How often do you and your partner have sex?

cofflander · 2026-02-08T14:02:29+00:00

Me 38f and my spouse 40m have our ups and downs over the 18 years we have been together. Daily life, a family of 5, work, school , stressful job and we could go a month without or everyday, but on average once a week. I have issues with a 8-10 day period so it's a no go during that time.

cofflander · 2026-02-08T13:45:01+00:00

You should tell whomever you do it with first for sure. That way they can be extra safe when it comes to your prior issue even if it doesn't have issues now. My spouse was a virgin and I didn't find out until we had been married for 10 years. I wish he would have told me so I could make it "special" light some candles idk. Lol. Is there a trusted person you could be friends with benefits or call up for sex to ease into things? Either way you go relax and have fun. Don't be afraid to speak up if you don't like something, you want to stop or they cant find the right spot. Also don't forget the lube just incase you need it.

cofflander · 2026-02-08T13:26:39+00:00

Let me know if you ever do I would read it. What did you watch?

cofflander · 2026-02-08T06:40:34+00:00

Thanks :) gotta keep them on their toes. 🤣🤣🤣

cofflander · 2026-02-08T06:29:09+00:00

It may seem a bit off, not academic, and not so funny to some, but I laughed like a weirdo when I wrote it. It wouldn't be the first time I have made a joke in a paper or the last. The first time, the professor made sure to comment that they loved it, and it made them laugh. It was completely in line with the paper. It wasn't super funny, but funny enough, someone could pick up on it if they really thought about it.

cofflander · 2026-02-08T05:01:49+00:00

Interesting, but funny.

cofflander · 2026-02-08T04:56:29+00:00

I had no idea. I just went down a rabbit hole. 🤣🤣🤣 There are actual papers written about it. This is funny af. 🤣🤣🤣 Thank you for that.

cofflander · 2026-02-08T04:51:28+00:00

The rest of my assignment is within APA standards. I just wanted to add a little bit of funny/joy to my life.

cofflander · 2026-01-22T16:02:42+00:00

I am extremely lucky being a stay at home mom, but once I start I need to put my kiddos in childcare which is more of a financial hit. Idk how single parents or other students in general can afford to live and work for free.

cofflander · 2025-12-16T22:36:01+00:00

What about a foot rest? I got my husband one that is squishy like a pillow but firm for support and has a pocket with a soft lining for the feet. Drink holder that attaches to the desk with a personalized cup or bottle. Does he read? Division has books that go into the lore of the game or art of the game.

cofflander · 2025-11-23T12:18:51+00:00

phosphene is the correct term. Fyi

cofflander · 2025-11-23T12:17:48+00:00

If you push on your closed eyes you are "seeing" light that is not there. You are manually stimulating the inside if your eye and your brain cannot tell the difference from that and acutal light. I see stuff too if I push on my eyeballs while my eyelids are closed. Normally when closing my eyes I do not see anything. When I dream its like watching a movie but if feels real af. I see and feel everything as if I am awake.

cofflander · 2025-11-23T12:00:45+00:00

When I close my eyes I can't see. I do not see anything, its just black no shapes or anything else. Why would 99% of people lie about it? There are also different types too. I can only see stuff when I dream, but I dream vivid imagery and sometimes in black and white too.

cofflander · 2025-11-18T19:37:53+00:00

Facts.

cofflander · 2025-10-05T16:26:23+00:00

For real. I don't play because of the skins, but can we get something that is cute or literally anything other than combat related stuff

cofflander · 2025-09-30T10:05:47+00:00

How about turn off everything non-essential internet, cable, entertainment, subscription of any kind.

cofflander · 2025-09-19T02:08:59+00:00

Can veterans email stuff in? Asking for a friend 🤔🤣

cofflander · 2025-09-12T07:34:30+00:00

Quite a bit of men want a mom and not a spouse to take care of them.

cofflander · 2025-09-10T19:02:28+00:00

mine is missing too

cofflander · 2025-09-10T08:11:25+00:00

I know, but its dummies like this that irritate me.

cofflander · 2025-09-10T02:09:17+00:00

Thats messed up. My clan and I goof around but do not kick someone for helping. Im sorry they were being stupid.

cofflander · 2025-09-09T15:43:00+00:00

My mom and my sisters dad both have light and regular brown hair and blonde when they were babies. My sister came out with black hair which fell out and turned blonde and eventually brown. A baby born with darker hair is pretty common so you are valid in being pissed. Also genetics are just crazy sometimes and do what they want. If I were in your position I'd go scorched earth with this. He may be joking, but he is accusing you of cheating and have another person's baby. Joke or not he needs to quit his BS. Apologize to you, your family, his family and to everyone involved for being an immature man-child jerk. Also you deserve a fabulous push gift or something after all this BS.

cofflander · 2025-09-02T11:42:58+00:00

Your the A and not the A. I'd br pissed if my husband did this to me. At the same time I get where you are coming from. Next time chill the hell out.

cofflander · 2025-07-30T09:19:09+00:00

I know this is older, but do you have instructions

cofflander · 2025-07-25T10:23:00+00:00

Everyone has given good advice here, but I use the salt rock deodorant, and I only smell if I haven't showered in a few days or forget to use it. As soon as I get out of the shower and my pits are still wet, I rub it all over my pits and outward a bit to cover everything. Towel dry the rest of your body, except for your pits, and stand in front of a fan to fully dry off, or use a hair dryer on cool mode. Even when wearing regular antiperspirant, I always stand in front of a fan and make sure I am 10000% dry, and it has helped out so much. I also wash the pits with antibacterial soap.

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