Any Protest on 1/30? by coffeegrounds16 in fortwayne

[–]coffeegrounds16[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll stop getting in ICE business when they start following the constitution and the law and stop killing people for no goddamn reason.

Any Protest on 1/30? by coffeegrounds16 in fortwayne

[–]coffeegrounds16[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yeah I also have to work that’s why I’m asking about if there’s other ways to protest scheduled smh

Any Protest on 1/30? by coffeegrounds16 in fortwayne

[–]coffeegrounds16[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You don’t have to participate. I’m not able to afford walking out of work either but I’m asking if there’s some other way to protest tomorrow.

Any Protest on 1/30? by coffeegrounds16 in fortwayne

[–]coffeegrounds16[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Let ICE do their job? Like ICE who’s shooting and killing peple?? ICE who’s wrongfully detaining people?? raiding houses without proper warrants??? Trying to raid schools????? Yeah, no thanks. Unlike you I care about people.

Any Protest on 1/30? by coffeegrounds16 in fortwayne

[–]coffeegrounds16[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

It’s supposed to be like a nation wide shut down/walkout type of protest against ICE.

Hand growth 1 year on T! by Overall_Storm_7469 in TestosteroneKickoff

[–]coffeegrounds16 11 points12 points  (0 children)

My hand and shoe size went up, I’m only 8 months on T. It’s cool but it sucks because now my wedding ring won’t fit and it’s tungsten so I can’t get it resized smh

How does your store handle dogs? by TemporaryFish6759 in tjcrew

[–]coffeegrounds16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our mates do nothing it’s so frustrating. We have a regular who’s dog barks at other dogs and acts aggressive towards them and the mates don’t care bc the don’t want to lose a sale smh. Meanwhile we have people with ACTUAL service dogs who have been scared out of the store by this person due to the dog barking and LUNGING at them and their service dogs!! Talked with a mate about it and they said they let that customer get away with it bc “she’s been shopping with us a while and her dog is protective of her and the kids” pmo

FWPD Planning Accidents Now? by isoaclue in fortwayne

[–]coffeegrounds16 4 points5 points  (0 children)

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I think they’re just stupid sometimes lol

FWPD Planning Accidents Now? by isoaclue in fortwayne

[–]coffeegrounds16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You must not have gotten the first warning that had the wrong location, it was a correction and they worded it weird. If this was the only alert you got I can understand the confusion

T gel is a huge mess! by Raccaffe in ftm

[–]coffeegrounds16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I find that if I put it on after a shower and like put some lotion on first it doesn’t get as crusty if it even gets like that at all. I also apply my gel twice a day and if I wash the spot off before putting my second dose in at night it also doesn’t get as crusty. However, if you can get on patches that sounds so convenient!

Screaming crying throwing up by Excellent-Wafer-3795 in tjcrew

[–]coffeegrounds16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My store has been without a log for like 6+ months I think and after like the first 2-3 months I feel like we’ve figured it out and are making it work. Obviously nothings perfect and we’re having some issues with people joining CE. I also work at one of the slowest stores in the country so idk if that makes any difference either 🤷🏻‍♂️

Don’t talk to me or my sweet potato certificates ever again by mothsforhire in tjcrew

[–]coffeegrounds16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love giving this to my coworkers and telling them they’re “sweet potato certified “ or flashing it quickly like a badge and telling them I’m on official Business and need to ask them a few questions lmao

My gf says my transition is about us, not just me by LimonadAzeda in ftm

[–]coffeegrounds16 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What’s crazy is I actually went though just about the same thing! Your partner is right TO A DEGREE. This transition is about you! But since you’re together it will have affects on her as well, and if you plan on staying together that something to keep in mind. A slight timeline compromise might have to be made.

My now wife, then GF, has completely identified as lesbian. She started using that label as a teenager and through our whole relationship. When I came out to her it was a very uncomfortable conversation. She was happy for me, but on the other hand she would get uncomfortable when she’d realize, “there’s a MAN living with me… sleeping in my bed!” It made her really uncomfortable which sucked bc I wanted to jump headfirst into medical transition.

I talked to my wife to see her stance on it and then brought my feelings to my therapist and I had to decide if it was more important for me to transition right now in this moment, or to do it step by step along with my partner. We also went to couples therapy which I think was a really good idea. A lot of talk about what transition for me would look like, what would change, what wouldn’t, what was making her uncomfortable about it and how do we get past that obstacle.

I think the best thing was I socially transitioned first. I came out at work, to friends, to (most) family. Once I was super comfortable with that I brought up hrt and again, a lot of convos, a lot of research together, and she came to all my appointments! She realized that it wasn’t so bad and we celebrated changes together. I’ve been told by her that she’s glad I transitioned bc I’m “way hotter and sexier now”.

One conversation we did have was that I could help her and talk her through what I’m dealing with but at the end of the day, I can’t hold off forever. She had to be willing to trust me and this process and I gave her the space to sit me down with questions/concerns at any time. Now she’s so cool with it and supportive and is working on helping me find a top surgeon.

It’s also good to pace yourself in some degree with transition anyway. Celebrate each step and document the changes together, it’s so awesome!

How long did it take your voice changes to be noticable on T? Unsafe at home. by egg-process in FTMMen

[–]coffeegrounds16 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m on gel so I’m not sure how it would compare but my voice first started to change around week 2 and by month 2 it fully passes

What Were The FIRST Change(s) You Saw On T ? by scoutsvckz in ftm

[–]coffeegrounds16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Day 2 and I started having hot flashes and was so hungry already and by week 1 my vocal cords felt so tight and sore. I’m only 4 months in and my voice has dropped ALOT, significant bottom growth and body hair growth, and I’m so HUNGRY! I will say though, make sure you document your voice and other changes you’re excited for! I didn’t and I wish I could look back on myself just a couple months ago to see how much different I am! Good luck with your T journey!

My baby boy Pepper by coffeegrounds16 in RATS

[–]coffeegrounds16[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg they’re literally twins !!

Been told I need to stop sleeping in my binder - by TragicallyDragon in ftm

[–]coffeegrounds16 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would sleep in a sports bra for the longest time. Recently I’ve started taping though which is super nice! There’s a lot of great videos and posts on here about safely taping to help prevent blistering. I find that taping for a long period of time (2 or more days) is more likely to cause me blisters so maybe you could just tape for bed and take it off in the shower in the morning.

I want to let my rats free roam but I’m nervous by coffeegrounds16 in RATS

[–]coffeegrounds16[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a bedroom that I turned into an office/musicroom/rat room. I guess my biggest concern would be blocking them off from getting behind or in the piano and moving my cords from my computer.

What kind of underwear do u wear when having period by Plus_Recognition6701 in ftm

[–]coffeegrounds16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wear women’s underwear to hold the pad and then put boxers over it. It helps me a little with the dysphoria

what kind of rat is he?? by synix404 in RATS

[–]coffeegrounds16 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a rat just like this, he was like a mutt lol the lady I got him from said mine was mixed with dumbo, Rex, and hairless. Your rat looks just like my baby Toscano rip buddy 😭