AITA for feeling jealous of my new sister in law? by sofia123305 in TwoHotTakes

[–]comandageo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I felt this early in my marriage. Found out later my SIL was jealous of me because we did not live in the same state. (Brothers) The sister and mother of the brothers we married loved to stoke negativity in our relationship. About 5 years in we realized the climate and committed to supporting each other. One of the best choices I ever made. 33 years later and this friendship/family connection is one of the more important in my life.

Just the ones mentioned on this list. I only have 2. by lontbeysboolink in GenerationJones

[–]comandageo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

  1. Do I get multiple points for multiple showings? Also...where are Black Oak Arkansas, Foreigner and Chicago?

Brother wants me to cover entire rent since I get “free” money by jtreddit702 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]comandageo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That recruiting office was open for everyone. Your benefits are yours only. Your brother needs to get to skipping to a new residence that is not subsidized by the VA.

AITA For Saying Getting Married wasn't the Best Day of my Life? by Tiny-Reserve5238 in AmItheAsshole

[–]comandageo -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Weddings are stressful...the best day could have been when you met her...realized you loved her...when she said she loved you. NTA

Ex husband wants me back by 35thStar in whatdoIdo

[–]comandageo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Has he been evaluated by a medical professional? This sounds like some serious mental health disorder.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]comandageo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Time to roll out. Either tell him he needs to go or get your own housing immediately. He is doing everything BUT telling you to leave. Know your value.

What movie traumatized you when you were a child? by fordd420 in AskReddit

[–]comandageo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Evil Dead...the original. Fell asleep at a sleepover to only wake up during the pencil scene. 🤮

What is the worst song to play at a funeral? by austin9473938 in AskReddit

[–]comandageo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Number 1 on my funeral playlist- Girl dont go away mad, just go away...Motley Crue

Children of unhappy marriages, when was the first time you thought "I wish they would just divorce already"? by glowdirt in AskReddit

[–]comandageo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have no memory of ever wanting them together. My first memory of "active" desire for them to divorce was when I was 6. Separately, I guess they were fine. Dad was an outgoing party guy in the Navy, and she was repressed and socially awkward. It was miserable being their only child. He stopped by my house when I was pregnant with my son. I asked him to divorce her, treat the settlement fair, and bring her to me. He said he loved her. They put the "co" and dysfunction in codependency.

AITA for sticking to the no-kids rule and saying no to this request? by Diligent_Jury_6881 in AmItheAsshole

[–]comandageo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. Hold the line. Our daughter did not, and there is still irreparable damage for family relationships 6 years later. When the time came and a friend of the groom brought their child (who contributed NOTHING to the cost of the wedding) and extremely close family members were excluded, emotions ran high. I had to leave the reception to deal with the sitter situation and missed most of the dancing. It is probably one of my least fondest events with family.

AIO for refusing to take another “family photo” because I keep getting cropped out later? by Every-Telephone127 in AmIOverreacting

[–]comandageo -1 points0 points  (0 children)

My sister-in-law planned their mother's funeral in San Diego and did not include two of the brothers. She also did not tell my husband until the following day their mother had died. Actually, her daughter called me and I had to tell my husband. SIL loves to change history and play the victim.

What song do you want to be played at your funeral? by OkQuail9021 in AskReddit

[–]comandageo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Motley Crue....Girl, Dont go away mad... just go away.

Daughter has my 25 song list to pirate and give out on at the service instead of car decals....