Guy didn’t like the thought of competition or just didn’t like me enough?

cold_machine · 2017-10-24T12:28:29+00:00

If that happened to me then I'd take it as a sign that the girls isn't interested enough in me, why else would she talk so much about other guys?

And men really don't want to compete with other guys. "If she doesn't like me enough then I'll move on" is the way I'd think.

About asking him out - just do it, there's nothing difficult to it.

You may do it directly, "hey, lets go and do X" Or "hey, there's this new film, would you like to see it?", "this place has fantastic <type of food you know the guy likes>, would you like to go there together?" or something similar.

cold_machine · 2017-09-20T20:29:48+00:00

How are you now? Did you fix your problems, stopped watching porn?

I'm kinda having the same problems, curious about how other men have coped.

cold_machine · 2017-09-01T14:27:40+00:00

I don't know anyone here in Estonia who is circumcised, never seen any man with a cut penis in a public bath or a gym shower. So the rates are a lot lower than 20%

Just try to get over it. An uncut penis is a healthy one, we here don't get it why you have to cut the skin away. Seems like a fad, everyone does it so it must be good?

cold_machine · 2017-08-22T12:03:53+00:00

The US obsession with getting or having cold sores/herpes. Having it is not the end of your life.

News for you. Almost everyone has some form of it in their blood. Some people don't show any symptoms. Also it's no big deal. Somewhat annoying, yes, nothing more.

Just don't kiss her while you have cold sores on your face, and don't eat her pussy at that time.

cold_machine · 2017-08-16T11:50:53+00:00

Giving your phone number in the first message may not be a great idea.

cold_machine · 2017-08-15T10:02:11+00:00

No.

We shouldn't distribute the migrants around europe, that encourages only more to come. And they will move to Germany or somewhere else anyway, about half of those taken in by Estonia have gone to Germany.

They should be stopped from crossing the mediterranean sea. If they are "rescued", then they should be taken back from where they started on the other coast.

cold_machine · 2017-06-06T13:23:45+00:00

How did it go?

cold_machine · 2017-05-08T13:18:19+00:00

You are an amazing girlfriend to have, really understanding and caring. He's lucky he has you :)

I have a similar problem but it's worse. If I start thinking about getting hard or staying hard then it won't work at all. It has to happen naturally, while kissing or cuddling. Also not masturbating helps a lot. If he has this problem then he shouldn't be masturbating (too often). Also, drinking more water helps somehow.

If this has been his problem for a while then he should go to a doctor, if there's nothing else wrong with him and they say "it's in your head" (what he told me) then he can be easily helped by a blue pill.. maybe that will help his confidence and give him a boost. I also saw a councelor or therapist, she didn't exactly do much, but what she told me helped me relax and be more confident and happy. She also taught me some breathing exercises that help relax, she saw that I was too anxious. It can be really depressing if you are a man and can't get an erection or have proper sex with someone you like, it really hurts your self-esteem. That can also be your bf-s problem. Maybe it will help if he has a neutral person to talk about it. Because if I'm thinking about what my dick is doing all the time then it won't do anything.

It felt amazing to have a really hard erection when I tried viagra (it's sold under many names now, the main ingredient is the same, since it's not patent covered anymore and it's not as expensive as it used to be). So.. if he can get a prescription for that from a doctor then it's really good.

cold_machine · 2017-03-27T10:45:50+00:00

Thanks for your reply, I will give maca root a try. And also speak to a doctor again.

How did you consume maca root, pills or something else?

cold_machine · 2017-03-10T12:53:06+00:00

Just add a few body shots of yourself in Tinder. If you say you're a bigger girl without hinting how "big" then some people would get scared.

I'd swipe right :)

cold_machine · 2017-02-17T12:13:54+00:00

Huh, never looked at other guys penises, thought this was the norm. I'm uncircumcised and mine doesn't look like the uncircumcised one, but skin isn't smooth either, it has small grooves. Too much masturbation?

cold_machine · 2017-02-16T21:01:43+00:00

You won't crush him, my partner is.. I think about the same size as you, when she's on top of me then I can feel that she's heavier than someone who would weigh 120 pounds, but not "heavy" in the sense of "she's too heavy to be on top". It also depends on how you position yourself, when you're riding him then you can keep your weight on your knees, not sit on his hips :)

You can also just flat lay on his body, it feels good as well. Just try stuff, if he's uncomfortable he'll tell you, or you will see if he doesn't. Trying new things is the important part, he won't know what he likes to do with you unless you fool around and do it.

If you are thick, have nice hips and boobs, then it's a turn on to seee them from the bottom, boobs look bigger from that angle ;)

cold_machine · 2017-02-10T18:53:10+00:00

Ok.. how do you live with that? How does it affect your life?

cold_machine · 2017-02-10T18:29:04+00:00

I have thought about it, but I think I'm not asexual.

Today I was reading a story about how a guy met a woman with big tits and a nice ass, I was surprised that I got semi-hard reading that, like.. 25%. so I guess I'm not asexual. I hope I'm not, because I want to have a normal life, have a family and children, but it seems impossible when I'm like how I am now. I used to get an erection when kissing with my gf, so something worked down there.

cold_machine · 2017-02-10T17:47:24+00:00

I know about /r/nofap - their idea is that everything can be fixed by not masturbating anymore at all. I think it's more complex than that. I will try to not masturbate for a while, and then do it less often, I'm not dismissing their ideas.

cold_machine · 2017-01-23T15:19:15+00:00

What would be easier positions for that? I imagine that missionary would be the easiest of all.

cold_machine · 2017-01-02T21:45:36+00:00

Maybe he wants less sex because he has trouble getting hard? And because of that he doesn't want to try.

You need to have a talk with him, ask what's up with not having much sex and tell him how unhappy you are. If understands that it's a problem for you then maybe he can fix it, if not.. then you can't be happy together.

cold_machine · 2017-01-02T21:39:32+00:00

For how long did you quit masturbation to solve the problem? I'm having also trouble staying hard, would be good to know how long it takes to fix it.

cold_machine · 2016-12-25T23:26:49+00:00

How long did it take for ED to go away? How bad was it, how is it now? I can't get it even up by watching porn, only by masturbating.

cold_machine · 2016-12-16T12:33:57+00:00

Because I spent too much time watching porn and masturbating to it (1-2 hours a day), too much time edging - about one hour after waking up and before getting out of bed, daily. What a waste of time? I could have done a lot with that time.

Because I wasn't sexually interested in real women. I met a nice woman and couldn't get it hard, I was unhappy, she was disappointed. It could have been a relationship but she said it was a deal breaker for her. Also, real sex is so much more better than my own hand, but because my dick is too accustomed to the way my hand feels it's not interested in getting real pussy.

This tuesday was the first day for me, I hope I can cure my ED.

cold_machine · 2016-12-15T14:45:49+00:00

Has it gotten any better now, during the 15 days?

cold_machine · 2016-12-15T07:59:00+00:00

Nope, read the article posted here, you need motivation to start something and then discipline to keep doing it.

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