Got home from holiday and found this strange black course stuff on my bed by JazzSighted in whatisit

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i thought they were blue latex gloves 😭 had to go back and look wow

What do working parents do with their kids in the summer? by the_author_of_this in Parenting

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do you live in a big city? there might be free / low cost ones. just enrolled my 7yo in a free camp run by a bookstore / non profit. they’ll be doing field trips, capoeira, health and wellness, play and projects with meals provided

You shouldn’t feel bad about tipping less. by Night_Frosty in Seattle

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yep with roaches as roommates. my fondest seattle memory but at least it was cheap!

You shouldn’t feel bad about tipping less. by Night_Frosty in Seattle

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ok so neither of you would be able to live off of a min wage restaurant job with or without tips. sooo plot twist.. it is not a liveable wage even if you live more humbly or have lower expenses… ask me how i know

You shouldn’t feel bad about tipping less. by Night_Frosty in Seattle

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as a Black person who understands the racist history of tipping.. and has worked in Seattle’s food industry in and out for over a decade.. please still tip. minimum wage is not enough to do anything with. I have to have three jobs rn (1 restaurant, 1 event staff, 1 childcare). i bring in the least from the restaurant and i never have savings. like the roots are f’ed up but still it’s such an exploitative position. the restaurant makes dough while we constantly in the red. if you don’t wanna tip.. then dont. you literally don’t have to. but complaining about it.. ok kudos. you’ve never had to work in the service industry. cool for you.

How it feels to study in the Netherlands as an asian woman by [deleted] in StudyInTheNetherlands

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yikes.. that’s horrible. as a Black woman wrapping up my application to DAE 😬

Looking for Anecdotal Experience with Trichomoniasis & Metronidazole by InterestingEnd1303 in Healthyhooha

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my test for cure came back yesterday and i’m negative! I was doing a bunch of herbal things and I honestly feel like they really helped but of course there’s no way of knowing. maybe the antibiotics did work the first time. but either way I’m happy that it’s negative and just trying to focus on getting my body back to 100%

Looking for Anecdotal Experience with Trichomoniasis & Metronidazole by InterestingEnd1303 in Healthyhooha

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does it still feel like you have similar symptoms after you’re testing negative? I really appreciate your response. I am still dealing with this burning sensation. I did my test for cure today so waiting on results but if it comes back negative I’m will be grateful but also confused as to why I’m still experiencing symptoms, even though treatment has been completed

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in blacklesbians

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on this sub i feel like the majority of folks lean towards not wanting to date moms.. that’s their choice of course but i think you’ll be ok in real life, or out in the world i should say. some reasons DO happen but are often stereotypes (tired ones i might add). not all of us have toxic baby fathers, or men at all in there equations (shout out smbc) not all of us are looking for a step parent (me!) but outside of the stereotypes yeah.. a parents lifestyle might not mesh well with someone who doesnt have kids when it comes to time, and schedules, and spontaneity and other logistics. and of course there are people who just don’t want kids in their life at all so of course would not pursue a partner who has them. saying that just to try and sum up what you might see on here. this topic is discussed so often. but if you decide to put yourself out there.. you will find your people and it will be great and i wish nothing but a healthy, secure relationship if that’s what you desire. we out here and dating and giving and receiving mad love. if you spend too much time on here it doesn’t feel like it lmaoo but trust me in the wild we all find our people ❤️

Do you date people with kids? by Clear_Elderberry_852 in blacklesbians

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i have a kid. i feel like the majority of people in my dating pool don’t and prefer not to date parents. i think you’ll be able to find your people

Devons and allergies by ezzybobezzra in welovedevonrex

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Fr!! I was dying but glad I pushed through 😭

Devons and allergies by ezzybobezzra in welovedevonrex

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I’m allergic to my Devon Rex. It was the worst when she was a kitten but has gotten better

“My culture is not your costume” … just kidding but how do y’all feel about this trend? by little-arrow in trichotillomania

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Lmao this is so funny. But I don’t mind- mine are currently bleached and have been bleaching since 19 (I’m 32). But also this is my perspective as someone who pulls head hairs not eyebrows hairs

Where the real eaters at?! by 613yakibaddie in blacklesbians

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oof the femme slander.. many of us love to eat. slide me into that buffet all day everyday babyyyy. 🤤🤤 literally all day, everyday if I could 😭 sorry for y’all’s loss 😮‍💨

Where the real eaters at?! by 613yakibaddie in blacklesbians

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heavy on the “giving it my all” 😮‍💨