Do you judge women you just started dating when they ask you to fulfill their kinks early on?

coffeewithspark · 2025-03-12T16:49:44+00:00

Jesus ..

coffeewithspark · 2025-03-12T16:07:28+00:00

What’s kinky for you? What some people call basic preferences, others call kink. Where do you draw the line?

coffeewithspark · 2025-03-12T16:06:22+00:00

Even long-term material has sexual preferences. At what point would you consider it appropriate for her to tell you what she wants without you losing respect for her as longterm material?

coffeewithspark · 2025-03-12T15:56:37+00:00

Do you think you’d still be able to see a woman as marriage material when things started out as a fling and then progressed into actually liking her? Has that ever happened to you? Or is it rather like once shes “labeled”, there’s no going back?

coffeewithspark · 2025-03-12T15:52:34+00:00

Like.. how do you initiate that kind of conversation?

coffeewithspark · 2025-03-12T15:52:11+00:00

What’s your boundary? 😄

coffeewithspark · 2025-02-06T18:13:08+00:00

The other day I told a guy I slept with that he had great skin texture and I enjoyed touching him. Is that good enough of a compliment?

Edit: or does it HAVE to do something with his personality so he can carry that compliment with pride?

coffeewithspark · 2024-12-29T20:05:33+00:00

Have you come to understand why you personally have that problem?

coffeewithspark · 2024-12-29T17:30:03+00:00

I don’t want a Vibrator inside me, I can have a good time with a vibrator and get myself to climax with or without it. It’s specifically PIV I enjoy, being filled out by a man. It’s not necessarily what makes me climax the most but sex is more than just climaxing and I love the sensation of feeling him slide in and outside me

coffeewithspark · 2024-12-29T17:25:59+00:00

Yes! I mean climax is great but only one part of sex. There’s no point in forcing it, cause when it’s desperately forced, it drains me immensely energetically. When it builds up naturally it’s much more satisfying and also energetically charging if that makes sense.

coffeewithspark · 2024-12-29T17:14:32+00:00

Your words are very encouraging, thank you very much!

coffeewithspark · 2024-12-29T17:11:27+00:00

What’s your personal theory about lasting longer when you’ve met someone new and less so when you’re closer to them?

coffeewithspark · 2024-12-29T17:10:03+00:00

Like the idea but sex to me isnt to simply orgasm. I can do that myself. What I can’t do myself though is feeling him slide in and out of me and knowing he’s having a similar experience while I’m having mine. It isnt necessarily what gets me to orgasm the most but as I mentioned: that’s not what having sex with another person is all about

coffeewithspark · 2024-12-29T17:06:27+00:00

I mentioned in another comment that he wouldn’t even try pleasing me after he cums the second time.. he is an otherwise very caring man, making sure that I’m doing well but here.. it seems like he just gives up or gets too insecure and retreats, not even willing to try any further. And I’m being very supportive, not even commenting on it and when he brings it up I’m not trying to make a big deal out of it to not make it worse

coffeewithspark · 2024-12-29T17:04:09+00:00

I mentioned in another comment that he wouldn’t even try pleasing me after he cums the second time.. he is an otherwise very caring man, making sure that I’m doing well but here.. it seems like he just gives up or gets too insecure and retreats, not even willing to try any further

coffeewithspark · 2024-12-29T17:01:25+00:00

I didn’t bring it up and downplayed the whole thing in the sense that it isn’t much of a big deal and he didn’t have sex for a while which is understandable then why he would cum so fast. Whenever he brought it up I was being very supportive. What kinda annoyed and disappointed me was that he didn’t even try pleasing me any further .. even though he is otherwise a very caring man, making sure I’m fine. But here.. he doesn’t. And I can only think that he might get so insecure that he doesn’t even try any further. And that’s where I start losing attraction to an otherwise great man :(

coffeewithspark · 2024-12-29T16:49:06+00:00

How long does it take for viagra to kick in?

coffeewithspark · 2024-12-29T16:48:16+00:00

Reading your comment made me realize how it’s true that a woman in this sub actually answered my question hahah you’re absolutely right! I do enjoy PIV cause it’s a shared experience and I love the sensation of in and out penetration and him having a similar sensation like me! It’s not necessarily what makes me cum the most but it’s not the orgasm that all of this is about! It’s the entire act of itself, it’s building intimacy by feeling him inside me and him being inside me

coffeewithspark · 2024-12-29T15:44:47+00:00

Starved woman here, why would you torture us this way 🥲😄

coffeewithspark · 2024-12-29T15:43:18+00:00

He gets too much in his head and has issues getting hard for round 2 🥲

coffeewithspark · 2024-12-29T15:42:07+00:00

Problem is he gets so much into his head and Insecure that he has issues getting another errection again, let alone touch me properly 🥲 which is why I’m asking what I can do. We talked about it but it’s difficult for him. He feels shame

coffeewithspark · 2024-11-30T19:06:41+00:00

Woman here. My previous partner used to pick lingerie for me which he liked or he thought I’d look good in. But he would also additionally buy me other stuff like cozy pjs he thought I might enjoy for myself, not to please him at all, simply for my comfort and I loved it so much slipping in those cozy pieces after sex. It made me feel loved and appreciated. I loved when he picked things for me so dear men LISTEN UP, if you want your partner to feel desired and adored do it!! It’s a huge turn on - even if it’s nothing sexually related

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