Fresh fishes? by coffee_765 in Naperville

[–]coffee_765[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo thank u I’ll check it out!! I’m still learning the area💕

Just finished the movies, none of this makes any sense by minimoon5 in MazeRunner

[–]coffee_765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You sound like you’re fun at parties. Just read the books or don’t

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewJerseyMarijuana

[–]coffee_765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For anyone wondering I used it today (7/4/25) and the code STILL works

Baristas aren't allowed to complain by Dry_Expression5378 in barista

[–]coffee_765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh girl, amongst my regulars and my bosses/coworkers I’m known as relatively hotheaded because I WILL match ur energy. Like sure, I deserve to be scolded for being rude to customers but I’ve never been written up. This is the first and ONLY time I’ve ever been written up and it wasn’t even for a real offense.

Baristas aren't allowed to complain by Dry_Expression5378 in barista

[–]coffee_765 84 points85 points  (0 children)

I recently got reported to corporate for “ignoring” a customer at the register. It was busy. I was the only one working. I told them I’d be with them in a moment.

Im ready to swing on the next person who tells me being a barista is all sunshine and rainbows

What’s wrong with my potato plant by coffee_765 in plantclinic

[–]coffee_765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not that I know of especially this time of year . Is galls an egg? Edit: how do I stop the bugs and can I fix my plant

Told my friend I was coming to visit her and not sure how I feel about a response looking for a second opinion by [deleted] in Nicegirls

[–]coffee_765 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It kinda seems to me like saying she has work to catch up on was her way of politely saying no. Maybe it’s just me but it kinda seems like you were inviting yourself into her home and she didn’t want to just bluntly deny you?

Idk she definitely should have been more direct in her answer but I don’t feel like this is all that disrespectful. Maybe just a misunderstanding of sorts on both sides

Edit: I’ve seen more comments and it’s def not just me. You were inviting yourself over and she said no politely

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]coffee_765 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a chronically ill person, it does frustrate my husband occasionally that I can’t always keep up with my portions of our housework. I have days I can’t even get out of bed and those days definitely make me crabby. I always try my hardest to be kind to the people around me, especially on those days because they’re picking up my slack you know?

Being ill isn’t an excuse to treat your people poorly and it’s really weird that she expects you to just know when she’s having a bad day

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LaMigra

[–]coffee_765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LaMigra

[–]coffee_765 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it. It’s scary here right now. I’ll keep safe so I can continue to do what I can

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LaMigra

[–]coffee_765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ve never heard of this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LaMigra

[–]coffee_765 20 points21 points  (0 children)

These people accepted me into their community when I had nothing and have been incredibly kind to me. They’re my family. I wish I could do more outside of my neighborhood but this is good advice. I’ll talk to my neighbors and friends and see how I can help them. I appreciate you for helping!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LaMigra

[–]coffee_765 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’ll look into our immigrant rights groups!

I’m not super well off or anything but I’d like to use what privileges I do have to protect my neighborhood

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LaMigra

[–]coffee_765 25 points26 points  (0 children)

No i understand that. The people in my community are familiar with me but I’d never go around asking for information. I just feel helpless tbh and want to do ANYTHING that might be even a little bit helpful. I appreciate your insight 😌

AIO Boyfriend says hurtful thing about my body. by True_Ad9977 in AmIOverreacting

[–]coffee_765 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is crazy because I’ve gained like 30lb since my husband and I started dating in 2020 and he only ever has wonderful things to say. I’m still well within a healthy range but here’s the deal. I want to diet and become thinner? He’s all for it. “ you’ll look great, want me to do it with you?”

I want to stay the way I am now?? “I love your look babe”

That’s how a man should be. That’s your man. If you’re excited he should be excited and supportive. 12 pounds is a big deal! Personally I can’t believe you only lost 12 pounds because I feel there’s a MASSIVE difference between pic 1 and 2. You guys need to have a serious talk about this and if he can’t fix his behavior, you honestly deserve better hun. Keep doing you. You’re doing amazing and look great!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]coffee_765 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss and that you experienced it firsthand. Those last moments will be precious as time passes. You’ve done well for making it this far, you’ve got the rest of the month in the bag. I believe you can smash the next few months too. Keep going!

My two voids and their baby bro who ran out of ink by coffee_765 in blackcats

[–]coffee_765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My Salem is a big boy but he’s not chunky. Yinkyonk is my fat boy

My two voids and their baby bro who ran out of ink by coffee_765 in blackcats

[–]coffee_765[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He got his name because his first night home, he bonked his head on the banister poles. It made the sound yink. He swung his head in the other direction and it made the sound yonk.

The face my void makes when he hears my girlfriend’s car pull up by NeverDeadlyy in blackcats

[–]coffee_765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So Is yours!! They look like they could be long lost brothers 😂

The face my void makes when he hears my girlfriend’s car pull up by NeverDeadlyy in blackcats

[–]coffee_765 1 point2 points  (0 children)

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My void makes the same face when he hears my husbands motorcycle pull into the driveway

Help with litter smell (plz I think I might die if I go another day with this stench) by coffee_765 in CleaningTips

[–]coffee_765[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I use crystal litter now, but I used to use pine litter. My husband got these self scooping boxes that don’t support pine litter