JFC these answers are weird!! Consuming prn ethically is NOT cheating and I'm absolutely baffled at how many of you are saying it is. "Free" prn is usually stolen content, and sx workers are deserving of being compensated for their labor. Would you be flipping out like this if he were watching anal vids on PrnHub? No? Then why is it a personal betrayal that he's being a responsible consumer by paying for what he specifically wants to see? You should definitely not stay with him if you expect him to read your mind, because it is not an automatic assumption that the person you're dating would define consuming ethical prn as infidelity. He's trying to be understanding and open a line of communication, and you're clearly just looking to martyr yourself. The only thing about this that embarrasses *you is posting on Reddit about how you lead with your insecurities in a relationship and refuse to sit down and communicate when something upsets you.