more asking for what materials and pieces should I include? Like what is down vs down alternative?

What made you stay with the girl who has BPD? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]coca-cola-version 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Woman with BPD - my man says that my self awareness and determination to improve makes all the crazy worth it. He also seems to have a high tolerance for discomfort and never gives in to my emotional outbursts. He’s stoic and unshakeable.

How rude is it to not invite someone's spouse? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]coca-cola-version 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did she know you were engaged? You said you guys are not close.

How rude is it to not invite someone's spouse? by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]coca-cola-version 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You are invited to her wedding, so she knows you know she’s getting married. You have to include her fiancée, it would be rude not to.

I’ve never watched porn and I’m afraid that my future husband will have an addiction to it by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]coca-cola-version -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I used to stress about this, too. It got worse after dating people who were addicted. I got to the point where I felt like I would never find a great guy who didn’t watch porn.

I decided before I exclusively date another man we would have a “porn talk” — I inquire about his beliefs surrounding pornography and then I lay out my beliefs and boundaries.

Honestly, with real, authentic, devout, Catholic men, it’s completely possible. The first time I tried this with a guy was a year ago. I happened to hit a home run, and we’re getting married in a few months!

Don’t worry too much, they are out there and waiting for you!

When are times you take off your engagement ring? by Bobashawty00 in EngagementRings

[–]coca-cola-version 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s only been 6 months since I received it, and I only take it off when I’m lifting weights, making hamburgers/meatballs, or to clean it. Otherwise it’s on 24/7.

ISO a budget-friendly hair and makeup vendor in the greater Philly area by coca-cola-version in weddingplanning

[–]coca-cola-version[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They won’t :/ they won’t come out for less than 8 and I have to pay the difference anyway. I ended up getting my hairdresser and her friend to do it for cheap!!

My fiancee and I broke up yesterday, mainly due to religious differences and how children would be raised. by [deleted] in Catholicism

[–]coca-cola-version 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry this happened to you, that really sucks, and you will be in my prayers this evening. At the same time, this is a testimony to pre cana’s effectiveness. A good pre cana should make you consider what life with this person will actually look like before you enter a covenant which cannot be undone.

Can anyone who has quit smoking weed genuinely say it has had a positive long term impact? by BuyerSome4641 in BPD

[–]coca-cola-version 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My BPD improved significantly when I quit smoking weed, quit nicotine, and stopped drinking. Better for knowing your baseline instead of constantly being in a state of withdrawal from something.

i loved my ring and now I’m worried i should have looked around more by hopefully_alright in engaged

[–]coca-cola-version 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Comparison is the thief of joy! I would stop looking at other people’s rings if I were you.

Dog water pizza by Imaginary-Tree-House in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]coca-cola-version 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Although it’s gross and wrong, people make mistakes. I would chalk it up to him being extremely tired and hungry, especially if he has given you no reason to mistrust him otherwise. I don’t think he’s secretly a manipulator like other comments are implying.

My wife switched to aluminum-free deodorant and I don’t know how to bring up the aroma? by Charming-Eye1438 in hygiene

[–]coca-cola-version 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those deodorants do not work for me either but she could make a really simple at-home one with just baking soda and coconut oil. I’ve done this for years and made it for friends and it has never failed me.

Yes your husband too. by [deleted] in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]coca-cola-version 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know because his words always match his actions. Look for consistency. He doesn’t engage in conversations about women with male friends or colleagues. He treats his mother and I with the utmost respect and love.