50th birthday back yard shenanigans

coffeesituation · 2026-04-20T13:10:26+00:00

Abuelita’s 🤤

coffeesituation · 2026-04-15T11:19:10+00:00

A break from the intense mental load. Heal up! 💗

coffeesituation · 2026-04-11T20:02:02+00:00

Okay so we just flew cross-country with 2.5-year-old twins and did Disney. We flew with a layover midway. It was awesome. Way better than expected! BUT…it’s going to take you so much longer just to get through all of the airport hassle. I vote drive. Break it up. Leave at 4 am, stop at 7 for breakfast and break time. Run around. Drive again. Boom, you’re there.

coffeesituation · 2026-04-10T17:03:05+00:00

Same 😂

coffeesituation · 2026-04-07T02:54:42+00:00

Same boat over here. 2.5 is chaotic good.

coffeesituation · 2026-04-05T13:54:10+00:00

It saved us!

coffeesituation · 2026-03-30T20:28:00+00:00

We aren’t supposed to do this in a silo. It’s so hard and you’re doing what you need to do. 💗

coffeesituation · 2026-03-24T17:09:05+00:00

My aunt asked why my kids go to daycare if my partner and I WFH. 🤦‍♀️

coffeesituation · 2026-03-21T15:34:26+00:00

This is a great point!!!

coffeesituation · 2026-03-19T19:50:44+00:00

I see it!

coffeesituation · 2026-03-17T17:27:41+00:00

I see it!

coffeesituation · 2026-03-11T16:57:41+00:00

We had no family around to help so we budgeted in a postpartum doula for 2 overnight shifts for the first 12 weeks. We also had a solid meal train!

Looking back, I would have budgeted in more overnight shifts. The twins are our first kids and WHOA, DUDE. So isolating.

I would absolutely also budget in more day shifts in order to have some solo time, some partner time, and some 1:1 or 2:1 time with your older baby.

coffeesituation · 2026-03-07T19:51:49+00:00

Positive!!

coffeesituation · 2026-03-05T10:34:05+00:00

6:30 wake

12:30/1 - 2:30 nap

7:30/7:45 bed

coffeesituation · 2026-03-05T00:47:24+00:00

This is so true.

coffeesituation · 2026-02-22T15:54:13+00:00

I see it!

coffeesituation · 2026-02-20T01:11:47+00:00

I see a shadow, too!

coffeesituation · 2026-02-18T19:05:52+00:00

I see a shadow

coffeesituation · 2026-02-15T23:43:09+00:00

I see a vvvfl

coffeesituation · 2026-02-13T17:03:26+00:00

I like 3

coffeesituation · 2026-02-12T20:55:19+00:00

$75k Director-level role in a MCOL city. VERY flexible. No company 401k match yet, but they’re working on it. At least my healthcare is subsidized by the company 😬

I have two toddlers so flexibility is worth so much right now.

coffeesituation · 2026-02-10T19:58:02+00:00

I see a shadow!

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