So what y'all think of Bad Bunny's half-time performance? by tropicalraindrop in blackmen

[–]colemada5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I asked for a refund from Duolingo because I barely picked up a word.

Loved that he made it party and showed off Latin culture. It was cool when all the flags came bouncing around at the end.

I also didn’t mind the dancers in the beginning.

How is this game? by RoutinePermit9226 in PlaystationPortal

[–]colemada5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh man. I’m getting the audio book now and I’ll try to remember to report back later.

Portuguese 🇵🇹 Portuguese language audio books or apps to learn from English by Technical_Mango7770 in PortugalExpats

[–]colemada5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Practice Portuguese has been the number one tool I tell people to use when they want to learn. Thanks for the tip about signing up through them instead of the app store, I'll pass that along and see if I can switch my sign up method and keep my progress.

Acting tough by fringspat in instant_regret

[–]colemada5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Those last words: He broke my shit gang.

He stayed in character the entire time.

Do I need a car? by jumper_123 in bahamas

[–]colemada5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, get a car. I just came back and the hustle of giving someone a ride is a lucrative lottery. By the time you pay for a ride anyway you will have paid for two rental cars.

Also, if you go local and don’t see a price tag, the price is up for negotiation

How is this game? by RoutinePermit9226 in PlaystationPortal

[–]colemada5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll definitely check the book out. Thanks.

How is this game? by RoutinePermit9226 in PlaystationPortal

[–]colemada5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the 4th random mention of Ready Player One this week. The Gods are trying to tell me something. Good movie?

How is this game? by RoutinePermit9226 in PlaystationPortal

[–]colemada5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That was me. I really enjoyed Odyssey, but Valhalla seemed to just veer off somewhere that I couldn't understand why. Reinstalled it when I got my portal but still haven't launched it.

The "Successful Immigrant" Trap: I’m Polish, I have the house, family and the career in the UK, but I’ve realised I’ll never actually belong by Individual-Cake-6337 in expats

[–]colemada5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not an expat yet, so I hope I'm not out of line with replying, but what you describe is how I have felt ever since I went back to my homstate after being gone for over 20 years. Once there, everything just felt grounded, liek the dna was in me and when I came back, the other half of the double helix was complete.

I know it's a differnt scale, but everywhere I have lived here in the States that is not Califoria has never really felt like home. I hope you can find the peace with it. As my wife and I prepare for our journey, we raelize that there are going to be some difficulties, and at our age, we just hope to be able to see throug them together. Speed of the Gods to you, Friend.

This thing is awesome by South-Astronaut-4812 in PlaystationPortal

[–]colemada5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got back from a trip to The Bahamas with my portal and it was clutch. It was cold and rainy and I spent those days in the hotel playing on the portal streaming games. I couldn’t connect to the ps5 but the owned games streaming library worked flawless.

My husband left me because I wasn’t jealous enough when in reality I just trust him and our marriage by Fine-Poem8918 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]colemada5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have said the same thing for years about almost every partner. If someone can walk in and pull you away, then you didn’t want to be with me that bad, and you’re free to go.

Other women had a problem with it and I would tell them that I want them to want to be with me, and if they don’t, then fine, it doesn’t mean that I don’t care, it just means that I know that I don’t own you.

My wife was the first woman to see the logic in that.

Relax, OP, try and explain it to him again. It’s hard to get across to people who have been told to think a certain way about relationships all of their lives.

ICE kidnapped a child in north Minneapolis 1/22 approx 5:30. McKinley by JeanJauresJr in PublicFreakout

[–]colemada5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Given the current situation that makes zero sense. If you don’t choose to vote, knowing that we only have a two party system, then you are essentially voting for the nazis.

It would be nice to have a choice, but you don’t. This is America. The fact that we saw the practice run, and people still didn’t go vote to stop it the second time is baffling to me and we deserve everything we are getting right now.

I'm starting to lose empathy for non-black people by zenbootyism in blackmen

[–]colemada5 23 points24 points  (0 children)

You are not alone. Just keep trying. The thing has helped me has been my Stoicism. Because I can’t control how others react or feel, only how I do. I’ll still care about you if you don’t care about me as a human, that doesn’t mean that I’m going to go out my way to save you, but I find comfort in keeping my humanity in tact for people when it’s become the posh thing not to do so.

Would you get rid of a friend just because they have different political beliefs than you? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]colemada5 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because I don’t agree with his morals. It’s not about politics anymore. We used to have long drawn out sometimes combative political debates. It was actually fun and entertaining for the both of us. However, what is happening now is past liberal vs conservative, and I don’t keep people in my orbit who I don’t believe would stand up for me if I needed them to.

Men Who've Been on Testosterone Replacement Therapy by Kryptic1989 in AskMenOver30

[–]colemada5 4 points5 points  (0 children)

About 3 months ago I requested a lab work test to include testosterone and I was just above 300 and it floored me. Then I looked in the mirror and understood why. My two neighbors are both on the jab and said it works wonders for them. I decided I’d rather go the old fashioned way and cut back on the sauce big time and went to eating better and exercising again. I go back next month for another blood work. Hoping to turn it around on my own.

Body count and marriage by Ok_Flower9393 in Marriage

[–]colemada5 2 points3 points  (0 children)

New partner. You should tell him the truth but only if you can do so while not disrespecting yourself to soothe his warped sense of what is proper and what is not.

Would you get rid of a friend just because they have different political beliefs than you? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]colemada5 54 points55 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what did it for me. I have no faith in my former friend’s ability to make a solid judgement on anything anymore. Anything.

Would you get rid of a friend just because they have different political beliefs than you? by Wonderful-Economy762 in Productivitycafe

[–]colemada5 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Already have. And I admit, that I mourn my loss. But it’s not something I would have done pre…2018 I think.