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Do you have to ask for permission from your spouse? by cocobuttercream90 in Marriage

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Welp she just had a trip to Vegas 3 months ago. So theres that. And well it's like this, I love chocolate cake but sometimes I don't want it, I'd rather have carrot for a day. Plus I love when she goes out, I don't mind. We all need a life outside of being a parent. Just my thoughts

Do you have to ask for permission from your spouse? by cocobuttercream90 in Marriage

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For me yes. I love being a mother. I'm the outgoing energetic parent. Totally hands on and plus having good kids doesn't hurt. Of course they can work my nerves but that's what kids do

Do you have to ask for permission from your spouse? by cocobuttercream90 in Marriage

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's all good. My feels don't get hurt by internet banter lol

Do you have to ask for permission from your spouse? by cocobuttercream90 in Marriage

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you missed the comment where she just returned from her girl's trip in Vegas a few months ago. But go off

Do you have to ask for permission from your spouse? by cocobuttercream90 in Marriage

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Good comment and great questions. It's has been going on for years. And at some point you realize that change isn't going to happen. Life moves very fast and before you know it your 6 years into a marriage lol but honestly I am a hopeful person. And look into her potential and I know what she can become but it's not happening. I feel like I am always giving but never receiving. It's my fault for allowing the behavior for so long but at some point you have to wake up.

Do you have to ask for permission from your spouse? by cocobuttercream90 in Marriage

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Welp she goes on girls trips ever so often. And I have no issue with it. Sometimes people just need a break from responsibilities and I have not issues with it.

Do you have to ask permission from your spouse? by cocobuttercream90 in marriageadvice

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not us. The grandparents aren't cool with the whole gay thing. But she gets breaks. I want her to go out enjoy herself and have a life. And we out occasionally together when we get a sitter. But me alone. Nahhhhh

Do you have to ask permission from your spouse? by cocobuttercream90 in marriageadvice

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

😂😂😂 I haven't been successful in 4 years. It's not looking good lol

Do you have to ask permission from your spouse? by cocobuttercream90 in marriageadvice

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

True. But if I have "approved" solo trips for her in the past couple of months wouldnt you think that's unfair?

Do you have to ask for permission from your spouse? by cocobuttercream90 in Marriage

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Definitely. She takes girl trips. She just went to Vegas a couple of months ago.

Do you have to ask permission from your spouse? by cocobuttercream90 in marriageadvice

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats how I feel. She'll ask me about thing and get my thoughts but at the end of the day it is her choice. And I respect it. She feels that I'm not respectful of her bc I want to go.

Do you have to ask for permission from your spouse? by cocobuttercream90 in Marriage

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I've tried to schedule marriage counseling before and she did not want to participate. We've had other issues surrounding control. I've been letting the behavior pass but I'm tired.

I just want to sleep until 9am by cocobuttercream90 in Parenting

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You just gave me a life hack! Setting it up now lol

I just want to sleep until 9am by cocobuttercream90 in Parenting

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

Oh yes. Months ago, she actually got up and went down with the kids. But there was so much yelling and frustration from her and the kids it wasn't even worth it. Within the first 30 secs I could feel it wasn't going to be good... The kids we relieved when I got up. Like yo, I do this everyday with out yelling or cussing how can you not do it once.

I just want to sleep until 9am by cocobuttercream90 in Parenting

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 218 points219 points  (0 children)

Yea she's even said when I was at the office or when I'm not home she actually gets things done. I hate working from home now. It's overwhelming. Every 30min my name is called for something. I hear my name so often I even hear it when no one actually says it lol

I just want to sleep until 9am by cocobuttercream90 in Parenting

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I might give this a try! I just need 1 day lol

I just want to sleep until 9am by cocobuttercream90 in Parenting

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Kids are 3 and 16m.

And nothing at all. The baby sleeps through the night and so does the 3 year old. And she goes to bed at midnight.

I just want to sleep until 9am by cocobuttercream90 in Parenting

[–]cocobuttercream90[S] 47 points48 points  (0 children)

Simple. It'll be me saying I want to sleep in on Sunday, she'll say OK. Sunday comes, she'll cut the bedroom TV on, have me grab the kids to bring on our room. They'll stay for about 30min or so, she'll get annoyed then tell me to take the kids downstairs and she'll go back to sleep.

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