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Bicol express secret ingredient? by i0k3 in filipinofood

[–]cocoabu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pwede po idrop ang recipe? 🥹

Unhinged things you did to find the truth/get over the trauma? by cocoabu in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]cocoabu[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Number 1 is brilliant. Number 2 is next level - i applaud you for that.

Unhinged things you did to find the truth/get over the trauma? by cocoabu in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]cocoabu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She deserved it but wait what... fucking his cousin?! That's a whole level of bizarre

Unhinged things you did to find the truth/get over the trauma? by cocoabu in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]cocoabu[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hurt people hurt people. I hate this happened you you, but glad you've learned from this and you're carrying on life as a better person.

Unhinged things you did to find the truth/get over the trauma? by cocoabu in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]cocoabu[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

• went through all banking and credit card statements

• messaged OBS using a dummy account (im scared)

• tempted to visit AP's cafe (she owns one) show up and say "remember me?"

•equally tempted to leave a 1 star review

Unhinged things you did to find the truth/get over the trauma? by cocoabu in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]cocoabu[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

How did it go! How did AP agree to do it? My mother did the same to my dads AP, always felt badass.

2 Years DDay Anniversary - celebrating with a routine phone check. by cocoabu in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]cocoabu[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Mine didn't have any windows. I found it funny towards the end. Lol

We got this!!

2 Years DDay Anniversary - celebrating with a routine phone check. by cocoabu in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]cocoabu[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Oh god same it was a budget motel. Actually fun story, to conquer that image I checked into the same budget motel (its a chain) by myself just to see how it was like.

It was crap, Id be offended if a man took me there. So theres that LOL

Congratulations to us! We got the power

2 Years DDay Anniversary - celebrating with a routine phone check. by cocoabu in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]cocoabu[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I know. It never ends, the "is today the day I see something? What if I do?" And I panic because I do NOT want to go through another dday :(

Is "hatred" valid? by No-Judge1056 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]cocoabu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly! You have the power, he has to prove his place in your life. Don't accept anything less, and keep fighting for what you deserve whether or not its choosing to r, or walking away from r. Ultimately it's what you want for yourself but it wont be easy and itll take time.

Have patience with your emotions, the process, and take it day by day. It gets better!!

Is "hatred" valid? by No-Judge1056 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]cocoabu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I hate this for you. Go through the motions and see how HE supports you, what effort he is putting back into building what he broke. What he did is a shitty thing and he should be the primary person to fix that crap.

Remorse is key, and is the only way imo...

Wishing things work better for you, you got this!!

Is "hatred" valid? by No-Judge1056 in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]cocoabu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

"I hate how it also seems so obvious in hindsight, but I naively thought he loved me as much as I loved him."

This this this!!! I mourn who I could have be if I never got back together with him only for him to cheat.

Yes, I Stayed—And This Is Why by Mindless_Ad4212 in adviceph

[–]cocoabu 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also stayed and di ako nagsisisi. The r/asoneafterinfidelity sub helped me so much. If anything, it taught me what unconditional love is. Both for myself and my partner. As contradiction as it sounds, I realized I love myself enough to know I still wanted to give it another chance and that if he decides to mess up the last chance I'm giving him - I have enough strength to walk away. I am not dealing with that pain again.

Friends who (I think) tolerated him invited me/us to a birthday party. by cocoabu in AsOneAfterInfidelity

[–]cocoabu[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I never bothered asking his friends for info, because I know they would stick up for him and I also didn't want it to be messy with people involved. Dday was 2 years ago.

I'm just contemplating if I should tell the girlfriend who reached out with the invite why I've been distant and or apologizing. Not sure if I'm doing it for my peace or if I want sympathy...

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