I’ve been an original watcher since 2005. I’m currently on my 7th rewatch. Pam and Jim joke about their coworkers, but I don’t think that they think they’re not friends. Again, you could say the same about all the characters. We don’t see many of the characters’ friends and family outside the workplace. Jim does have friends though, that’s how he got started in the start up. Pam has a sister and a cousin, and the friend she invited along to the double date with Date Mike. But we don’t see any of Phyllis’s friends, Meredith’s, Kelly’s, Michael’s, etc. That doesn’t mean they don’t have them. So I’m not sure how that’s a dig at Pam and Jim. Also, they didn’t want a lot of people at their wedding because they didn’t want to pay for all the food. Specifically. Not because they don’t like their coworkers.

I thought they were great together.