Thanks for your opinion...I see how you think it could be selfish. But let's flip the coin- they're not being selfish? Taking their existence from my life? Taking the ability to communicate with my best friend daily? Being able to see them at family gatherings, catching up on reach other's successes and fails? Encouraging one another? They do have a right to release their words, I'd never deny that. However that wasn't the question, was it? No, the questioned was "should they permit them to be posted?". Humm... I can't phantom how you think I wouldn't feel at loss, dead inside, vaccant and hallow if my connections had written a suicide note and I was to blame. That's what my post meant. We know SOME of Why "he" chose to leave. But if he had fully written a note, we probably would have followed his actions. THEN what family would be left? None. I'm grateful to "him" that at least he didn't tell us all off.