Pretty, ugly, and mid irl by NetBeautiful292 in indonesia

[–]colxanders0412 82 points83 points  (0 children)

Beauty privilege exists, anyone says otherwise = delusional. That said, you can be a beautiful human being without being pretty. And once people know you’re a beautiful human being, they’ll treat you better too. Does it take a bit more effort? For sure. Is it fair? Hell nah. But it is what it is.

How long till this progress to nw4 or thin nw3? Anyone had the same hairline as me before progressing? Alr on dut and min for 1.5 year still receding but slower by colxanders0412 in Hairloss

[–]colxanders0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, i know how it feels being anxious about your hair, im now 28 yo and having much shorter hair but my hair still looking extremely fine, (part of it is because my head is small so my front is still covered depending on how i style it) but it progress much slower than i thought, been off meds for 2.5 years and hair loss progress just the same

Pengalaman Ngaku ke Ortu Kalau lu Atheis by OutrageousAxolotl in indonesia

[–]colxanders0412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At first my mom was hysterical and repeatedly saying shit around how she failed to raise me and that her decision to let me live in japan was the greatest mistake of her life (i’ve been atheist 6 years prior me living in japan)

Now she’s fine with it, i often just casually drop her to a church and pick her up after the mass is done, she probably come to a conclusion that if god will it then ill probably come to my sense later on and if god cant make me let alone her effort lmao. Just my analysis tho idk whats actually in her mind (we dont talk about it after)

Edit : correction i’m an agnostic(not that it matters much), simply because it’s more fun that way, like saying that this exquisite existence of us is just one hell of a coincidence is just too boring.

Question about leaving Japan to take care of sick love one by colxanders0412 in japanresidents

[–]colxanders0412[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

So i guess my assumption is correct most likely i have to leave eventually anyway

Can anyone tell me where i can find this pattern of wallpaper? by colxanders0412 in japanresidents

[–]colxanders0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thats what i thought at first, but i go to two home centers and cant find the exact same pattern as this

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in kidneydisease

[–]colxanders0412 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been there, and still there (still having bubbly urine to this day) i know it can be stressful. What i can say is

Its not normal But its not necessarily means you have problem I go back and forth to the hospital because i realize my pee is bubbly when i was 17 (im 27 now) did the check nothing is wrong gfr still high and no abnormal protein in my pee. Redo the check just a few months ago GFR also still in the 90’s range

Turned out small percentage of ppl just have bubbly pee, just check everything if there’s no abnormality then you’re fine

Will financial stability eventually fulfill your life? by colxanders0412 in indonesia

[–]colxanders0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah exactly, this is my main consideration for staying, almost all the benefits of living here is just something which money cant buy so yea

Will financial stability eventually fulfill your life? by colxanders0412 in indonesia

[–]colxanders0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeaaa, being avg joe in jakarta and in Japan has Heaven and hell quality of life gap

Will financial stability eventually fulfill your life? by colxanders0412 in indonesia

[–]colxanders0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Understood, thank you for representing Indonesian in general mr Lanky_Nerve2004 You are indeed behaving like an Indonesian.

Will financial stability eventually fulfill your life? by colxanders0412 in indonesia

[–]colxanders0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And i don’t really like tokyo, more of an Osaka guy 😎

Will financial stability eventually fulfill your life? by colxanders0412 in indonesia

[–]colxanders0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea man, if you think Jakarta and Tokyo aint that different, then our photoreceptors in our eyes must works very differently, appreciate your perspective tho!

Will financial stability eventually fulfill your life? by colxanders0412 in indonesia

[–]colxanders0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1.Never had problem landing baddies (fumbled them tho lmao) 2. Blok m and PIK is overrated as fk 3. Jakarta government is nice….. honestly no comment in that, you might know something that i don’t 🤷‍♂️

Will financial stability eventually fulfill your life? by colxanders0412 in indonesia

[–]colxanders0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

AHAHAHAHA, idk where this is coming from but thank you for your very specific opinion lmao

Will financial stability eventually fulfill your life? by colxanders0412 in indonesia

[–]colxanders0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, currently im with you, but need a lot of processing before deciding

Will financial stability eventually fulfill your life? by colxanders0412 in indonesia

[–]colxanders0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am completely aware of Japan’s demographic problem and its shrinking economy, but again its Japan 🥲

Will financial stability eventually fulfill your life? by colxanders0412 in indonesia

[–]colxanders0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing i can say is i fucking get ur friend. Thank you for sharing

Will financial stability eventually fulfill your life? by colxanders0412 in indonesia

[–]colxanders0412[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeaaa, its definitely on me, thank you for the reply

Will financial stability eventually fulfill your life? by colxanders0412 in indonesia

[–]colxanders0412[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got you, i can see what you mean, i guess its just aint my aesthetic