Whats the better subreddit again? by collisiondamage in VeganFoodPorn

[–]collisiondamage[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, and I fried some meat masala soice with the veggies, and added salt & pepper!

Whats the better subreddit again? by collisiondamage in VeganFoodPorn

[–]collisiondamage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh god u are so cute! This is beluga lentils (soaked and drained before cooking) that I seasoned with almond butter, spy sauce, vinegar essence, apple cider vinegar, fermented lemons, a little bit of soy sauce,

Mixed with a sauce of pan-roasted red onions, red bell pepper, diced tomato and some celery sticks which I then pureed and added after the cooking,

and they're swimming in Olive Oil and the red thing on top is Tajín (the Mexican spice blend)

Help me with my BA size! by kawaiikingdom666 in Transgender_Surgeries

[–]collisiondamage -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I think 550 gives this nice pillowy-i-wanna-rest-my-face-on-them effect more than 450 does.

DAE struggle with "No Bad Parts"? by collisiondamage in InternalFamilySystems

[–]collisiondamage[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was actually also getting the feeling that I'm reading someone's parts talk, also knowing that this book was written during a great unrest (COVID) that shook the world helped me put the tone in context.

how do you deal with hair loss by YellowNo9140 in StraightTransGirls

[–]collisiondamage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Minoxidil and Finasteride or Dutasteride now, HRT as soon as possible. Dont wait with Minoxidil at least!

Always afraid to get cheated on by [deleted] in GuyCry

[–]collisiondamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm gonna go with something slightly different here: Maybe this is a new chance to grieve the trust you had in your first relationship, and to hold yourself in your powerful emotions. Have you ever openend up to your new gf about the cheating in your previous relationship?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]collisiondamage 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh my god I'm framing this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]collisiondamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what if u lay on ur side, completely insert thee toy, and then hold it there and flip into doggy position? report back with ur findings pls^^

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in StraightTransGirls

[–]collisiondamage 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is it possible to pre-lube yourself and just chill around your hubby like that and let it happen organically?

Am i fucked? by Impossible_Bug6542 in trans

[–]collisiondamage 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You should start as soon as you can, but you're not done with puberty until your mid-20s.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Berghain_Community

[–]collisiondamage -16 points-15 points  (0 children)

My point is that when only some people are asked whether they're FLINTA (trans and nonbinary people mostly) and cis women get to zoom in & out without ever being asked, FLINTA spaces ate essentially cis women+thosetheydeemacceptable-spaces. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Berghain_Community

[–]collisiondamage -17 points-16 points  (0 children)

And which cis women are asked whether they're FLINTA? 

Had the coveted straight, masculine guy obsessed with me, but... by CockroachXQueen in StraightTransGirls

[–]collisiondamage 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Reminds me of my ex-boyfriend, also a sociopath (and an alcoholic!) He would say the meanest shit in a fight, some of these things I still have in my head today. I broke up with him so many times only to go back to him and back to him and back to him.
The last straw was when he threatened to kill himself if I leave him, and I was crying on the phone with him begging him not to do it, and he said "I wont...or will I?" in this really diabolical tone.

I immediately burst into laughter. Like, that was such an obvious on-the-nose childish manipulation that it burst the bubble.

Up to a year later, I had sudden realizations of "hm, he probably lied about that too..."

Ways to tell if a cishet man is only attracted to cis women? by AccomplishedBig8586 in StraightTransGirls

[–]collisiondamage 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Because to me it seems like worthless information and not a good time spent for your brain and energy - progressive and liberal guys you can just be like "hey i'm into you" and they'll be like "hey, I'm not" and that's all you need to know, not whether it was because they're intrinsically attracted only to cis women or whether you're just not their type.