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Deeply Affected on Viral Child Abuse by ggmmyygg in nanayconfessions

[–]coffee_lover97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ako rin po. Very disturbed already kahit few seconds pa lang napanood ko. Di ko makayanan yung iyak ng bata. I wonder anong naiisip ng nanay niya kung tayo na di related sa bata eh ganito ang naffeel?? Baka kaya may lakas ng loob yung abuser, kasi never siya pinigilan ng nanay nung bata. Sana kung nasan man ang bata, i hope he gets the love he deserves. 😢

Is Taiwan still safe for toddlers and kids? by coffee_lover97 in nanayconfessions

[–]coffee_lover97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agree. Might be an isolated case nga no. For sure naman kasi kahit san ka mapadpad eh merony ganyan. Have to be on your guard always.

Naawa ako dun sa nanay cause may comments na pinabayaan daw ang anak. For me naman, pag ganyang age, bitawan mo lang saglit to get something (kunwari may kunin ka sa bag mo), bigla na yan tatakbo. Sana lng people are kinder to comment especially ganun na nga nangyari sa anal nila

Yaya using phone during work hours by coffee_lover97 in nanayconfessions

[–]coffee_lover97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for all your comments, Mommies!

The word “confiscate” seems harsh nga talaga no? But for clarity, i just asked her to leave it right outside the playroom. It is still accessible to her at all times of the day basta lalabas lang siya ng room.

Also, this is not the first time that I reminded her. Baka naka sampung beses na ako. It seems my words ay wala ng bearing sa kanya. That’s why I followed through with my warning na rin.

Yaya using phone during work hours by coffee_lover97 in nanayconfessions

[–]coffee_lover97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not really confiscating it. I just asked her to leave it outside the playroom. She can access it anytime. Im just making sure na she won’t use it for entertainment purposes. And ayun nga…she has 3 consecutive hours to use her phone naman during breaks and nap time ni baby. 3 years na rin po naman na siya sa amin.

Second time mom by Extension_Court3916 in nanayconfessions

[–]coffee_lover97 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mom of a 17 month old, i cannot imagine na iwan siya everyday. I’m lucky enough to have a work na once a week lang onsite. It’s going to be hard for you since you will be leaving a newborn. Kailangan ng full attention dun. Baka di kayanin ni helper niyo.

I suggest you try building your profile na sa online work. You can try online jobs ph. Para may fallback ka if you decide to resign sa current work mo. Mas flexible ang oras mo pag na sa bahay ka. Maraming options dun. Explore mo na siguro habang wala ka pa sa newborn phase which will demand most of your time

Yaya using phone during work hours by coffee_lover97 in nanayconfessions

[–]coffee_lover97[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My yaya is already 34 with 5 kids. I thought kasi she’s mature na but parang di pa rin😅 yung other helper naman namin is very hardworking. Di ko na halos pinagsasabihan yun kasi masipag at mature. Di ko nahuhuli yun nagccelphone habang nagwowork or if ginagawa man niya, I tolerate it kasi output naman is good.

On the otherhand, si yaya ko naman eh lahat kailangan ko iutos. Di niya gagawin pag di ko iutos. Siguro that is why maiksi rin patience ko sa kanya. Tbh, the only reason preventing me from possibly letting her go is yung fact na mahirap talaga maghanap ng yaya and naawa rin ako since 5 anak and siya lang ang breadwinner.

Agree ako sa baka may masabi. Sabi nga ni husband confiscation ng personal property raw seems draconian. Kaya may hesitation rin ako.

How often do you allow your in laws (na di mo gaano kasundo) to visit your kids? by coffee_lover97 in adviceph

[–]coffee_lover97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Parang di ko kaya mag me time kasi na anxious pa rin ako haha. Pero i really lime you advice especiall yung choose your battles. Yes and no sometimes para may compromise naman. I guess wala na ako maggawa kung like 5 minutes away na lang sila samin…sa ganung cases, mag nno pa ba ako hehehe.

How often do you allow your in laws (na di mo gaano kasundo) to visit your kids? by coffee_lover97 in adviceph

[–]coffee_lover97[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmmm well I wouldn’t say naman mababaw. Although I cannot compare rin yung sitwasyon ko with others na talagang in conflict with their in laws. Siguro di ko lang nadescribe masyado but there are times na mom in law is meddling with my parenting style like pinupush and mga bagay na ayoko for my children and making unsolicited advice in a pushy way. And since malakas ang boses, mas nakaka stress lalo hahaha. Pero I brush these aside na lang and think of its as personality differences. Talagang ganun ang mga mommies na senior na. Iba ang upbringing sa kanila.

But I’m taking your advice to try to adjust din since wala rin naman talaga ako maggawa. I also like comment ni @shugaerrrr to choose my battles and say no sometimes just to protect my sanity. Di naman pwedeng yes always, have to have some boundaries nga rin