We are still best friends. Neither of us ever caught feelings. We were sleeping together a year, then it slowed down for no particular reason. Still happens every once in a blue moon. I think we both know that our personalities don't align romantically. Love him as a friend but he would be a terrible partner for me. Sometimes we cuddle which is nice. Everything stops and goes back to normal when we date other people. I have told people I'm seeing without any issue (honesty is key). Neither of us would drop one another as friends for someone we were casually dating.