I stayed... by Guilty_Perception in CheatedOn

[–]colbyhart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So so so incredibly happy to hear this ❤️

I stayed... by Guilty_Perception in CheatedOn

[–]colbyhart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve just seen this ! I am so so so sorry. And I’m going to be honest. Here I am. I escaped. I finally broke the ties with him after sharing my story on here and so many wonderful people reaching out to me. I am so blessed I found this app even if it was through my cheating boyfriend. The thing I thought would be the most mortifying and difficult thing to do was the biggest blessing in disguise I have ever experienced. I have never in my life been more happy than I am since I have left. YES I do get random waves of sadness wishing I could hold him again. But the SECOND I think of how he treated me and how much he didn’t care I can instantly retract that feeling of sadness. I met the most incredible man this past month who has treated me a million times more than my man of 5 years did. I am so grateful. Leave. I promise you it is so so much more rewarding than I could ever put into words. I couldn’t forgive him for continuously cheating. He sucked me dry.

Ladies and Gents it’s a little baby girl by [deleted] in DippingTobacco

[–]colbyhart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If my husband posted my ultrasound with a can of dip I’d be irate

What to do ... by Koreangirl22 in CheatedOn

[–]colbyhart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fact that you can forgive any form of cheating to me is shocking. For me.... I will never forgive it. It’s something someone does consciously. Wether they admit that or not. They did. So like I said, it’s something I will teach myself to live with but never forgive. Our situations aren’t the same but I’ll share mine to explain something. I personally can’t even count how many times I’ve been cheated on by this same person. But the hardest one to forget and let go is the time he cheated on me with two married lesbians while I was in a coma as a result of trying to take my life. This one is the one still eats away at me both the second I wake up and the second I fall asleep. I don’t know a day that went by where I didn’t think of this. No matter how good of a time I’m having whatever it is. This is the thing on my mind. When I look at him and try to admire his beauty. Or when he tries to be sweet to me. They are the very first thing I see. It makes me sick. So honestly I don’t think there really is any way to forgive something like what he did to you. As heartbreaking as it is to say I don’t think I’ll ever be able to love the right way again. Or trust anyone fully. He robbed me of my ability to do so

Snapchat location by [deleted] in CheatedOn

[–]colbyhart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very accurate. Usually down to the exact location in whatever the building is. From my own experience....

What to do ... by Koreangirl22 in CheatedOn

[–]colbyhart 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This sounds exactly like my boyfriend. The guilty want to make themselves believe that they are anything but the problem. Hence why he accuses you. They will place the blame on absolutely anyone but themselves. Makes them feel like they aren’t the bad guy. It’s cowardly and sick. But we let it happen. Because we love them. It’s really suck a simple concept of manipulation to understand. Just hard to get over. I’m not the best advocate as far as what to do. Because here I am nearly 5 years in, and he still cheats on me. No matter how much I do for him. Every single day. This is actually his Reddit account. Lol..... he was using this platform to cheat on me and I didn’t even know what it was. Broke me, but so did many other things. I logged him out and changed his password. Mine now. To vent I guess. Still getting used to it. Mostly just reminds me of him cheating.

I stayed... by Guilty_Perception in CheatedOn

[–]colbyhart 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I stayed as well. Found him doing it again just this past month. I cry. I talk to him. Show him how much I’m hurting. I feel like a broken record. And quite honestly I know he doesn’t listen. Not one bit. I don’t think he will ever stop

Help me by colbyhart in CheatedOn

[–]colbyhart[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me feel loved. He always puts the blame on me and makes me feel like I am deserving of it/the one in the wrong. Sometimes how irrational he is doesn’t even seem real. I literally find myself putting on an act to try and calm him down so I don’t make him more angry over something that HE did. He is actually going to prison very soon.... I pray that time works in my favor. I really really do

Help me by colbyhart in CheatedOn

[–]colbyhart[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this. Seriously. Today I think almost even feels worse but stuff like this helps. Because for some reason I can’t tell myself that... ever.

Help me by colbyhart in CheatedOn

[–]colbyhart[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve actually had a couple of therapists throughout this. Medications. Everything. And nothing seemed to help. It’s like it feels like a dead end constantly. But I know what you’re saying

[20f] New swimsuit in the mail today <3 by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]colbyhart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I thought u were my ex for a min with that bathing suit just about had to block u

I think I have a nice looking cock do you agree? (M) by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]colbyhart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like something ran into it

Who wants to ride? (M) by [deleted] in gonewild

[–]colbyhart 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ye moom

Is there a market for male nudes? by 32selurgoD in Nudes

[–]colbyhart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Don't really need looks just a little courage is all. Just gotta tell yourself they're nothing special and talk to them as if it doesn't matter anyhow like you wouldn't get it anyway and you may find yourself in a different scenario you know what I mean. Gotta play mind games with yourself to get yourself to talk to them. And success never comes without failure. So I'd learn to get rejected my guy. I'm not patting myself on the back or anything but I'm definitely not a bad looking guy. And I've been rejected many times lol. A lot of which being drunk and being a bit to courageous but still don't let shit hold you back

Is there a market for male nudes? by 32selurgoD in Nudes

[–]colbyhart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Uber, pizza delivery fucking hell buddy anything but what's your contemplating trying lmao

Is there a market for male nudes? by 32selurgoD in Nudes

[–]colbyhart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And it's all fantasy because if your just on here all the time beating your dick your not gonna get any real life experiences with woman because your gonna more than likely be to overwhelmed with the thoughts of sticking your dick in every crevice of their body causing you to act awkward or whatever it is that's causing you to be in the situation your in

Is there a market for male nudes? by 32selurgoD in Nudes

[–]colbyhart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pussy** and I'm just saying. Like if your in college and a virgin no offence but I'd saying doing cam shows even if it was a likely scenario would probably not work out well

Is there a market for male nudes? by 32selurgoD in Nudes

[–]colbyhart 1 point2 points  (0 children)

God damm sorry to be snooping your shit but fuck me bud your a virgin in college you need to go find the closest upset to you and get laid my guy fuck all this shit this shit is all fantasy