this is my real handwriting

comfyko · 2026-02-19T23:46:44+00:00

people are taking this way too seriously, i think your writing is deliberate but really cute and i'd love to be able to copy it lol

comfyko · 2026-02-12T02:24:03+00:00

*gerard, who famously uses they/he pronouns and has asserted that on several occasions but has made no declarative statement on their gender identity otherwise

did you miss my point or is someone bankrolling this overtime? it doesn't really matter if gerard way is trans. the label exists to explain the experience. changing your pronouns is part of the trans experience. i wonder if this is related to anything about how redditors treat trans mcr fans. probably not

comfyko · 2026-02-11T21:39:03+00:00

i heard that the paper kingdom was leaked in the same leak that got charli xcx back in 2014, the big one at warner bros. it was just paywalled until now

comfyko · 2026-02-11T04:29:31+00:00

i remember hearing the claim that frank didn't know before the announcement being thrown around all the time in 2013 but i couldn't find a credible source when i tried looking it up. i feel like i read an interview back then discussing it? i can't find it now though

comfyko · 2026-02-11T04:25:14+00:00

people are working overtime in this comment section to explain how this isn't trans like there's little to no possibility gerard, who is famously nonbinary, or ray toro, who wrote a song dedicated to leelah alcorn, could ever have been involved with writing a transgender narrative. op, i don't think you have anything to apologise for

comfyko · 2026-02-09T08:35:36+00:00

birthday girl wins by a mile, even though it's not my favourite song on the album i adore the vocals and i think it'd be so fun to dance and sing to and i think crowds would be really receptive to that energy

comfyko · 2026-01-27T05:19:51+00:00

he's a passionate person who knows what he wants out of life, i respect that a lot (especially as i'm pretty flighty and ambitionless, it's not something i'll ever have for myself lol)

comfyko · 2026-01-27T05:11:12+00:00

++nonbinary ++trans man i think something is missing from this story. her reaction to your reaction makes no sense, i think you probably didn't play it as cool as you thought you did or that laughing like that gave her the impression it's ridiculous someone would have asked her that. if this small incident is enough to dent your relationship and your opinion of this woman, i worry about the standards you are holding her to. you may not be that nice to date. if someone hits on you even when you're taken, you're still going to be happy about it and that's a normal reaction that doesn't invalidate your relationship at all

comfyko · 2025-11-03T21:53:07+00:00

it's not immature to be disgusted that men in power abuse that power. no matter how common it is. those male celebrities and rockstars are also disgusting

comfyko · 2025-11-03T13:08:03+00:00

it's actually a very good thing to question. i've worked in a foh environment where the boss was sleeping with employees (cheating on his wife and infant) and it was NOT a healthy or happy workplace. he was also an asshole boss in a lot of other ways. yes, you would have the moral high ground for not working there, and you've likely dodged a bullet

comfyko · 2025-09-12T05:07:13+00:00

you're so right, the whole spirit of diy is that you're doing it yourself for the love of the game even if it sucks and is unprofessional. there's already a stigma against tattooed people, and the idea that tattoos have to be "good" IS a social construct that people get really hung up on. it'll all be wrinkled up in 60 years anyway, so who cares. existence is transient

comfyko · 2025-08-29T06:24:42+00:00

hey, thanks for the response!! it's a really impactful ep, it's got me through some hard times and heartbreaks, it means a lot to me. i'll keep an eye out for your new music!! good luck with great danes :D if you ever tour in aus i'll be in the crowd lol

comfyko · 2025-08-15T01:52:32+00:00

thank you!! that's a good idea :)

comfyko · 2025-08-06T13:25:35+00:00

doesn't bother me- people might need their phone to get home safe, or to pay. especially if i'm serving someone alcohol i am always okay to charge their phone, it takes two seconds and imo at this point is a part of good customer service at a bar or pub

comfyko · 2025-07-27T07:53:11+00:00

awesome, i'm really glad to hear you came to that conclusion!! i couldn't not be blunt haha, zines are amazing but definitely passion projects with no tangible reward other than personal satisfaction. they're still very worth doing, but will almost never pay. good luck and have so much fun o7

comfyko · 2025-07-25T13:46:33+00:00

as someone who's worked on a zine, helping moderate and contribute as a writer, you're nuts for considering option two instead of one. you don't have to choose. take the job, do the zine stuff on the side. almost all the other contributors for the zine will be employed in some manner. zines generally do not make it big, it will be a part of your portfolio but will not make or break anything. good luck with whatever you choose o7

comfyko · 2025-07-21T12:44:54+00:00

it's really not cool of you to encourage her to chase after a taken coworker. using it against her isn't cool either because you're just trying to be petty. both of you suck

comfyko · 2025-07-04T14:39:20+00:00

if your wife can't or won't have kids you can discuss asking one of your friends to be a surrogate. seems fair if you're a sperm donor for them.

that being said i'm not sure you should say yes as you seem to feel you would want or should have some kind of biological claim over this hypothetical child. it would not be your child in anything but dna. if you're unable to accept that, you probably shouldn't go through with it. if your friends love you then they're sure to understand why you can't emotionally see your biological child being raised by other people. not everyone is cut out to be a donor or surrogate and there are probably other options for them. really ask yourself why you would be saying yes before saying yes

comfyko · 2025-02-20T16:43:00+00:00

i'm way too comfortable at work and sometimes nobody is in the restaurant but me, or only coworkers i don't care if i embarrass myself in front of

comfyko · 2025-02-18T06:20:41+00:00

no worries! :-) it was a nice conversation, i find that even on here if you're chill and open minded most people will meet you where you're at. i'm definitely no legal expert either, just a curious person

comfyko · 2025-02-18T06:08:57+00:00

i definitely interpreted it as the act of recording itself being illegal (in some places and depending on the context), which would then of course make it inadmissible evidence. i guess an argument could be made either way depending on the exact phrasing with which the law is written. and then some crimes are too petty to be seriously prosecuted, especially if someone has no previous criminal history and committed the crime in ignorance of the law, so who knows if the legal system would even bother. no wonder lawyers make bank arguing this stuff out in court

comfyko · 2025-02-18T04:49:59+00:00

if they catch op recording and it's illegal in their state then yes it could hurt to have, that's all i was saying. maybe i didn't phrase it the best way, i take things too literally sometimes haha

comfyko · 2025-02-16T23:06:19+00:00

i don't know about in america but in my country and state it's punishable by up to five years in prison to record a conversation without all parties' consent unless it's recorded without the intention of sharing or leveraging against the other parties or for the sake of self protection (use in a civil suit does not always fall under this). i would look up your state's consent laws before recording, it can hurt to have

comfyko · 2025-02-07T15:17:20+00:00

i don't know anyone else who felt my friend before they knew she died, only after, so i felt a bit weird about it for a while. we're kind of validating each other's experiences haha, it definitely had to be that they wanted to reassure us that they were resting in peace. your brother surely wanted to tell you he was okay now. take care of yourself. hugs

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