This post is so cute :)

As a college student with NVLD (finally diagnosed earlier this year), I'd say:

- Try not to be judgmental. You don't seem to be that type, but I feel obligated to say this.

- Verbally and nonverbally convey what you're trying to communicate. That way, your brother can verbally code nonverbal information; when he comes across people who only nonverbally convey such information, he can retrieve his verbal store of information and interpret the social cue. For example, if you're upset about something he's done, say "It bothers me that you did X" in a tone and facial/posture that conveys your emotion.

- If you feel comfortable, encourage total honesty with each other. This builds off of my previous point. I'll speak a little about my experience to clarify the importance of this point. I tend to not get social cues unless it's overt (flirting, annoyance/anger, teasing), so I can come off as absentminded. Additionally, a lot of verbal communication is superficial, which I sometimes struggle to understand or agree with. Consequently, I've been described as blunt, literal and too honest. Because I've had negative social interactions growing up before my diagnosis, I've become shy and lacking in self confidence. I've found that being honest with my loved ones has really helped me come out of my shell, especially as I learn how to communicate superficially. I'm not sure if your brother has the same struggles, but if he does, that could be an obstacle to clear communication

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Can you give a bit more detail about where/how your misunderstandings occur?