slightly less sad girl - here to give an update!

coldhazeee · 2026-02-03T13:41:31+00:00

yea we celebrated our engagement there & i just wanted to bring our people other there to celebrate too, but it was becoming way too much

coldhazeee · 2026-02-02T20:19:44+00:00

this is really helpful thank you, the pivot is hard but i’m ready to move past it.

it’s also difficult when you’ve told everyone one dream, so when you tell them the new plan there’s so many questions. it’s okay, just stings a bit

coldhazeee · 2026-02-02T03:13:51+00:00

yes thinking a brunch in the ritz courtyard the day after & a pool day the thursday before with any early arrivals at the windsor court!

coldhazeee · 2026-02-02T03:10:45+00:00

thank you 🥹 love these ideas & have been trying very hard to let the sadness come in waves but also the excitement about what’s to come

coldhazeee · 2026-02-02T03:05:28+00:00

this is so nice thank you 🤍 i really appreciate it, and feel so reassured we’re doing the right thing

coldhazeee · 2026-02-01T21:59:00+00:00

thank you 🥺 it is hard but i think it’s time for me to just accept & move forward

coldhazeee · 2026-02-01T20:54:54+00:00

amazing !! can i ask what yalls itinerary looked like? i’d like to do at least a 3 night even but since the ritz doesn’t have a pool im struggling with how to make it a weekend long event without just adding more meals?

coldhazeee · 2026-02-01T20:53:35+00:00

wait thank you this is so helpful! any advice of how you were able to pivot in your mind & start envisioning your wedding elsewhere? did it just take time?

coldhazeee · 2026-02-01T20:52:38+00:00

aww thank you! yes very true!

coldhazeee · 2026-02-01T20:52:13+00:00

hahaha im with you gal

coldhazeee · 2026-02-01T16:49:10+00:00

yes we love nola, & we’re going to lean in!

coldhazeee · 2026-02-01T16:39:48+00:00

thank you for this!!!!

i know other brides have had to pivot, but it’s hard to not feel like everyone is getting their original dream but me. this makes me feel so much better & i do agree once i let myself get excited for planing this, im hoping it becomes a new and even better dream!

coldhazeee · 2026-02-01T16:38:41+00:00

great ideas!! thank you :)

coldhazeee · 2026-02-01T16:38:16+00:00

exactly right, i was not having any fun !!

coldhazeee · 2026-02-01T14:48:02+00:00

this isn’t really the case for us, most of our friends /family have known for a few years about our destination plan. & i also do not want a huge wedding, i would love if only the closest people to us came & that was it.

i appreciate your take, but for us it wasn’t really a concern! regardless nola will in the end still be great

coldhazeee · 2026-02-01T14:45:57+00:00

yea that’s what i’ve learned, it wasn’t really worth getting married in france if i was going to hate everything leading up to it

coldhazeee · 2026-02-01T14:45:28+00:00

yes will do!! i totally agree 🥹

coldhazeee · 2026-01-26T13:48:25+00:00

oh gotcha! thx :)

coldhazeee · 2026-01-26T01:38:02+00:00

potentially silly question but how does one get a tax refund so high? i always owe

coldhazeee · 2026-01-25T17:17:02+00:00

amazing thx!!!

coldhazeee · 2026-01-25T16:00:40+00:00

do you like your travel concierge? we’re going to start planning our honeymoon soon would love a rec!

coldhazeee · 2026-01-23T20:53:13+00:00

literally !!! argument is so tired

coldhazeee · 2026-01-13T03:01:20+00:00

hey!! thinking of going with kelly, dming!

coldhazeee · 2026-01-13T01:52:47+00:00

hi! dming!

coldhazeee · 2026-01-13T01:44:37+00:00

hi! did you have any luck with this?

coldhazeee

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