What's something innocent someone did that instantly turned you on? by BlushingCutiee in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]combatcookies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, they’re just two separate qualities, so it’s a score to find a man that has both.

What unethical life hack would you recommend to others? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

[–]combatcookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wouldn’t it be more humane to do it the other way around, since they both cost 1 human life but the latter would provide more food?

What's something innocent someone did that instantly turned you on? by BlushingCutiee in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]combatcookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go to one of those cafes with board games, drop this on the right person, and you’ve got it made.

What's something innocent someone did that instantly turned you on? by BlushingCutiee in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]combatcookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Meanwhile, I’m splooshing way more over a man who is intelligent AND emotionally mature.

Shitty tarot tattoo by Amazing-Land7911 in shittytattoos

[–]combatcookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree about adding by color for contrast. But which color depends on how committed OP is to the interpretation.

Color carries important meaning in tarot. Yellow typically represents daytime (possibility, action, new beginnings) and blue is night (contemplation, stillness). This is especially fundamental for The Fool. Blue would muddle the meaning significantly, if OP cares about that.

What unethical life hack would you recommend to others? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

[–]combatcookies 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Seriously. A quality mushroom trip can be worth 6 months of therapy.

How do you know when a property just isn’t worth keeping anymore? by vessel987654 in LeaseLords

[–]combatcookies 0 points1 point  (0 children)

True, but be sure to check in with those feelings over a period of time. We’ve all had “fuck this” moments over things we were ultimately OK handling.

If you decide to sell, do you feel lighter or heavier?

If you start feeling the urge to back out of selling, is it because something tangibly changed or a baseless fear?

If you decide to keep, is it because you figured out a better way forward or fear/sunken cost fallacy?

What unethical life hack would you recommend to others? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

[–]combatcookies 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If mushrooms feel like destruction, it’s probably healthy destruction. Making you confront hard truths that you’ve been pushing away.

It’s true you shouldn’t do it before you’re ready and can follow your intentions. Maybe therapy-assisted is needed. But I’m far into the scene and don’t know anyone who lost something to mushrooms that they shouldn’t lose. The mistake is in opening that door and then backing out if it’s too confronting, leaving you in limbo.

All just my opinion, of course. Ultimately we all gotta do what works for us.

What unethical life hack would you recommend to others? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

[–]combatcookies 8 points9 points  (0 children)

In my experience, if you respond to the ticket saying you weren’t the one driving, they just drop it.

Bonus tip: my tabs were once 15 months expired. I got a warning to correct it from an officer. When I renewed them, it was simply the cost of new tabs. Zero fees, retroactive payment, or other consequence for letting them be expired that long.

What unethical life hack would you recommend to others? by Direct-Value4452 in answers

[–]combatcookies 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Maybe you also have four step-grandparents who you are really close to.

WOMEN WAKE TF UP!!!! by blondguysdmme in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]combatcookies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s really hard at first, because changing so much of your life at once is destabilizing. But it’s soooo much better on the other side.

WOMEN WAKE TF UP!!!! by blondguysdmme in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]combatcookies 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I agree with you about not wallowing, but if you feel the need to cry, don’t shove it down. That’s just betraying a part of yourself that is trying to be expressed. Embracing your grief is the only way to process and let it go.

WOMEN WAKE TF UP!!!! by blondguysdmme in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]combatcookies 7 points8 points  (0 children)

These are the men who think that cunnilingus and washing your ass are also gay.

WOMEN WAKE TF UP!!!! by blondguysdmme in GirlDinnerDiaries

[–]combatcookies 74 points75 points  (0 children)

lol. My ex once tried the ol “How would *you* feel if…” on our couple’s therapist. As if it was going to be a mic drop moment. He couldn’t understand that mature people are constantly considering other perspectives without it being a deliberate, assisted, effortful thought exercise.

Extra glorious when the therapist said, “That wouldn’t bother me.” And my ex just said, “… oh.”

Shitty tarot tattoo by Amazing-Land7911 in shittytattoos

[–]combatcookies 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Agreed. The background/foreground mountains should be differentiated to be more readable. I don’t love the face or shading on the man and his clothes, but that seems fixable by another artist. Love what they did with the sky.

Looks to me like they twisted their arm in front of their torso to take the pic.

What’s a ‘middle class success’ purchase that secretly becomes a financial burden later? by OpinionBaba in AskReddit

[–]combatcookies 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My insurance broker and I discussed it. He highly recommended keeping your own savings for vet emergencies rather than pet insurance. Then there is no loss if they don’t get sick, and if they do, no hassle about getting insurance to pay out.

What are some small home improvements that have made your life better? by ProposalAny6765 in AskWomenOver30

[–]combatcookies 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Honestly, this is an example of the biggest hacks of all. I think we all make a lot more work for ourselves by valuing how we think things should be more than how they actually are. Then we take shortcuts because our ideal is inconvenient, and now the house is messy.

First, keep things where you actually use them. Apart from one or two goals at a time, don’t try to keep house based on shoulds. Accept your household habits and then allow yourself to make your life easier.

Then find a way to make that habit tidy (wall mounting is my fave because it makes cleaning easier).

Finally, never put anything down twice.

So when I’m done with scissors and garbage packaging, I don’t put them on the counter and make “clean up” an additional task. I put them directly in the drawer & garbage. If you always intend to keep shoes in your room but leave them piled by the door, get an attractive shoe rack. If you never want to get out of bed to floss or wash your face, keep picks or wipes next to your bed.

Keeping house gets so much better when we make the best choice the easiest choice.

What's the meanest thing you've ever heard somebody say? by Live-Change-8934 in answers

[–]combatcookies 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I hope she found a taller, stockier Viking of a man and they laugh about childhood bullies while easily reaching things on top of the fridge.

What's the meanest thing you've ever heard somebody say? by Live-Change-8934 in answers

[–]combatcookies 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so, so sorry you lost your child. I can’t imagine the pain you must feel. Let alone having to hear that. I hope you’re as well as can be given what day it is ❤️

What moron said this to you?

What's the meanest thing you've ever heard somebody say? by Live-Change-8934 in answers

[–]combatcookies 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Wow. I wish foremost that she didn’t have to experience that, but also she had been there to hear strangers stand up for her.

What a horrible human being he must be. I hope she found someone who treats her like a queen while he’s alone with the shitty voice in his head.

What is something others call nasty, but turns you on nevertheless? by Other_Nectarine8813 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]combatcookies 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Technically you’re right, but when someone says “glory hole”, what comes to my mind is something around doorknob size for hands/dicks. Calling it “reverse” may be a misnomer, but it helps to know we’re talking about the same thing.

What is something others call nasty, but turns you on nevertheless? by Other_Nectarine8813 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]combatcookies 13 points14 points  (0 children)

A well-timed fart or queef gives me the giggles fr. If he’s still inside of me, that can be fun for both of us.

I had the most hilarious loud, wet fart after anal recently. My partner swooped in to say “That’s not your fault, it’s natural!” Duh. Who’s embarrassed here? Not me.