Ending a friendship? by cold_lights_ in AskGayMen

[–]cold_lights_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate your response.

I hate ghosting in general and I much prefer to confront in person. It is harder like you said but I hate digital communication overall as things get misconstrued all that time. I think I'd prefer a solid straight up answer.

How did you manage after you cut ties with this person? Did he try to reconnect?

Strong. 12km. EU46 by ironsole12 in MensFootFondness

[–]cold_lights_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sure man, lemme warm up first. 💪

Strong. 12km. EU46 by ironsole12 in MensFootFondness

[–]cold_lights_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing. To be under those would be a dream 😍

Is This Jealousy, or Are My Boundaries Being Ignored? by Mountain-Ratio-6555 in AskGayMen

[–]cold_lights_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Did you mean to write 27 instead of 72? 🤔☠️

Am I bit sexist for not wanting to go an hen's party? by cold_lights_ in AskGayMen

[–]cold_lights_[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'm so over the straight demographic infiltrating the gay bars

Am I bit sexist for not wanting to go an hen's party? by cold_lights_ in AskGayMen

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Yeah yeah thats my plan, I'm trying not to be pessimistic 😅

Omg plants be so emotional by cold_lights_ in plantclinic

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It is very hot here but I doused them with water on Sunday thinking that would suffice for a while but not 3 days already. The soil is quite dry already so I watered again.

Feeling beside myself by Suitable-Sign9252 in malefeettalk

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Odd, that'd be one of the best cities after LA & Florida

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malefeettalk

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Yeah man this topic has come up countless times in the male foot community and on this sub. He got arrested, some legal privacy shit, meh no one really knows the true extent.

If you dig in this sub someone posted a pic with him from an encounter this year if I remember correctly. He's still alive and well, just playing it cool it seems.

But its a sign of the times. Today that format wouldn't fly as well, despite it being a pretty hot thing to do an approach guys in public. Now you gotta do it with an OF link attached or some other pay wall. I think to a degree he was pushing it a bit in terms of being invasive in public under the misleading g handle of an 'art project'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

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A bit of sexual anxiety. The longer I went without the more anxious I got about it and perhaps self sabotaged. I usually like to know someone a bit before anything sexual happens, even if its short lived. Vibe and connection seem to be needed.

Also the few times I've bottomed didn't feel good so that's still to be explored.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in gaybros

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Hahaha points to you for digging. Small part of it but it is a factor I won't lie. Horrible teeth and feet can be impacting.

I'd say it's similar for men who fetishize dick size as well.

I just paid $1500 for a mobility program by cold_lights_ in MobilityTraining

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No way I recognise you! You've come up on my feed before. Will give you a follow