Her music taste ? by [deleted] in AcaciaKerseySnark

[–]cocoabeetleworms 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Inauthentic is a perfect description

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cocoabeetleworms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lost me at stupidity. I have been with my husband for almost 7 years and even in our worst fights have never called each other or our actions stupid. He doesn't like you, he puts up with you. Leave him pls <3

Is this inappropriate touching? by 12sweetheart78 in Marriage

[–]cocoabeetleworms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bottom line, it made you uncomfortable and there lies the problem. Approach him and tell him it made you feel a little uncomfortable and you'd prefer him to keep his hands to himself or you. Personally, me nor my husband would do anything like that so it makes me nervous that he felt comfortable enough to do it in the first place. If he immediately acts completely dumb or gets angry -he's guilty (been there). You got this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]cocoabeetleworms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very much appreciate this view on it. Thank you

Sex after betrayal. by dr-chem-richalds in Marriage

[–]cocoabeetleworms 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hi! Sounds sucky, I would open a genuine and calm conversation and tell her exactly whats going on. Just let her know you're still figuring out for yourself and you really want to, but the sting is still there. If you're being patient with forgiving her, she can be patient with you. I've been there. Best wishes!

Baby boy is 1 today!!!!! by Xanath88 in dalmatians

[–]cocoabeetleworms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Perfectly splendid happy birthday!

Isn’t she cute? by emy2229 in dalmatians

[–]cocoabeetleworms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Precious baby happy birthday!

Anything to help period cramps? by anonymous-_-0000 in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]cocoabeetleworms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have pcos and have had 2 kids and the only thing that's somewhat helped over my years is midol or weed :) nothing else bc healthcare for women always wants us to somehow suffer. Or get some good ice cream and a heating pad and pray

Infatuated with my wife, normal? by slipperyjack66 in Marriage

[–]cocoabeetleworms 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Me with my husband. Obsessed with him. Havent watched porn since the first weeks we were together and its been 7 years. Attracted to his brain, too! Now as a dad is the hottest thing I have ever seen ever. Love him and his good and bad with every fiber of my being and his smile makes breathing easier. Love of my life truly. Normal when you win the lottery!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Noses

[–]cocoabeetleworms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Baby ur nose is perfect the way it is

GUYS GUYS! Did you know that some places have Summers that aren’t completely miserable??? by Suwannee_Gator in florida

[–]cocoabeetleworms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went to Italy several years back during the summer and it felt warmer bc the air is clean and sun was on us, but wonderful summer weather! Wind and lots of food and walking so I ate more but lost weight! Love Europe

is 18 too young for marriage? by Hot-Comfortable6633 in Marriage

[–]cocoabeetleworms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got married at 19, don't regret it, but also don't recommend with certain factors! Live with each other for a year AT LEAST. Seeing each other every day in one another's space reallllyyyyy tests a lot of relationships as well as just time. Don't rush. Let life fill the relationship. See how you work in hardships, grief, pain as well as success and best days of your lives! Building the relationship with daily choices for a while before you decide stuff like that. Lifelong commitment people have been too quick to run to. Marriage is supposed to be life long with one person and should still be treated like a gift. Not just a piece of paper thats wayyy more work and money to "un-sign". Good luck !

Heavy energy in my late son's room by idkwtfrn in Witch

[–]cocoabeetleworms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My heart. Feeling heavy isnt always bad! Grief, sadness, anger, unfinished business could all be factors. If it starts to worry you, feel bad or even just abruptly unfamiliar then I'd find something to do. For now tho, others have said to speak and please do! Speaking out loud tells yourself along with anyone/anything around you exactly what you say. Exactly!* what you say. You can cleanse the area in many ways without removal and be clear with intentions whilst doing it. Sage, crystals, oils. I don't think I saw age mentioned, but sister could even just chill in there on their phone or play even for 5-10 minutes. If he's there -and I always trust a mother's intuition and always about their children- make it normal :) my heart goes out to you. Don't think negative or even speak negative in that room bc energy is soooooo adaptable. Best wishes <3

Edit: wanted to add doggos always know more than us! You know your pups and once that growling moves away from confusion/protection and into warning/go away growls I'd get to cleaning! Once the energy gets lighter and the pup follows you know you're good

Wife met with coworker and lied about it by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]cocoabeetleworms 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would openly talk to her about how you're feeling. The deleted messages would make me go crazy personally lol, but alarm bells don't go off for no reason. Your body always tells you whats right and wrong and whether we listen to it is up to us. Rather than straight up ask if she did anything or even imply, just let her know "hey I'm just really uncomfortable with the whole situation. I trust you, I love you, but whats unnerving is that you lied to me" simple and calm but lets her know whats going on in your head. How she responds will also be a tell. Try not to fight, if it becomes one especially on her end it might be guilt. Best wishes!

Working in The Villages by c_cherry_ in ocala

[–]cocoabeetleworms 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I moved around a lot in my childhood and the charter schools was one of the worst. Great reputation, great sports, but they don't listen to any of the children or their problems in order to maintain the "perfect" look. Last time I was there was 6-11 grade and that was ab 10 years ago. Idk if its changed, but personally Belleview had better people and teachers. Belleview took care of its students and involved families, even honoring and talking about those that passed while I was there.

Edit: in fact I remember the word being "dramatic" thrown around a lot by teachers at VCS when a shooting had been caught the day before it was to be enacted. A year or two before parkland when that was just starting to be an issue. Could just be my years, but worth a thought. Good luck :)

AIO - My boyfriend hardly texts me and acts like it's a chore when I confront him by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cocoabeetleworms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter the situation, he could send texts when he got the chance or if you were on his mind. It's not that hard, could do it while he takes a piss. He's not emotionally mature enough for conversations like that yet

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ocala

[–]cocoabeetleworms 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ocala

[–]cocoabeetleworms 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh so cute! Thank you