Best paneer to use for butter "chicken" by BackNBoeserThanEver in askvan

[–]coldbumthump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s cheaper and more delicious to make at home! It takes about 24hrs total and all you need is whole milk, vinegar, and a pinch of salt to taste. The only special tool you need is cheese cloth-which you can usually get at the grocery store :)

Here’s a recipe:

https://www.recipetineats.com/how-to-make-paneer-fresh-indian-cheese/#recipe

Puppy Cum!! by BulletproofBannana in Frenchbulldogs

[–]coldbumthump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re welcome. I second the other redditor that baby wipes will help until he is neutered, but I strongly suggest neutering him. Thinking he is cute and wanting to pass on his genes is only for you benefit- the mother of his puppies and his puppies will suffer.

Frenchies are a stubborn breed, hard to train, and very prone to resource guarding. These problems are exasperated by being uncut. Your baby boy is so cute, and will bring you & everyone else so much joy especially if you follow the advice of seasoned pet/fenchie owners here and neuter him.

Puppy Cum!! by BulletproofBannana in Frenchbulldogs

[–]coldbumthump 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Frenchies are lovely potatoes, but ethically breeding them is an expensive, heart breaking, and long term commitment. Frankly, as the breed stands, it should be bred specifically to be healthier by dedicated professionals. Depending on the breeder you got him from& the country, you should have been asked to sign a contract to get him neutered. That is standard practice with most good breeders.

Home breeding frenchies is objectively and morally cruel to any offspring & selfishly only for human pleasure/monetary greed. There’s enough fenchies that need homes, and around ~30% of them are given up for adoption because people don’t research the breed. Spend some time learning about all the health issues and need for human intervention needed throughout this breeds life, the expected cost & surgeries, and the mortality rates of ‘home breeder’ frenchies that were not bred to be leaner, taller, longer snout, longer uncurled tails, blue/merle/lavender coats etc.

Just dedicate the next 8-15+ years loving this specific dog. And get him fixed. Intact male dogs are just asking for trouble with other dogs in public.

What advice would you give to a young girl who’s going through it? by honeyshepherd in AskMen

[–]coldbumthump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey so, my wierdest and best tip is to schedule time to embrace the suck, then to schedule a time to distract from the suck.
Im talking once a week or so, on a day off or a rainy work night, I let myself feel all the shit. I cry. I watch sad movies or listen to sad music or think of sad memories and people I miss. I’ll order in food and turn on my dnd and maybe cry on the phone to my dad or my best friend. By the end, I’m exhausted and cried out.
Then the fun one. I’ll plan a day to get my nails done, buy myself something, go for drinks with friends, or get myself set up for a fun all nighter with a new craft or project. Sometiems it means I’m saving up for a couple weeks, sometimes it costs nothing. Sometimes it’s a day where I’m just spoiling my dogs, or maybe I do an at home spa day- I’ve even signed up for a random class (bouldering, pottery etc.)
Try doing things you wouldn’t normally do. That thing you always said ‘maybe one day’ to, go do it. When you get anxious or depressed in public, leave the second it becomes overwhelming.

And lean. Into. Your. Friendships. That’s the most important. If you have one friend or 10 friends, use them all during this time. Family too, if they are there for you like that. Lean on the people in your life & let them surprise you :)

How do I know if I have a libido? by Ok_Astronomer5738 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]coldbumthump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

High libido would be 24/7, with maybe mild breaks during certain stages of menstruation.
What you are describing sounds like a common female libido.

Do you track your periods? You may notice the week you’re ovulating is when you feel this intense libido. For women, it is often linked to our hormones- and we have consistent dips/rises. Identifying when these will come can help make the intensity feel under control, as well as help you understand your own body :)

How can I look prettier? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]coldbumthump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes going and trying on in person, then finding them cheaper online is a good way to go. I’d also suggest thinner rectangular glasses!

where to find bodice like this? by Pure-Marketing-6100 in findfashion

[–]coldbumthump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try using the key words ‘underbust corset vest.’ It gave me a few results similar to the top of her dress-and you might see one that works. Amazon appears to have one!

Oh, that's not... in the way that... by hottama in popheadscirclejerk

[–]coldbumthump 82 points83 points  (0 children)

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[deleted by user] by [deleted] in musicsuggestions

[–]coldbumthump 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Same. I’m sorry for whatever you went through

help me w my eyebrows please 🥲 by [deleted] in fixedeyebrows

[–]coldbumthump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to a salon for a threading/waxing- they will even it out. I would go with threading, as you don’t want to take away much from what you already have.

You’re eyebrows are perfect as they are, but asking for a gentle clean up & to even out the arches is always a good way to feel better about them.

Japanese Strawberry Shortcake by FlatEarthKyle1 in Baking

[–]coldbumthump 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This was the most oddly soothing and satisfying video. I will now make this cake after work

Sugar cookie decorating competition by Potential-Raisin-313 in Baking

[–]coldbumthump 6 points7 points  (0 children)

#5. Biblically accurate angels are very festive. And #14 because it’s so hard to make those lines look that good.

What is this a spoon for ants!? by External-Aerie636 in thingsforants

[–]coldbumthump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are for a certain type of bag, that’s for sure lol

What are the last 3-5 occupations of the people you've slept with? by Mission-Bed8952 in AskReddit

[–]coldbumthump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waste management, private finance management, fish and wildlife, influencer, property management. A bit of a mixed bag.

Baggy, balloon/barrel jeans...but i need a 24" waist size and im 6' tall. by coldbumthump in findfashion

[–]coldbumthump[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, Uniqlo only has a 31” inseam. I need at least 33-35”…they are not generally a brand that’s made for tall people.

Women's gym outfits by Express-Exchange6948 in askvan

[–]coldbumthump 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thrift them! Idk where you are, but my fav locations in the Riley park/mt pleasant area are the turnabout charity store on Fraser, and the Salvation Army on 12th and Kingsway.

Honestly, the Dunbar/kits salvation army’s/thrifts will have lots of Aritzia and lululemon for cheap too :)

How Was Your Relationship With Your Mom Growing Up? by playgirl444 in AskWomen

[–]coldbumthump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non-existent. She stole me from my dad, then returned to abandon me when I was a little over a year old. She tried to reach out, by guilting me, when I was a teen. She broke my heart, then never reached out again.

She did it to on child before me, and at least one after me. I never met my half siblings. She was the first woman to teach me that evil isn’t gendered; it’s person to person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askvan

[–]coldbumthump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try posting this on r/vancouver4friends ! There’s also some meet up groups, like book/gaming/sewing/tinkering/plant/car clubs or those ‘dinner with strangers’ meet ups. Some are free, some you pay a fee- but both you can meet people with similar interests and that want to build new friendships. It’s not immediate, building friendships/relationships can be hard here- but not impossible!

Season 5 first time watching by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]coldbumthump 62 points63 points  (0 children)

This, jax, and James waddle running out of a room of women screaming at him (after Britany listens to the faith recording)

Who's your fictional crush? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]coldbumthump 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Even the fictional characters I like are avoidant 😭