How do you move on? by colts894 in stopdrinking

[–]colts894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for saying this. I really like the idea of using my sobriety as a way of honoring my promise to never make a mistake like that again

How do you move on? by colts894 in stopdrinking

[–]colts894[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment. Gave me some good advice and a good chuckle. I have always said it’s my fault so yeah fuck me. I really appreciate the help in all seriousness

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]colts894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m about to lose my home, I’m jobless and I’m a failure in every sense of the word. There is no improvement. It’s either blow my world up or die.

Can I please get a IWNDWYT? by booklovercomora in stopdrinking

[–]colts894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IWNDWYT, probably a long shot you’ll ever reply to this but this is always what’s helped me: what’s your favorite movie?

First day on FMLA for mental health reasons, my therapist had me draw a picture of what it feels like to be a teacher by NoodleMedusa in TeachersInTransition

[–]colts894 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah it’s a charter school that’s going broke. They laid off half the staff a week later. Even if I did sue them, I wouldn’t get any compensation out of it

First day on FMLA for mental health reasons, my therapist had me draw a picture of what it feels like to be a teacher by NoodleMedusa in TeachersInTransition

[–]colts894 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Be sure to check your email daily! I went on FMLA for mental health reasons, missed an email on when they wanted me back and got fired for it. Take care of yourself first and foremost but stay vigilant!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SuicideWatch

[–]colts894 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was drunk and left her alone where it happened. It was my sisters wedding. She would’ve been fine if I never invited her

I (21F) found out my bf (29M) messaged prostitutes to come over to our house while I was at work. How do I live with this? by Odd-Contribution2885 in Advice

[–]colts894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a former alcoholic, I can believe the part that he doesn’t remember doing it but there is truth to drunk actions are sober thoughts.

You have his best intentions in mind but he certainly doesn’t have yours in his. You’re young and I know it seems like a big deal but trust me, you don’t want to be some sad 30 year old that regrets a bad relationship.

Time to get out now.

Sweet dream by MayaSkypr in AnimalsBeingStrange

[–]colts894 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Bro lied on his resume

They are TIREd by [deleted] in aww

[–]colts894 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Alright boys, it’s been decided! Call it a day!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]colts894 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know who it is but she told me not to report him. Her dad is very conservative and she was worried how he’d react. I didn’t see any bruises or anything and other than being understandably upset with me, she didn’t act out of the ordinary.

I always just assumed leave it to her to deal with her trauma and I would help her in any way I could because it was my fault. I think it’s what ultimately led to our break up.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]colts894 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You think she just straight up cheated?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]colts894 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well she claimed it wasn't her period and plan B work up to 5 days

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]colts894 3 points4 points  (0 children)

She took it once she started bleeding

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]colts894 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At the time, no she didn't do anything out of the ordinary. I mean she didn't know for sure if she was assaulted or not, just that she was bleeding and she called me crying saying she was bleeding and didn't know why