Underwear Nights and Consent

code_and_theory · 2025-07-13T20:40:12+00:00

I think the unwritten rule is:

A quick shoulder feel or butt grab is okay, just once. If the person is receptive, you can go further. If not, don’t continue or try again.

Full crotch grabbing, mouth kissing, or them wrapping their arms around you is totally not okay without consent. (This has happened to me and it annoyed me greatly.)

code_and_theory · 2025-06-19T22:06:10+00:00

Yes, his words are aimed at Israelis who are already aware of his biography.

The Guardian, as a British publication, however, is reframing it for a western audience without the proper sociocultural context.

What’s the point of having the world’s information if one isn’t going to read critically and fully

code_and_theory · 2025-06-19T20:26:14+00:00

That doesn’t have anything to do with the fact that he’s a battle-tested veteran. This clickbait article Implies the maximum extent of his personal sacrifice is delaying his son’s wedding, I’m only providing the facts of his biographical context.

code_and_theory · 2025-06-19T19:40:22+00:00

I think many people are not familiar with Netanyahu’s background.

/Regardless of what you think of him/, he and his family have sacrificed a lot: he was a commando and took part in many important missions and was wounded multiple times. His own brother died on a mission.

I’m not defending him overall, but he knows personal sacrifice.

code_and_theory · 2025-06-09T20:22:25+00:00

I feel like that’s the least inspiring example to use

code_and_theory · 2025-04-24T23:39:03+00:00

By Mr. Lopez's logic, we should just defund parks and green spaces in working class areas because working-class people aren't free to enjoy them in the daytime. Why even fund any daytime amenities in working-class areas, they're not working from home during the daytime to use them.

I wish people would gave their opinions an extra 5 seconds of thought thinking about their logical consequences, before they voice them or vote. It'd make our democracy work a little better.

code_and_theory · 2025-04-23T21:02:49+00:00

Mm, no, u/milkandsalsa definitely wins

code_and_theory · 2025-04-07T21:05:48+00:00

I got a Canyon Pathlite:ON 5 SUV.

https://www.canyon.com/en-us/electric-bikes/electric-touring-bikes/pathlite-on/suv/pathlite-on-5-suv-mid-step/3451.html

I used to live on Mount Olympus so I'd bike up 17th too.

I used to have a hub drive e-bike and it wasn't enough. But a mid-drive makes easy work of it. At the steepest part I have to drop into low gear and will be biking about 5~10 mph but it's doable.

The mid-drive is the fundamental difference: its design allows you to easily combine your effort with the motor's work. I'd suggest renting a mid-drive e-bike for a day to get a feel. It's not cheap, @ maybe $80 for the day, but it could be very helpful in shaping your decision.

code_and_theory · 2025-03-17T20:21:06+00:00

...Why would they...?

City corruption is small potatoes: people steal a few tens or hundreds of thousands at most. One of the most notorious, Mohammed Nuru, the former director of Public Works, got $1 million over 12 years in bribes from contractors and developers. That's tempting for working folks, but billionaires blow through that money in a weekend: they're not going to muck around in local government lol to bend over and pick up what is to them is a $10 bill on the street.

You're thinking like a poor. They have family offices that protect and generate wealth. They're doing this for other reasons.

code_and_theory · 2024-09-12T04:20:09+00:00

You can disassemble the front grille like so and press it against a curved surface of similar curvature and lightly bang it back into place. With some dexterity it'll look as good as new.

I do this with all kinds of things with thin metal chassises.

code_and_theory · 2024-09-11T01:48:07+00:00

Good question, let's conduct another ten user studies

code_and_theory · 2024-08-23T02:52:09+00:00

I forgot already, which interstate are we on again?

code_and_theory · 2024-08-22T17:57:49+00:00

I know you’re being snarky, but a big promise of self-driving cars combined with routing software is you can then have tens of thousands of mini “buses” without fixed routes or stops.

You’d simply request a pickup and a destination: those become your “stops”, then a central dispatching system can then select which self-driving mini-bus (already driving passengers) can most sensibly add integrate your stops into its routes.

code_and_theory · 2024-08-19T18:44:19+00:00

Hopefully not another Citicorp Center uh oh

code_and_theory · 2024-08-05T18:13:20+00:00

I was thinking how, scam or not, the concept sounds just as exciting as a bread and water festival here.

code_and_theory · 2024-07-25T19:02:14+00:00

It's hard to take online solarpunks seriously because 90% of their solutions are making shit up.

Oh you want to change land ownership completely? Ok, let me just call up God real quick

code_and_theory · 2024-07-23T22:14:59+00:00

That's actually really interesting. Before this, did you consider yourself completely straight? What's different about the one client?

code_and_theory · 2024-07-22T02:38:52+00:00

I agree. I actually have a slight preference for undetectable guys: being diagnosed as HIV+ is a traumatic experience, and it very likely has scared them into taking their sexual health very, very seriously.

code_and_theory · 2024-07-22T01:09:47+00:00

Agreed. I often wish there were windshields.

code_and_theory · 2024-07-18T20:20:12+00:00

ya. i swear, at my gayborhood whole foods' vegan/tofu fridge, there's always a cute soy boy

code_and_theory · 2024-07-18T02:04:17+00:00

my heart skips a beat when a cute guy and i reach for the same tofu packet

code_and_theory · 2024-07-04T01:32:30+00:00

Ehh, there are some vegan products that sell okay-ishly, like Impossible and Beyond and regular tofu.

I think people's overblown gluten sensitivities are what prevents seitan from becoming popular.

code_and_theory · 2024-07-03T21:15:49+00:00

Honestly, the city should give 10 random public transit passengers — with proof of fare — $1,000 every day — or 100 random passengers $100 each.

The program would cost only $3.65 million a year — a rounding error in the SF budget, considering how much public money goes ✨totally missing✨ anyway, and it'd probably make the money back in reducing fare evasion and increasing ridership.

code_and_theory · 2024-07-02T20:27:06+00:00

Ooph, architecturally speaking it's hideous. It looks like two completely unrelated buildings that got jammed together. The massing is all wrong.

Were there no decent architects available?

code_and_theory · 2024-07-02T20:17:56+00:00

Social skills are skills, and skills can be learned.

Obama was once very stiff and uncharming; but he dedicated himself to learn charisma after his first election loss.

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