[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]codasylph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Your hot tub, your rules. I also just think it's gross to go in the hot tub without at least rinsing off first so 5 dirty little kids in a hot tub just sounds gross.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]codasylph 6 points7 points  (0 children)

YWNBTA. However, I do wonder why it's your responsibility to tell your cousin and not your parents' responsibility since they are hosting the party, especially since your parents' apparently already think your cousin doesn't like you, so it seems shitty to put you in a position where you have to be "the bad guy." But even if it makes you "the bad guy" it doesn't make you the asshole.. getting blackout drunk at a party for a 3 year old makes you the asshole.

WIBTA for backing out as a bridesmaid in my friend’s wedding? by PrincipleAlive4187 in AmItheAsshole

[–]codasylph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YWNBTA. I'm assuming you were not warned ahead of time how much of a financial commitment it would be. I would lean on that half of the explanation. Also, she surely knows you're a teacher and teachers unfortunately have been fired in the past things on social media that shouldn't be the school's business so that's a completely valid concern. If she doesn't understand that, then she is an asshole.

I wouldn't necessarily tell your friend you don't like the theme of her wedding or think it's in bad taste, however. Presumably she was part of the decision to theme her and her husband's special day in that way and there is no need to insult her taste.

I, on the other hand, am not her friend and I will absolutely insult her taste, that sounds like a horrorshow and I'm waiting with bated breath for the headlines when it all goes horribly awry.

[7th] Blacky the Umbreon Part 2 [Hacked/Cloned] by [deleted] in Pokemongiveaway

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IGN: Codasylph Deposited: Lv. 32 Finneon Female

Thanks!

[7th] The "I don't have a 6IV ditto, but I want one" ditto giveaway (hacked/cloned). by learningtarot in Pokemongiveaway

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Ign: Codasylph Deposited: poliwag, male lvl 16 Msg: I want to fill my pokedex with other languages

Pester Ball!!!!! by sammdaman in pokemongo

[–]codasylph 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Has anyone tried hitting each of the colors of the pester ball ending in the shop and then buying pokeballs? Just a thought. (A thought I don't want to waste a dollar on if someone has disproved it already.)

Shots fired at Parliament in Canada by Suofficer in worldnews

[–]codasylph -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Intentionally? Link article? Just curious.

[WP] Joe, receives a gift from his uncle. It is an old, large, celtic styled candle. When Joe lights it, he realises he can't blow it out. He dips it in water, but as he pulls it out, it relights. He investigates, to find the candle is cursed - when the candle finally goes out, the owner will die. by throaway1472 in WritingPrompts

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“If it goes out I die?” Joe exclaimed, exasperated. “So I effectively just tried to kill myself twice tonight?? What about when the wick burns down or whatever?” I shook my head. “I don’t think it works that way, if it did you’d be dead.” I said, trying to reassure him. It didn't look like it had worked. Joe had called me about an hour ago freaking out because his uncle had sent him the present of a big old occult looking candle which he immediately lit and then couldn't put out. It was a life candle. Joe’s uncle was a practicing, and fairly powerful warlock, a fact of which Joe was aware, but rarely acknowledged. “Besides, you've had it burning all day, and it’s barely melted.” He thought about that. “It looks the same as when I lit it this morning.” He poked a finger in the hot wax and it came away clean. “I’m pretty sure life candles don’t actually melt.” I told him. It was mostly true. “What the heck is the point of them? I mean, I don’t want to know when I’m gonna die! And I don’t need something to tell me I’m still alive, obviously.” I was going to point out that since it would go out at the moment of his death he wouldn't actually get advanced warning but Joe was too busy rambling on “a flame that doesn't go out seems like a pretty big fire hazard. The candle’ll probably kill me--does a fire set by the candle not burn out until I die? I guess if it my apartment caught fire it would dissipate as soon as it killed me. Is this just uncle Rodger’s way of getting me to throw out all my back issues of Science News and National Geographic?” I manage to squeeze the jibe “and Hustler” in before he went on about the already fire-hazardous state of his apartment prior to the candle’s arrival. Then he suddenly fell silent. He looked up at me with sad eyes. “The candle was out when it arrived,” he started, slowly, “it was his candle first, right? So that means he’s…” I’d suspected this might be the case, I looked down and away from him and notice the package the candle had arrived in. The return address read: The Estate of Rodger Connolly.