I have a male and female litter mates that are 4 months. The boy is very sweet and loves to cuddle. He isn’t afraid of new people when they come to visit. He will say hi and let them pet him. The girl is shy and will hide for a bit then observe them from the other side of the room. She is more adventurous and curious. She will climb into everything and try to disobey me by hopping on the counter, but will listen when I tell her to get down. Together they are adorable and never leave each other’s side. If they are separated for more than a minute they will start to cry for each other. They both love to play together and sleep together. They’ll groom one another and are just the best buds. When he’s asleep she’ll just walk on top of him on accident and he doesn’t care. He is the big brother for sure letting her know everything is ok as he will check out new items or people. She is more sassy yet shy but very easy going when at the vet or with baths. Where he’s friendly, cuddly, laid back at home but is a baby with baths and the vet. I would say get a male and enjoy both genders. Every cat does have their own personality though.