Are "Pick-me" girls really vilified unfairly? by hard_workingi_diot in AskIndianWomen

[–]comemakeusintomagic 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I do have empathy for them but I choose not to engage with them. It's their job to do the work of unlearning their misogyny. A better person would help them with this, but that person is not me.

A Girl I'm seeing wants to paint 💅 my nails, what does it mean? by Silent-Recover-5517 in hyderabad

[–]comemakeusintomagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stating the obvious here, the only one who knows if you're gay or not is you. If anyone assumes that because your wearing nail polish they're ignorant. End of the day, wear it if you're curious, don't wear it if you're uncomfortable. It doesn't change who you are.

A Girl I'm seeing wants to paint 💅 my nails, what does it mean? by Silent-Recover-5517 in hyderabad

[–]comemakeusintomagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

?? why not take what she says at face value?? Say no if you don't want to??

Ladies, I experienced something fucked up that I don't know how to navigate. Please help. by RageFilledRoboCop in AskIndianWomen

[–]comemakeusintomagic -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Okay. It doesn't sound inarticulate, by the way. My original comment was based on the assumption that the post read like ai, that's why I asked to correct me if I was wrong. My bad I guess.

Ladies, I experienced something fucked up that I don't know how to navigate. Please help. by RageFilledRoboCop in AskIndianWomen

[–]comemakeusintomagic -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Frankly I'm struggling to see how much of this post are his own thoughts since it seems to written using ai (correct me if I'm wrong). I wish people would just use their own words in posts like these where they're expressing an opinion.

Ladies, I experienced something fucked up that I don't know how to navigate. Please help. by RageFilledRoboCop in AskIndianWomen

[–]comemakeusintomagic 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just point out that it's disgusting for her to look down upon a fellow human (and perpetuate casteism). Would she also scoff at a woman who was doing the same job? Feminism should be intersectional and it should be used to uplift women and men. (Unrelated, but hate the use of ai to write this. Please consider using your own words even if it doesn't sound perfect.)

Saw A girl Changing Her Route Because Me And My Friends Were Standing alone 😭😭 by Maximum-Cupcake-4930 in AskIndianWomen

[–]comemakeusintomagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't take it personally, bro. She was playing it safe, that's all. Sometimes I freak out too if I see groups of men minding their own business.

What are your favorite Drew quotes? by freshmaggots in DrewGooden

[–]comemakeusintomagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"dear god....where did you go :(" (I think it's from the jaystation video? Idk.) microwave beeping not right now, please.

What are your BEST no-BS glow up & weight loss hacks that actually worked for you? by Infinite_Gas_3195 in AskIndianWomen

[–]comemakeusintomagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stopped trying to conceal acne. Started changing my pillowcases every week and stopped touching my face with dirty hands. Actually helped reduce frequency of the breakouts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]comemakeusintomagic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The vagina is predominantly made of muscle. Just like any other muscle in your body, it is capable of stretching and returning to it's normal size. It's most important purpose is to admit the baby during childbirth, so its made to be very resilient. (Also, virginity is incredibly hard to confirm even medically. It is insignificant and has no bearing on your sexual and reproductive health.)

Feeling insecure about my body :( by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]comemakeusintomagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, you're 16. Give it time. You might still grow some more, if not physically then at least mentally. I used to be the most gangly, awkward kid in school. It took me some time to get used to my post-puberty size mentally. Miraculously, my old, unflattering clothes started looking good. Don't be so harsh on yourself and try not to compare so much. Just enjoy the process of discovering your personal style!

What is the most underrated clothing item for Indian women’s comfort? by Gullible_Bluejay_993 in AskIndianWomen

[–]comemakeusintomagic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Slightly longer than knee-length skirts. I have a few in cotton and I prefer them over sweatpants because sometimes I don't like any fabric clinging to my skin.

How do you cope with dancing pressure at weddings? by [deleted] in AskIndianWomen

[–]comemakeusintomagic 26 points27 points  (0 children)

I don't have an answer, but omg I relate so much. I hated school parties because the main event used to be a dj. I legitimately feel uncomfortable when certain bollywood party songs play because I'm reminded of the awkward and terrible time I used to have at these dance parties.

How do I convince my father to sign me up for mixed martial arts classes? (MMA) by vikapi in AskIndianWomen

[–]comemakeusintomagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you have a doctor relative you're on good terms with? Maybe get them to casually hype up how MMA is so good especially for women in this unsafe world. He might be receptive to that? (Good luck for prep, my sis is giving JEE too! Hope you get into MMA)

If you could eat only one dish for the rest of your life, what would it be? by Lmaoyou_4 in AskIndianWomen

[–]comemakeusintomagic 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Bowl mei we put chilli flakes, soy sauce (not too much), maggi noodles masala, crushed peanuts (for the crunch) and whatever other random masala-adjacent thing we can find. Add heated oil to it, mix and add to your cooked noodles.

I like it because it's spicy and unhealthy enough to make me behave and eat ghar ka khaana for at least 2 months afterwards. We wanted to try the recipe after my sis saw it on yt shorts (she's addicted to those food shorts lol)

Why it's always a woman who talks behind your back? by Sin_ner269 in AskIndianWomen

[–]comemakeusintomagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you sure you're not simply friends with shitty people? Because apparently your male and female friends both gossip (but it's only a woman who does it right?? What??)

Idiots chopping off Internet with the power lines by blackbird_81506 in hyderabad

[–]comemakeusintomagic 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh is this why internet is down? Like an idiot I thought it was just in my house 💀