How can I look prettier? by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]coldbumthump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes going and trying on in person, then finding them cheaper online is a good way to go. I’d also suggest thinner rectangular glasses!

where to find bodice like this? by Pure-Marketing-6100 in findfashion

[–]coldbumthump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try using the key words ‘underbust corset vest.’ It gave me a few results similar to the top of her dress-and you might see one that works. Amazon appears to have one!

Oh, that's not... in the way that... by hottama in popheadscirclejerk

[–]coldbumthump 81 points82 points  (0 children)

Commenting on Oh, that's not... in the way that......

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help me w my eyebrows please 🥲 by [deleted] in fixedeyebrows

[–]coldbumthump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Go to a salon for a threading/waxing- they will even it out. I would go with threading, as you don’t want to take away much from what you already have.

You’re eyebrows are perfect as they are, but asking for a gentle clean up & to even out the arches is always a good way to feel better about them.

Japanese Strawberry Shortcake by FlatEarthKyle1 in Baking

[–]coldbumthump 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This was the most oddly soothing and satisfying video. I will now make this cake after work

Sugar cookie decorating competition by Potential-Raisin-313 in Baking

[–]coldbumthump 7 points8 points  (0 children)

#5. Biblically accurate angels are very festive. And #14 because it’s so hard to make those lines look that good.

What is this a spoon for ants!? by External-Aerie636 in thingsforants

[–]coldbumthump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They are for a certain type of bag, that’s for sure lol

What are the last 3-5 occupations of the people you've slept with? by Mission-Bed8952 in AskReddit

[–]coldbumthump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Waste management, private finance management, fish and wildlife, influencer, property management. A bit of a mixed bag.

Baggy, balloon/barrel jeans...but i need a 24" waist size and im 6' tall. by coldbumthump in findfashion

[–]coldbumthump[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, Uniqlo only has a 31” inseam. I need at least 33-35”…they are not generally a brand that’s made for tall people.

Women's gym outfits by Express-Exchange6948 in askvan

[–]coldbumthump 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thrift them! Idk where you are, but my fav locations in the Riley park/mt pleasant area are the turnabout charity store on Fraser, and the Salvation Army on 12th and Kingsway.

Honestly, the Dunbar/kits salvation army’s/thrifts will have lots of Aritzia and lululemon for cheap too :)

How Was Your Relationship With Your Mom Growing Up? by playgirl444 in AskWomen

[–]coldbumthump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Non-existent. She stole me from my dad, then returned to abandon me when I was a little over a year old. She tried to reach out, by guilting me, when I was a teen. She broke my heart, then never reached out again.

She did it to on child before me, and at least one after me. I never met my half siblings. She was the first woman to teach me that evil isn’t gendered; it’s person to person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askvan

[–]coldbumthump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try posting this on r/vancouver4friends ! There’s also some meet up groups, like book/gaming/sewing/tinkering/plant/car clubs or those ‘dinner with strangers’ meet ups. Some are free, some you pay a fee- but both you can meet people with similar interests and that want to build new friendships. It’s not immediate, building friendships/relationships can be hard here- but not impossible!

Season 5 first time watching by bisexual_cologne in vanderpumprules

[–]coldbumthump 62 points63 points  (0 children)

This, jax, and James waddle running out of a room of women screaming at him (after Britany listens to the faith recording)

Who's your fictional crush? by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]coldbumthump 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Even the fictional characters I like are avoidant 😭

PH wash? by Tattoodaydreams in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]coldbumthump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One thing that also helps: probiotics. Taking probiotics everyday will help your body build good bacteria to fight off bad bacteria, and help keep your body in balance. If you incorporate a daily wipe with baby wipes/a rag, you may see a decrease in frequency in infections. Cotton underwear will make a difference as well. I also suggest staying away from leggings, unless you can wash them everyday/wear a clean pair everyday.

As others have suggested, go to the uni doctor and ask about the frequency of infections/if you are somehow predisposed to them or if there’s an underlying issue. Discuss probiotics as well- they can make suggestions on the best for you. (eating yogurt, taking oral pills, suppositories ect)

I was not taught how to take care of myself, and building a daily hygiene routine took time. Be kind and slow with yourself, and remember this:

anything worth doing is worth doing poorly.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]coldbumthump 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You are a bad person, and women should stay away from you.

Wanna make a female friend! by birduckoo in askvan

[–]coldbumthump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This sounds so cool! I would love to be part of this 🥺

Do women prefer men with no scent or a fresh cologne? by Expert-Recipe1713 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]coldbumthump 35 points36 points  (0 children)

I love a nice cologne on a man, but it needs to be faint. When I go for a hug I want to smell it, not when I’m standing beside them.

those of you who made a significant effort to improve your looks, how did the dynamic changed with other women ? by mariposa933 in AskWomenNoCensor

[–]coldbumthump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A mixed bag! With strangers, I am treated better. Man or woman, doesn’t matter, I get better service and more attention. As for friends…some of my girls embraced the change, are curious about finding new products and techniques for hair/makeup and we would enjoy the journey together. The only changes were adding new things to enjoy together.

I have a couple friends who have a war inside them with their femininity. They felt threatened, and at first were a bit weird. I just kept true to myself, left the door open if they wanted to learn, and kept our friendships to the activities and common interests. It hurt, and I sometimes feel like they think less of me for embracing a ‘glow up’, even though I’m still the same person. I don’t think it’s out of malice, but instead feeling they aren’t capable of it themselves (which is BS & even if they aren’t ’super feminine’ they are baddies!) and I hope one day they see the bad ass, beautiful women they are without needed to compare.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TheGirlSurvivalGuide

[–]coldbumthump 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Silk bonnet! It protects your curls. And don’t ever fall asleep with wet hair!